About me: Canadian of South Asian ethnicity, good looking(open to pic exchange), I work out, educated, well mannered, respectful and well groomed. I’m a pretty laid back and chill person in a nutshell.
I drink casually, but I don’t do drugs and I am disease free. (Weed is fine)
I am not looking for something too serious.
If this is something you are looking for send me a dm.
The dating apps started to feel as fake and tedious as social media, and I'm in a bit of a "fuck it, why not?" phase, so here I am! Seeking my life partner/future wife/whatever we want to call it.
Me:
36, 6'2", white, on the slim side of fit (now 180lbs, used to be skinnier than I'd like to be, feeling much better about my body these days), ginger, bearded, and, despite feeling like it's not my place to say, handsome. Never married, no kids, nonsmoker. Otherwise, I:
What do I want from you? I'm looking for someone...
There's a lot more to me and a lot more to you. Send me a message that makes you say, "wow, did I type too much?"
Tomorrow, May 19. Badiali on Markham. 8:30pm.
That's the meetup. We're getting a damn slice and then we go home after meeting some reddit randos. Don't be afraid of putting your reddit name with your face. LFG.
Who's down? My post was removed because it was too short. Filler filler filler. Raccoonay pls. Is this long enough???
I'm a tattooed lady in black with a kitty backpack.
I keep seeing posts on this subreddit lamenting how hard it is to meet people. And... I feel y'all.
When I first joined the group it felt like there were a lot of public events being shared, but I haven't seen many recently.
So, lets change that.
In July (a Saturday tbd) I'd like to host a hangout in Trinity Bellwoods Park.
- It's totally free.
- Bringing friends is encouraged.
- I'll bring a speaker, music, some snacks, frisbee, some social games, etc. And if you bring snacks to share and games to play you'll earn social points. ;)
- BYOB.
- Dogs welcome.
If this sounds fun, comment below. The more people that express interest, the more people will wanna join. :)
So... who's ready to party?
Ben
Hello. I wanted to share this experience because I found it very odd and quite uncomfortable. I met someone off hinge for a first date this week. We had been chatting for two weeks. Nothing seemed out of the ordinary in these chats.
However, when I met him in person, his hair was all white instead of red, and he was visibly very anxious. During the date, he kept moving around, with flailing gestures such as pointing his finger at me, waving his arms, and he kept making contorted faces, such as raising his brows very high. He kept kicking out his legs as well.
The conversation went poorly. I tried to ask him questions such as what was his favourite movie or band and he was unable to answer those questions. He was very defensive and said that he must not be impressing me. I asked him if he liked to exercise and his rebuttal was that he must be too skinny.
This may have been out of line, but since he brought it up in the chat on hinge, I asked him if it’s hard getting back on the dating scene after so many years. I tried to empathize with him by telling him that I’ve been out of the game for ten years and am rusty myself. He then asked for feedback.
I then tried to help him and said maybe if you didn’t mumble your answers to my questions that would be better. He was defensive about this and said that I mumble too and the music was too loud. I also asked him to relax since he seemed so strung out.
Then because he was so visibly high, I said that I’m actually a drug addict myself (not true obviously). He was so relieved when I said this and kept talking about speed but didn’t admit to having done this prior to the date. I pressed a bit more and he said he had taken VyVance before the date. This could be true but reading up on it, I’m not sure if it would cause such erratic behavior.
As the date was going very poorly and I was feeling quite uncomfortable with his poor communication and unpredictable movements I got up to go to the bathroom and got a shot of vodka at the bar. When I returned he ordered himself another beer and I let the bartender know that I was finished with my drink.
He then got very upset, saying I must hate him, and that this must be the worst date that I’d ever been on. He made his hand into a fist and then was pumping it in the air. His eyes became completely dilated and he stared at me with them, all black, with no blinking. This went on for minutes. I was frightened and said I would pay for the bill and got up to go to the bar. While I was paying he yelled out curses and the bartender walked me out for my safety.
Has something similar happened to anyone else ?
I blocked him thereafter and reported him to Hinge for being unhinged. I would like to unpack this to understand how this could happen.
Late 40s Filipina gal>>>>> Gentle soul with a curious mind. Neurodivergent, spiritually open-minded, and drawn to meaningful connection, outdoor adventures, festivals, and life’s mysteries. I love being outdoors, volunteering, and diving into conversations about the unexplained, the paranormal, and all the strange things that make life interesting.
Looking to date men 35+ who are kind, emotionally aware, funny, and comfortable being authentically themselves. Ideally seeking someone without younger children still at home, and who’s open to building a genuine connection.
I’m 34, based in south Etobicoke, and looking to meet someone fun and easygoing for a casual connection. I like movies, trying new restaurants, exploring neighbourhoods, and finding new spots around the city.
If you are around this long weekend and want to grab a drink tonight, tomorrow, or Sunday, say hi.
My best friend encouraged me to join the Discord server for this group because that's how she met her boyfriend a while ago, but it seems pretty dead. Or maybe I'm using it wrong.
Has anyone else had luck through Discord and if so, some tips and tricks would be great to share here for those in a similar boat. I feel like I've tried every traditional avenue to meet people and this might be my last resort to finding my person.
Hi hi! 33F, South Asian, 5’2” (yes, petite, verified by the metric system 😌) and I’ve been told I have great wits (and okay fine, great tits too, had to make you laugh somehow).
I’m into the arts but work in tech — so it’s AI this, AI that by day, and galleries by the weekend. I will talk your ear off, make you laugh, drag you out for coffee, and then want to come home and read next to you in silence. I’m equal parts cute and hot depending on the hour.
Looking for:
Nerdy, well-read, and cultured. Has opinions about books, films, tech, science the works.
5’9”+ (sorry, it’s a thing)
Lives downtown — I want post-walk coffees, not post-walk Ubers home
Believes in monogamy, “the one,” romance, all of it
Anxious attachment welcome (I get it)
Any ethnicity, 2026 is the year of the open heart
Long-term or nothing, basically
I do NOT do nonchalant. I want super-chalant. A yearner. Born to love. The guy who makes the moves, sends the good morning text, plans the date. If “playing it cool” is your brand, we won’t vibe.
Send me a cute intro, tell me what you’re reading, what your downtown coffee order is, something that makes me smile. And of course we can exchange pictures.
PS: Not looking for some community dick.
Please and thank you.
A slightly different post than the usual on this subreddit. With summer approaching, I am planning to go out more to bars, 222 group settings etc. I am looking for a woman’s perspective to help me with my wardrobe, I definitely have a style that I have adhered too but would like opinion from a different perspective. If anyone would be interested in helping me out, please holler at me.