r/LavenderMarriageIndia

29F | Semi Qualified CA | Mumbai looking for a marriage of convenience.

A bit about me:

I identify as lesbian but due to personal, social, and family reasons, I’m looking for a mutually respectful arrangement with someone who understands this dynamic.

What I’m looking for: A gay or bisexual man who is more inclined toward men.

Someone open to a mutually agreed, open marriage setup.( You can have your dalliances and I can have mine)

*Hindu, Brahmin (Marathi guy) preferred (for family compatibility).

*Age range: 29- 35 (flexible based on compatibility)

Important: I would like not like to have children at all.

Expectations: •Mutual respect, honesty, and clear communication.

•Clear boundaries regarding personal relationships outside marriage.

•Ability to maintain a socially acceptable marriage while allowing personal freedom privately.

•Mature approach toward long-term responsibilities.

24 F here

Hi Myself 28 Male existing on spectrum - gay demisexual ~asexual, doctor by profession looking for lavender marriage to raise a family together where sexual intimacy or expectations are not there. From Haryana. Please DM

Hi guys...29F(ASEXUAL) here from haryana.

Looking for a JAAT male who can be anything but not straight 😂

I am from hindu family. Looking for girl who allow me to live like woman without knowing our parents. When i live like woman i look like complete woman.

Age: 26

· Location: Delhi

· Community: Muslim (important for family) (I am questioning the religion part and I'm not a follower of anything)

· Profession: Currently started teaching, planning nursing Ausbildung in Germany, has a Pharmacy Background.

I am looking for a man in similar situation (closeted / asexual / gay / not wanting traditional marriage)

· Age range: 26-35

· Location: India (any city) or already in Germany

· Willing to have a platonic, mutually respectful marriage.

Parents want arranged marriage soon. We don't have to love together, only appearance needed with your family until marriage, after that no need to attend any function if you don't want to.

And I am okay with anything, completely non judgemental. You can have your relationship outside marriage, and it can short term too. Like 5 years.

I will adopt children but no pressure to you, you can leave or stray, I want to adopt children on my own, and not untill I can afford it.

I won't rely on you financially fully, as I will be getting a small salary for the first three years and after that proper full salary, but I might need a bit of help in the first three years if needed for family. So Financially stable is the one I am looking for. After three years I will get full salary in Ausbildung and I am also amenable to support you when I start getting full salary.

You don't have to move to Germany with me. I am okay with living separately. We can connect by phone.

· Need someone who understands this emotional pressure

· No expectation of sex or children (lavender marriage only)

· Open to adoption in future (my dream, not requirement for partner, I will do it only when I have the means and money and I can handle the child alone. So you are not tied to it)

· Partner can stay in India, move to Germany later, or do whatever works for him.

· I will support each other in front of families but live independently when I am in Germany, before that in India I can live with your family for a bit, just for appearances.

I am open to signing a pre-nuptial or post-nuptial agreement (to protect both).

I Will share identity after initial trust is built and I expect same from him.

I am open to meeting in public places but not just after two or three chats. I am very protective of my identity and safety.

Please dm me, if you are interested.