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Today my husband was fondling me from behind and being all goofy while I loaded the dishwasher. He pulled my pants down and fondled more then pulled them back up. I am 4 month pp so my tummy is loose it hangs and has stretch marks and is my biggest insecurity. It is normally tucked into high waisted pants but when he pulled them back up it was hanging out. He turned me around to kiss me before I could adjust them and when he looked I me he said ew why does it look like that. It was absolutely devastating… He immediately tried to take back what he had said but you can’t take it back. Now all day he is all touchy feely and calling me hot and sexy trying to fix what has been done. He keeps trying to bring me snacks which is absolutely the last thing I want. I just want to cry every time I think about how he looked and sounded when he said it. He says it was s joke and I’m just being sensitive I just feel disgusted with myself and don’t know how to move on.

I am just about 4 months pp from my c-section and me and hubby had a bit of a miss hap now I’m terrified I’m pregnant and waiting till I can take a test. How bad is this?? Is it dangerous for me to be pregnant again this soon would I need to get an abortion for my safety or will I be okay?

My husband has informed me he will be canceling our credit card we got together when I was working because he doesn’t understand how we spend so much money ( he will be keeping his personal one). I am now a sahm to a 4 month old and stopped working in my third trimester due to health issues during the pregnancy. This is my only form of money I have access to. I cannot use online banking to pay any of our bills or use his debit card I feel like a child. I don’t even know the last time I bought something for myself other than nursing bras. It all goes to necessities and baby stuff . I’m not sure where the money is going either because I cannot access it to look things over and budget. But anyways congratulations you have bought yourself the joy of doing the grocery shopping, filling my car up with gas, the drug store, pet store, doctors, dentist, vet visits if you would like to be like that. He has also informed me he no longer wants me to be a sahm and has our baby on a waiting list for day care even though before we had the baby all he could talk about is how he wanted me at home with the kids and couldn’t imagine them in daycare because I was going to be such a fabulous mother. So I guess maybe I don’t do a good job I’m not sure what I did wrong.

What am I doing wrong. Since 3 months (my baby is almost 4 months now)absolutely loses it every time I pick him up for a nap. His wake window is only about an hour or hour and a half before he starts getting fussy while playing so I don’t think he is over tired. We sit down and I pop the soother in his mouth and he absolutely cries his lungs out for about five minutes then passes out is this normal or am I doing something wrong. He doesn’t do this at night he actually puts himself to sleep quite nicely at night.

Why does my husband not see I’m drowning right in front of him. He makes jokes saying I’m not the typical house wife and laughs saying it’s ok though. It hurts though I used to love keeping the house clean, yard work, baking, cooking, running errands and now I just feel like a shell of myself on autopilot. I want to get out and about but my husband doesn’t like me driving around just because we live in a rural area so it’s quite a drive to get to town and wants to save money on gas. I’m almost 4 months postpartum and I think my hormones are finally crashing. I cannot get myself to ask him for support so I just silently cry for help hoping he notices but he doesn’t he just thinks I’m mad all the time. I love my baby so much and it kills me knowing Im not my best self for him. What do I do I’m falling apart.

I breast-fed my baby for the first week of his life then switched to exclusively pumping because it was so painful now my baby is three months and I decided to try again he will latch with a nipple shield but how do I know when he’s full and how long should I be feeding him on each side I usually get 3 ounces from one side and 2 1/2 from the other pumping if that makes a difference.

Theirs no way my three month old could be teething right he is just absolutely inconsolable today.

Should I be trying to get my 3 month old on a schedule or is it still too early for that?

Is the Eufy S1 worth it I have the mom cozy M5 and don’t love it but would still really like a wearable pump. Or is their a different wearable pump you recommend.

What was your first period pp like. I’m 2 month pp and was lightly bleeding yesterday and assumed I had gotten my period back but by morning there was nothing. Could this be my period just being strange or is it just spotting and if it’s spotting is this normal? I stopped pp bleeding at 6 weeks.

I exclusively pump for my baby and he didn’t poop for 3 days today he finally pooped and it looked foamy is that normal?

If you got pregnant before your doctors recommendation on how long to wait after a c section how did that pregnancy go, was their any complications?

My baby leaks a lot of milk out of the corners of his mouth when eating we use the Tommy tippy bottles with the level one nipple is there any suggestions on how to make that stop or any bottle recommendations that would maybe not do that.

After pregnancy I just had no appetite. This ended up dropping my supply and I had to start comb feeding. Started forcing myself to eat more protein packed foods and I am proud to say I can now freeze 6 oz about every 3 days so I am a happy momma. Not losing the pregnancy weight fast like I was hoping to because of this but that day will come! Sorry just had to say this somewhere to people that understand.

How many moms have ripped stitches after the 6 week mark?

I’m so confused on what to do when I used size 21 it seems like too much of my areola is going into the pump so I put a 19 insert in but now my nipples seem to be bruising I’m so lost any advice could 19 be right and my nipples just need to get used to it??

When were you able to start wearing your normal underwear I’m a thong girl but it hurts my incision to wear them. I’m so over the high wasted granny panties :/

I gave my baby a bottle with half breast milk and half formula last night because I have a bit of a supply issue. I gave it as the last bottle before what is normally his longest sleep of the night and it ended up being a terrible night. He woke up every 2 hours and did not have his long 4 hour first sleep as usual. Was this the issue or did it just happen to be a bad night Im scared to do it again.

Is it possible my breast milk isn’t giving my baby enough. My baby is 1 month and is wanting to drink 6oz sometimes (I pump). The issue is he then throws up because he drank too much. Is my breast milk not filling enough that he is wanting to drink so much each feeding?
I give him 4 oz to start but often in the evenings he doesn’t seem full and just keeps signalling for more so I go oz by oz after that and try to give it about 20 min to see if he will relax first. Is he just being fussy or does he actually need more should I be trying formula?