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I know right answer is "don't ruin the guy's life."

I been on dating and arranged marriage apps for years. I myself am a chubby girl who is at best average in looks.

The guys I am attracted to, don't return the same response. The guys I am not attracted to, are attracted to me. Both guys have good personalities, the former I prefer don't find me attractive.

I really wanna be attracted to guys who are attracted to me, for once I love it be mutual. I hate my mind, like why do I always pine for guys out of my range.

Recently I got matched with a guy, talked to him, he is intelligent, kind, he has everything. But the only factor that is stopping me is physical attraction.

At this rate I feel like I will be forever be alone cause I am aiming too high. I never cared about money stuff or status stuff. But guys never liked me back when I find them attractive. And it makes sense cause I am not a beautiful girl. (please don't say I am beautiful, I know I a 5/10 at best).

People who are in long time in relationships, if the other person despite not attractive physically, would you come to love them when they are compatible and treat you nicely. will my mind change. I never been in relationship, so I am asking here, will it change??

or should I just stay single for rest of my life, cause mutual attraction is not in my life. I'm already 30, I tried, I never get approached or even considered by guys who I find attractive. This is just frying my mind. Does everyone has the luck and blessing to be in passionate and secure love??? or everyone around me just adjust to some factors cause you can't have everything??? And how do you have sex if you aren't attracted???

I have witnessed this many times during my school day and college days.

Every class I been there is always that one group that always stood out no matter what to anyone and are known well by other students.

It is not just a group of pleasant looking people, but also someone who either excelled at something or someone that had talent towards something that attracts audience, or someone coming from rich background. I always had seen these people becoming friends with each other. Always well dressed, especially good hair styles.

I never couldn't relate cause I was average at everything. they are all bunch of nice people and spoke well to me but whenever I tried to be part of them I can instantly sense "hey this group is closed, no more". they are all nice but still there is a wall. it wasn't like when you are kids that you can make friends with everyone with just a hi. at least as adults money can bring similar people but i think it starts from school only. (what in psychology is this?)

i wasn't pursuing cause I wanted to be part of them only and not with others. But I always tried to make friends with everyone and in the end I end up with group similar like me. And to this day this popular group remains mysterious to me, like how do these girls find each other, do they already recognize each other talent. Mind you these girls are good at studies or had talents too that made them stood out. But how can they tell form a glance and end up as friends in initial days. is it from clothes and attire alone? vibes?

I am just very curious how this happens, and why do they only are friends with someone similar like them. ( i am aware exceptions exist too, seen those too, but what I said had also been observed many times.)

I am hoping for Varka Prune Cryo traveller to be a team and 4th can be whoever good there.

I am kinda desperate for job since i have over 1.5 year career gap. This company has contacted me out of blue. i didn't apply. I work in fmcg sales.

they told me about role and said a position is available that i'm suitable. they said they will match my previous salary too. i'm grateful but worried to what my future looks like.

this position I working generally has three levels, level 1 being low to 3 being high. Same job but different packages. Also promotions also go that way. After level 3 , it is managerial role.

The previous company I worked, I belong to level 2 of this position. I got job from capmus drive. but the HR told me since I have only 2 years experience in my belt in their company I am qualified for level 1 only.

What I'm worried is in future can I transform myself to higher level roles after working 1 or 2 years, can I apply directly for managerial roles where company in JD says minimum 3 experience or will HR just look at me and say isn't your position bit low, despite 4 years of experience, we want someone on higher level.

At the end I might take job cause economy is so bad and have to be grateful, but how should I progress so in a way I get managerial roles during switch. Is it easy for me to switch after few years. do companies hire lower position people even if have right no. of years experience on what they ask in JD.

I am planning to pull Zibai just to play Zhongli. I got him cause he is my favorute archon but literally every team he goes it is a dps loss. I still use him with Neuvillete on archaic petra.

