Hot take: Growing up is realizing Marty is the main character

Rus used to be the obvious favorite but the more times I've watched season 1 the more his edgelord ranting starts to grate at me. Maybe it's because I've grown more into my adult life but, watching Marty slowly fall apart and then come back together again in the end is the real character arc.

Cohl gives everything away, you can't get him to stop talking about his ideas, his past, who he is and what his motives are. He's a total give away. Don't get me wrong, he's a fantastic character and he's beautifully written, but Marty requires true analysis to figure out. Cohl essentially stays the same for me. He is grieving his daughter, divorced and traumatized from police work and has drug induced brain damage, he's a loner cop who is obsessed with his work and is essentially a savant (though not in an obnoxious OP way)

This is a character we've seen in other shows, even though a true detective clearly does it well, and almost everything about him is revealed through him talking about himself, or someone else talking about him. Of course have what is easily the best episode where he goes undercover with the iron crusaders and we see exactly how skilled he is at tradecraft, police work, and downright combat. I'm not saying he's a bad character so don't get too butthurt, just hear me on our Marty though.

Marty on the other hand is a cop secondarily. Marty is an onion whose layers are peeled every time I watch the season. He is a cop secondarily, his personal life is what consumes him, his affairs, his marriage, his struggles with his children, his alcohol consumption and everything in between. The case is a job that he uses as an excuse to avoid his life, he has the free time to fix his marriage but chooses to cheat instead. His story could exist completely outside the case and it would still be interesting, his story arc is about hitting rock bottom and then finding redemption. Also, no one ever seems to mention it's actually Marty who cracks the case in the end! He is the one who figured out the paint job on the house was significant and used it to find Childress, while cohl is going on long winded diatribes about neo-natalism and why nothing matters, Marty actually uses old school police work to solve the case. Keep in mind after Cohl quits, Marty stays on the force for years after. There is the scene where he sees the baby in the microwave (brilliant acting by harrelson in that scene) and the way he compromises himself by cheating with the same girl he tried to help earlier in the season. His redemption/recovery arc is apparent even in the police work, he kills Reggie Ladieu and redeems himself by finding the true killers in the end.

Anyways, I just feel like he deserves his flowers as a complicated and integral character and not just a side kick to cohl. In the end he's the better detective, and the more complicated of the two. The difference is with Cohl they tell us everything about him, but with Marty they show us. You have to observe him, not just listen to him.

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u/ApprehensiveFoot1878 — 2 days ago

Which state has the darkest history?

My personal opinion is Oklahoma, starting out as a dumping ground for displaced Native Americans, their slaves and the history of poverty and disenfranchisement even to this day. Not to mention the Osage reign of terror, the OKC bombings etc.

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Honorable mention is California, which is the state which I live who had the Mission system, the Japanese internment camps and the California genocide.

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u/ApprehensiveFoot1878 — 1 month ago

A song called "Snow" by unknown artist

This was a very dark but beautiful song with acoustic instruments and the album cover was kind of creepy with the musician wearing what I think was a gas mask of some kind.

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u/ApprehensiveFoot1878 — 2 months ago
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How do you stop being mad at people who've hurt you?

I'm 27 and my life has finally "started." I have a beautiful girlfriend who I think I might marry if things keep going well, I have my own business that pays the bills, I live in an awesome neighborhood, I have good friends, and I have a nice reliable car. All of these things are pretty basic for some people but I grew up on the wrong side of the tracks, abusive household, started using hard drugs when I was 13 and I got sober when I was 19 and left my family's house. It feels like for the last 7-8 years I've just been working so hard to have a life for myself and it's really paid off. This isn't a sob story just saying I have a lot to be grateful for.

So here's the problem, in my early 20s specifically in the recovery community a lot of older men I looked up to really bullied me, and I had a lot of fake friends who threw me under the bus publicly. Mostly petty drama and I certainly had my part in a few of those situations, but a lot of the times the older guys just saw me as an easy target and my self esteem was too low to say anything to protect myself. Long story short I went to therapy, did my 12 steps and I still sponsor other younger men myself. I'm in a much better place and I have much better friends now. I learned to stand up for myself and I cut a lot of people off, some of them did the hard part for me and stopped talking to me once I started to require respect and dignity.

I used to not understand why my dad was so angry all the time, I remember one time I called him to ask him a question and he answered by accident without realizing it and I just heard him punching his steering wheel and screaming. He used to tell me he hated everyone but hated his kids slightly less. It scares me because sometimes when I'm driving, showering, or laying in bed at night I get over taken with hot flashes thinking about these guys I looked up to who clowned on me and made me feel like shit and it ruins my peace. Sometimes I consider calling some of them randomly and telling them how much I fucking hate them. But I never do, and I already know it won't help and that I should just live my life the way it is. I don't need advice for setting boundaries or managing my friendships, I figured out how to stand up for myself. I just need to know how to move the fuck on so I can enjoy how awesome my life is now with out randomly getting pissed off for no reason. I've been trying to identify if something triggers it but it truly seems to happen at random. It seems like a lot of men deal with this kind of stuff, I'd love some advice from some of the older (or younger more healed) heads.

Thank you.

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u/ApprehensiveFoot1878 — 2 months ago