u/loocretius

hii
I'm 35, asian, male, based in downtown toronto looking for besties

I'm looking to meet people who:
- value their inner kid and don't take themselves too seriously,
- enjoy going out to watch movies, share music, grab dessert, going for long walks, go for bike rides, drinks, food
- we could talk about anything and everything, and make spontaneous plans
- up for being their authentic, positive selves in a judgment-free, supportive friendship

would love to have the kind of friendship where we can check in whenever, share what's going on in our lives, and keep the fun alive alongside the responsibilities.
msg me if interested :) thanks!

hey! i'm 35, asian, bi, living on my own in DT toronto with a stable job and an independent life. looking to connect with people i genuinely vibe with and see where things go. could be as a friend or something more. i'm open to let things unfold naturally.

what i'm into:
movies are a big one: open to most genres, but i lean toward sci-fi, action/ thriller, horror, and foreign films. im on a constant quest to find an actual good horror movie that doesn't rely on cheap jump scares (recs welcome 😅). outside of that, i like long walks around the city, biking the waterfront trail while summer's still here, checking out any interesting restaurants and outdoor patios, grabbing drinks, and catching whatever events are happening around town. i also have a serious sweet tooth.

what i'm looking for:
people who are emotionally available and genuinely interested in getting to know each other. i value intentionality: people who are thoughtful about their self-awareness and life journey, who care about the energy they carry and how they show up for others. i'm not fussed about job titles or income. what matters to me is how someone treats themselves and the people around them, whether they take initiative to grow, and whether they live with integrity that lines up with their values.

i find people really interesting and love hearing about what you're passionate about and what you like to do. i'm pretty open minded as long as you're positive, self aware, kind, and not self-centred or self-absorbed.

i try to keep my inner kid alive and would be nice to meet someone who’s the same. once i get to know someone, i'm a pretty intimate and affectionate person. i'm hoping for meaningful, long-term connections, whether that's a solid friendship or something deeper.

let's grab a drink, go for a walk, talk about whatever, and see if there's something there.

if any of this sounds interesting, shoot me a message [**pls tell me a bit about yourself too and what you’re looking for**!] and let's see where it goes ✌️☺️

hey everyone 👋

I'm 35, asian, bi, living on my own in downtown toronto, and I have a stable job that lets me be independent. by all accounts, life is good but still reflect on the thought of finding someone to share it with - not to fill a gap, but to grow with and share our lives together.

what I'm looking for:
someone who's intentional about their self-awareness and their life journey. someone who takes initiative to grow, to understand themselves better, and who cares about how they show up for the people around them. i’m not really concerned with how much you make or where you sit on an org chart. what matters to me is how you treat yourself and the people in your life, whether you operate with integrity that's consistent with your values, and whether you're genuinely interested in being a positive influence on the people around you.

i appreciate open-mindedness and curiosity — people who can hold different perspectives without ego, and who care about compatibility in values while staying flexible about how we build a life together.

A bit about me and what I value:
I try to stay in touch with my inner kid. I think seeing the world with curiosity, wonder, and playfulness keeps things alive. I'm a pretty intimate person. my love language is physical touch, and I value emotional attunement just as much. I want a deep, meaningful connection with someone who actually likes spending time together - the kind where we keep "dating" each other intentionally, putting in reciprocal effort to build trust and connection so we can navigate whatever life throws at us as a team and i know no matter what happens we have each other’s back.

I'm not chasing extravagance and I don't need us to be a power couple. I want to find peace and stability with someone who knows what actually matters at the end of the day - someone who can make each other happy without buying into anything external. a life-long romance that's both passionate and patient, where we both keep the fire going and make it feel like home.

If any of this resonates, would love to hear from you. Happy to share more and go from there 😊

The basics about me: 35, bi, male, asian, live in downtown Toronto, work full-time, living solo, no kids or pets. positive, chill vibes overall ✨

pretty independent, but looking for like-minded people who i can share my life with - genuine connections, whether as friends, for dating, or something that evolves into both. I’m drawn to people who value kindness, growth, and showing up for themselves and others.

what matters to me:
- self-awareness and willingness to grow (we all have work to do!)
- playfulness and staying in touch with our inner kid
- intimacy, deep conversations, and meaningful connection
- being a positive influence and taking care of ourselves and each other

how I like to spend my time:
movies, exploring food and desserts, long walks or bike rides when the weather's good, and checking out interesting city events.