I been forever wanting a non pyro geo team. I like lunar geo reactions as they look so clean and I have c4 illuga. Hopefully illuga comes on Zibai banner so I can try for c6.

I plan to play illuga columbina zibai and zhongli all on their best f2p weapons. Does anyone played this team, is it good for stygian fearless?

We all know the beta cycle anyway.

Genshin first worst decision was to release not just one support but two of his best supports 2 patches later.

Making prune not having shield or varka having resistance but giving it to nicole instead. Making him lock to pyro. As much as lore nicole has shield varka could have atleast gotten c1 arle and neuv treatment.

Locking him to must pull weapon, and on top of that his f2p weapons are not tha great and locked to pyro again.

Despite dedicating entire 6.4 patch for Varka, it was a story quest that every character gets and a event that is not even permanent. And not just for years he left his nation the reason they gave is abyss and roland when they could have shown how he utilised the time to also make agreements or did business with archons on his way to nodkrai (it was such a missed opportunity).

I have him and really enjoy his playstyle. If he had his atleast prune released along with him during release and wasn't locked to pyro and has actually had more screentime in nodkrai, his banner would have been performing much better than it had. He didn't get one hype moment too, hype moments sell well for banners. I mean that moon pulling, would have been written in a way arle helps indirectly but use only Varka in that scene to let him have his moment. (i mean arle already got so many cool moments). They never let bro shine in main quests solo.

My team is kokomi, sucrose c6, lauma and nefer r1.

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Yes I use kokomi and she is on r5 sac frag and instructor set.

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But Im confused with artifacts, I know nefer will go with purple set.

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But lauma and sucrose who gets sms , who gets deepwood.

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And rotation, should sucrose go first or lauma af ter I use kokomi burst.

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For now I am using nefer e skill tap, Kokomi e skill, then lauma e skill and burst on sms , sucrose deepwood, kokomi burst and finally nefer dealing damage. Is this optimal for this team and right artifacts?

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SO i applied for 5 positions recently in same company. 4 of them are same roles just different locations. I only did cause I wanted to have chances in case one postion is already filled (most career website still leave it open despite the position is filled or sometimes the position doesn't exist for real) or perhaps they have different HR looking for each location. for each 4 it is same resume, no changes cause all are same role.

the 5th application role is different but I have relevant experience and I changed my resume accordingly and applied for it.

I have almost 2 year career gap. I'm from India. How bad does this make me look? technically I applied only for two different positions but will HR feel like I am unfocused or something. or will i look desperate cause i am desperate and will purposely avoid me. I applied them all at same time. I applied for fmcg company.

For me Pantalone I see him as Cryo for some reason. I know most people tend to tag dendro with him, but cryo vision seems to suit it better.

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As for dottore I see him having either dendro or electro.

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Gosh hope they become playable and are perfect for each other in team building. Like neuvilette furina.

In 4.months Ill officially reach 2 yr career gap. I been try jobs for past 8 months, despite having 2 yrs experience I am not even getting interview. Few HR call me, asks me questions about gap, I tell them quit to help family when in reality I quit to cure my depression.

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I thought i could make a come back after resting 1 year, but even same kind of work HR just contact me and ghost me.

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I am 28 yrs unmarried, any woman been in similar situation, does my age and being female is the reason i am getting rejected cause I am not getting my application selected for similar roles I had done previously. I am not even asking for high salary agreeing to budget.

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I keep wondering maybe they think ill get married and will take break again and hence they are not moving forward with me to even for interview. I used to work in field sales as territory manager for q very good company, it is a very male dominated field.

ps - people who dmed me, thanks for enocuraging and helping messages but for some reason I am unable to accept (maybe some bug), so i cannot reply. I will try later and see if i can reply.

I got her Prune c2, it is better than venti but I still cannot remove my archon. Having angel, dragon, archon and a grandmaster seems like the right team lol, not to mention their unparallel beautiful designs and relationship to one another. Also for exploring varka and venti duo is the best.

