u/Any-Palpitation8860

I'm super open about this. When I was a sophomore in high school, I had probably one of the best years of my life. I was the happiest I had ever been, and then that summer, everything just...plummeted. I became super depressed, and struggled a lot with self harm. It felt like fighting actual demons to try not to self harm. I also haves severe OCD, so my mind kind of create a scenario where I felt as though/and was completely convinced this was the case, that if I didn't harm myself, I would black out and end my life against my will, and I really didn't want to die. I harmed myself, and then texted 911 to let them know that I did this. They sent the police and EMTs. They looked at my injuries, and then I was put on a psychiatric hold at a hospital. I remember feeling so alone, and I don't ever want other people to feel that way, so I'm open to answering anything.

I've heard people say "do not go to the second location" but does anyone actually know what happens in "the second location" other than "nothing good" or "something you'll probably never survive". Everyone always discusses it in vague errie terms, but like, what happens at a second location?

My friend is about to be a first time mom to a baby girl. I want to get her something, but I want to get her something that she will appreciate, and that she probably wouldn't have thought about getting. I want it to be something that she will use as well. I don't mean clothes and stuffed animals, and swaddles and stuff. I'm quite sure she's got those covered. But I just want to get her something that will either make her life easier or her baby's life easier. If you've already had children, what is something that you either wish you had sooner, or something that you used the most. Or something you didn't think you would use as much as you did.

My friend is about to be a first time mom to a baby girl. I want to get her something, but I want to get her something that she will appreciate, and that she probably wouldn't have thought about getting. I want it to be something that she will use as well. I don't mean clothes and stuffed animals, and swaddles and stuff. I'm quite sure she's got those covered. But I just want to get her something that will either make her life easier or her baby's life easier. If you've already had children, what is something that you either wish you had sooner, or something that you used the most. Or something you didn't think you would use as much as you did.

My friend is about to be a first time mom to a baby girl. I want to get her something, but I want to get her something that she will appreciate, and that she probably wouldn't have thought about getting. I want it to be something that she will use as well. I don't mean clothes and stuffed animals, and swaddles and stuff. I'm quite sure she's got those covered. But I just want to get her something that will either make her life easier or her baby's life easier. If you've already had children, what is something that you either wish you had sooner, or something that you used the most. Or something you didn't think you would use as much as you did.