u/Arden_V_Brooks

**TL;DR;** : I got divorced, so far I haven't been in love or particularly attracted to any of my exes in the beginning of the relationship. Now I want that, but it seems like I don't have the manual everyone else seems to have. What should I do to find a man who would want to take care of me the way I always care for others?

I 29F got divorced 31M after 5 years of relationship (2 of them were the marriage) and I am now feeling like I must have missed some kind of manual everyone else seems to have. How does one find a relationship in their early 30s? I want to actually move from Czechia to Ireland (hopefully in two years) so I joined Hinge and I explicitly said what my plan is and that I am looking for a life partner. Every previous man I dated was from work or school and I never felt being in love with them at the beginning. I basically said yes every time someone was interested and then tried to make it work unless they decided I was no longer interesting enough (a direct reason for one of the breakups).

Now I want to actually be in love and be at least a bit attracted to my partner and also I wish for them to not just want my body and the convenience of my cooking and cleaning, but also to be interested in who I am. I also wish to be comforted and addressed with soft pet names, but that seems like too much to ask.

Can you give me some advice? I feel very lost.

I 29F got divorced 31M after 5 years of relationship (2 of them were the marriage) and I am now feeling like I must have missed some kind of manual everyone else seems to have. How does one find a relationship in their early 30s? I want to actually move from Czechia to Ireland (hopefully in two years) so I joined Hinge and I explicitly said what my plan is and that I am looking for a life partner. Every previous man I dated was from work or school and I never felt being in love with them at the beginning. I basically said yes every time someone was interested and then tried to make it work unless they decided I was no longer interesting enough (a direct reason for one of the breakups).

Now I want to actually be in love and be at least a bit attracted to my partner and also I wish for them to not just want my body and the convenience of my cooking and cleaning, but also to be interested in who I am. I also wish to be comforted and addressed with soft pet names, but that seems like too much to ask.

Can you give me some advice? I feel very lost.

After I was informed about how difficult it is to relocate to UK, I am now thinking about moving to Ireland. What one has to do to successfully settle there? How are the locals towards immigrants? And what issues one can face? I know about the housing crisis, but to be fair its not that different from what is happening in Czechia. I was warned about the cost of basics, but yet again, it's not that different from Czechia (groceries for example are very comparable).

I am from Czechia (29F) but for way too long I am dreaming about moving to UK and settling there. Is still possible after Brexit? Meaning how do people accept it? Can one be successful as an immigrant? How do Brits view dating a foreigner?

Recently divorced Czech woman trying to figure out whether moving to the UK alone someday is realistic. Has anyone here actually rebuilt their life internationally in their 30s?

Recently divorced Czech woman trying to figure out whether moving to the UK alone someday is realistic. Has anyone here actually rebuilt their life internationally in their 30s?