I use venti mostly, only switch to prune if any floor in endgames become too tough. But for abyss venti on stringless or fav is still good.

Honestly Men have evey right to want a working woman, but the way they are expecting is ridiculous.

Indian AM lot of woman not working are getting rejected mainly due to this factor. This change came in last few years and it is a drastic change cause some families woman grew up not planning about career due to families putting marriage and housewife thing from early stages of girl life. Now suddenly the world is different and career woman are high in demand in AM. Parents who didn't invest in girl education are now suffering from not getting good prospects cause they didn't expect this change and girl is suffering due to this.

Even fellow women I personally know look down upon a woman wanting to be housewife. Even though feminism is about respecting a woman choice.

Men these days saying I want working women cause I can also do 5050 chores. As someone who seen my sisters whose husband do that 5050. They never really do 5050 chores. Most minimal tasks that get overlooked is taken care by working wives only. Little tasks that take up lot of time little by little that men generally don't even know it exists. When it comes to housework Men just care about result, they don't care about quality of result.

But These days men just ask for working women saying I thought you guys fight for equality. What about my preferences. They still think now that woman is earning they doing 5050 means both are at equal positions when reality is farway. And if we say anything they keep arguing woman stealing in name of alimony. (That's the only arguement they have when in India divorces are still low compared to developed countries, also why get married if your trust level is so low from the beginning just write a prenup)

What they really want is income so they can feel less stressed in job and enjoy dual income benefits. do chores done by machines but leave lot of menial stuff to you, expect you to tear your vagina and give birth but you have to earn at least 70% of their income and return to work cause his mom will come and live with you for months and raise that child when you as a mother should part and trust your mother in law can raise that child well with the principles you believe. They want you to work, but you shouldn't earn more then them to not hurt their ego, or men who want you to earn more not cause they genuinely like you are succeeding but because they just want money. Want a working women, but she has to work in same city and get promoted in same city only.

Depsite men saying they too do chores, working woman still contribute more in house work and gives up on her body after marriage. If you want to marry a career woman, then be prepared to support her if she chooses career over child, not every woman can handle birth and return to work. Pregnancy is a huge gamble, you can either come out good or bad.

Children are gamble, you can either get peaceful kids who give you time for career, or a child who constantly needs care.

Be prepared to transfer to other cities if she gets a good promotion, get ready to stay in long distance while you look for job in that city.

But no, you are not prepared for any of these yet you demand for working woman is ridiculous. Demand for working woman if you can wholly support every aspect of it.

Ps- i know ladies some of you may have best husands as working woman, but not everyone has that atleast majority.

Most fans think dottore mains are delusional to think a irredeemable villain will be playable.

Honestly I hate such immature takes by both fandom and company.

There are lot of well loved villains across movies and games. Like Joker, DR Octopus, Goblin etc. who make kot of sales.

You simply pull a character if you like them or you can skip them. You get a brand new character every patch.

I used to wish hoyo releases dottore and Pantalone as dps and dedicated sub dps. So rest of fans can stop complaining "ah I cannot pull my favourite character cause its only good with dottore and I hate to see him in my game"

Most dottore and pantalone mains like each other fandoms due to their friendship. So that 8ssue could be solved making them for each other in play too.

But alas , now even Pantalone is questionable.

I am seriously think after sandrone there is no more female fatui left. Are we seriously gonna get no harbringer character release in Sheznaya, the nation of harbingers. If genshin goes out of way to make some rando women a harbringer and release her instead of existing members we know, it just is such a sexist thing they would be doing. This would he the peak sexist thing they wouod be doing till date. I really hope they release remaining fatui in shez.

Dottore and Pantalone could be released in sheznaya together. We could get childe buffs too along with liyue buffs. Capitano could be released during khanriah along with dainslef.

Pucinali and Jester are kind if questionable cause compared to other fatui they are least liked, not cause of character, cause most fans are age brackets of teens to 20s. So its is matter of gacha aesthetics at that point. Although i wish they are playable too.