Help me help my mom find true love 🥹
Hiiii people. Posting for my mom because she is not on reddit.
TLDR: liberal-leftist muslim (but no alcohol), 56 yrs young, speaks 4 languages including french, 2 masters degrees (public health and pharmacology), 25 yrs long career, owns her own property and has travelled the world (still actively travelling too!). 3 grown daughters that are married and settled separately. Got married young into an abusive house.
Took 28 years to finally leave. Got 0 from the divorce so is basically restarting in life all over again but is the happiest pocketsized sunshine of a human you will ever meet. Loves to walk, go hiking, obsess over animals, read, and travel. Looking for a partner!
Long version:
I don’t know where to start cause honestly I can say so much about my mom. She is literally a rockstar. I’m 28 and somehow she has more energy and zest for life than I do. Unfortunately, she got married young at a time where in our home country education around emotional and financial abuse was not common. Neither her parents had the foresight to protect her from what was happening. Long story short it basically took us three daughters to grow up and force her to finally leave her abusive marriage, which she finally did and now is doing so much better. This was five years ago in that time she enrolled in a second masters to keep herself busy, got her masters in public health started learning French three years ago, which she is now proficient in. She is currently in Canada where all of our family lives, including her own parents, siblings and her daughters so ideally we’re trying to find someone for her here.
We’re looking for someone who is a Muslim (it’s OK if not super religious as long as there’s no alcohol and they can vibe on the same levels of modesty and social boundaries - no clubbing, no live in relationship before getting married, etc.)
If you know of a man who is 50+, well educated and into books, knowledge, and intellectually engaged, ideally has grown independent children (my mom‘s not really interested in getting with somebody who still living with his kids and is looking after them as she already has raised three successful daughters and is not looking to do it again) is a liberal Muslim and is personally vetted in terms of not being the problem in prior relationships, or is a widower and is somewhere in the GTA. I would love for us to connect him to my mom. She has been trying to meet people on the apps but honestly, I feel like the apps bring the worst and the worst of the men around here and the good guys are just not on there so this is me shooting my shot.
Honestly, it just breaks my heart looking at her because at this age I wish she could just retire chill with a loving companion and enjoy the rest of her life, but unfortunately, my dad did not let that happen for her. He was the one who screwed up, but is now living happily with the second wife in a huge house whereas she is still trying to find her footing in a new country without a partner. I just wish she could have the companionship she deserves. She has been the light of so many people‘s lives has absolutely loved every single person around her be a close friend family or extended and I just wish I can give her the same love that she has been giving other people so if you know of anyone comment here or send me a DM 🥹💕