u/AvailablePeach

Any tips on how to preserve the color and texture of shirts? Mine tend to wear out and fade pretty quickly. I’ve already tried handwashing, but I don’t like how detergents smell once the clothes dry. I usually use Tide or Ariel. Can anyone recommend a detergent that smells good even after drying? I don’t use fabcon because it makes the fabric too soft. I’ve tried using a laundry service as well, but it made my clothes worse since the fabric became even softer. Any tips please.

I was summoned by hr regarding an alleged sexual harassment case filed against one of my coworker last week. As far as I know, tatlo kaming victim.

My experience started when this assaulter invited me outside the office. I didn't think much of it at first, but I was shocked when he suddenly told me na gusto nya daw akong maging kabet. Nabigla ako and I didn't know how to respond. Then he attempted to kiss me on the lips.

After that, he asked me what I thought about it. I clearly told him that I did not consent and di ako interested maging kabet nya. Nung pabalik na kami ng office, nag attempt ulit sya na halikan ako. This time, tinulak ko sya and acted na wala lang nangyari, even though I was uncomfortable nung time na yun.

I kept the incident to myself for about three weeks. Eventually, I told a coworker what happened. Doon ko nalaman na may similar experience din pala yung isa naming coworker sa assaulter ko. Nag attempt din daw na halikan si coworker 1 natrauma daw and si coworker 2 naman muntik pa daw masuntok si assaulter.

Itong si coworker 1 nag resign. After a few days, I was summoned by hr regarding sa sexual harassment complaint. I was shocked because a lot of people already seemed to know about the incident, and some had even seen me being called into the hr meeting room.

Of course ang daming nagtanong bat ako pinatawag ng hr sa meeting room. I just said confidential yung meeting. The assaulter was suspended for five days. Fast forward, itong si assaulter pumasok today, and naka sun glasses pa and nakita ko na ako una nyang tiningnan pag pasok nya sa prod. It was uncomfortable and halos magkamali mali ako sa ginagawa ko kanina.

Now I feel like everyone's looking at me.

EDIT: btw, we're all guys, in case that's relevant

tanong lang

So I have this girl friend from work, tuwing nagcha-chat kami, lagi siyang humihingi ng opinions ko kung aling pics niya yung mas okay. She sends multiple photos mostly thirst traps and asks me to rate them, pero hindi naman niya pinopost sa instagram niya.

As someone na hirap maka-pick up ng signs, do you think may something behind it, or am I just her go to “honest opinion” friend?

Normal lang ba talaga maka feel ng emptiness? I feel like kahit ano machieve ko or gano pa ako maging masaya bigla nalang ako nawawalan ng gana, like biglang nawawala yung meaning ng lahat ng bagay and I end up just sitting there feeling nothing kahit okay naman lahat on the outside and sometimes I get the urge to end it all. Sana matapos nalang ang lahat ng to.