not looking for: entitlement/ self-centred energy doesn't vibe well with me 😓

if you're someone who's done some inner work, values authenticity, and wants to support each other in becoming better versions of ourselves, send me a message :)

hope everyone's enjoying their summer! it's flying by and trying to make the most of what's left of the warm weather.

looking for people to join me on rides along the waterfront trail. weeknights - usually head west toward the humber arch bridge or east towards woodbine beach/ tommy thompson park for the shorter evening rides. weekends i'm open to longer routes with more time to play with.

i ride a road bike but it's more about fun than pace or stats. always better with company, dm if you're interested!

hai ☺️,

i’m 35, male, asian, live downtown, and putting this out there to try and meet like-minded people who want to make meaningful connections.

a bit about me: i love movies, coffee, desserts, checking out new restaurants and bars, long walks paired with deep conversations, checking out any interesting events in the city, and biking specially in the summer as a way to explore and just spend time outside. i try to stay tapped into my inner kid and not take things too seriously. i think keeping a sense of curiosity and playfulness is important 🙂. pretty down to earth and chill by nature.

i’d say i’ve done a fair amount of self-reflection and personal growth work, and ideally looking for people who are on a similar wavelength: who are fairly self-aware, actively working on themselves, at least enough to strive to be a positive presence with people around them.

not really looking for surface-level hangouts (though those have their place). I would want to actually get to know you, support your goals, and have someone who's in my corner too.

Ideally: we grab food or coffee, go for a walk, catch a film, bike the waterfront, or check out whatever's happening in the city. I like being out and about and discovering new things.

If you're someone who values presence, honest conversation, and the kind of friendship where you can talk about anything, then DM me! happy to exchange a bit back and forth before meeting up to make sure we click.

Took a break for some years and recently brought my account back to life. Looking for friends who are active for daily gift exchange and also send me back ✌️

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Hi everyone,

Looking for advice from more seasoned cyclists considering all the recent changes to the bike lanes downtown. If I were coming from MEC on Queen St. West and Soho and want to get to the waterfront trail, what would be the safest road to take down to keep me away from cars as much as possible? Ideally, it’s a physically protected bike lane, but looking for any advice to make it south to the waterfront trail as protected as possible. Thank you in advance!

I've been cycling for a while now and it's one of my favourite things to do in the summer. I'm more of an enthusiast. I don't really track metrics much, I just like getting out there when it's sunny and warm. I ride a road bike with flat pedals (☺️). my Strava rides have photos of my buddy from pokémon Go sometimes and whatnot lol

What I'm really after is chill company for rides along the waterfront trail - heading east or west, both are great. I usually do somewhere in the 20–50km range on my own, but I'm flexible. I like taking in the sights, stopping when something looks cool, and just enjoying being out.

Mostly I've been riding solo, or join some group rides on Strava/ Meetup. I'd love to find some regular biking buddies - and if we click, I'm totally open to hanging out beyond just cycling too. Whether that's grabbing food after a ride, checking out other stuff around the city, or whatever shared hobbies we might have.

A bit about me: I'm a pretty easygoing guy in my 30’s, just looking to meet some friendly people and make the most of the summer. If you’re interested, drop a comment or DM and we can plan something ☺️ 🚴‍♂️☀️

I've been cycling for a while now and it's one of my favourite things to do in the summer. I'm more of an enthusiast. I don't really track metrics much, I just like getting out there when it's sunny and warm. I ride a road bike with flat pedals (☺️). my Strava rides have photos of my buddy from pokémon Go sometimes and whatnot lol

What I'm really after is chill company for rides along the waterfront trail - heading east or west, both are great. I usually do somewhere in the 20–50km range on my own, but I'm flexible. I like taking in the sights, stopping when something looks cool, and just enjoying being out.

Mostly I've been riding solo, or join some group rides on Strava/ Meetup. I'd love to find some regular biking buddies — and if we click, I'm totally open to hanging out beyond just cycling too. Whether that's grabbing food after a ride, checking out other stuff around the city, or whatever shared hobbies we might have.

A bit about me: I'm a pretty easygoing guy in my 30’s, just looking to meet some friendly people and make the most of the summer. If you’re interested, drop a comment or DM and we can plan something ☺️ 🚴‍♂️☀️