u/Away-Mountain334

Hi! I have a friend who lives a state away, so about an hour and 45 minutes. She is coming in to town in a few weeks to visit another friend of ours(who she is much closer to than I am) for a weekend. She asked if we could hang out on a Friday while the friend she is visiting is at work. I also work on Fridays but remotely. At first I said possibly, but now I realize it may be tricky to take that day off. I offered to hang over the weekend instead, but she says they have their entire weekend planned.

I’m totally feeling used as a place for her to go/something for her to do while our friend she’s staying with is working. She is really pushing for me to take the day off but I just don’t want to use a vacation day for that. Am I wrong for not making the time for her to come see me?

Hi! I have a friend who lives a state away, so about an hour and 45 minutes. She is coming in to town in a few weeks to visit another friend of ours(who she is much closer to than I am) for a weekend. She asked if we could hang out on a Friday while the friend she is visiting is at work. I also work on Fridays but remotely. At first I said possibly, but now I realize it may be tricky to take that day off. I offered to hang over the weekend instead, but she says they have their entire weekend planned. I’m totally feeling used as a place for her to go/something for her to do while our friend she’s staying with is working. She is really pushing for me to take the day off but I just don’t want to use a vacation day for that. Am I wrong for not making the time for her to come see me?

Hi everyone, I have decided to start immunotherapy for my allergies and cannot decide between shots or drops. My allergies include dust mites, anima dander, pollen, mold, grass (basically the whole indoor panel). Insurance covers shots in full, but I don’t love the idea of going to the office weekly. Any advice?