u/Awkward_Enigma1303

23M here Remote Software Developer was in Delhi up until 5-6 months ago , Okayishly Earning ig , made Hinge/Bumble profiles, initially got 2-3 matches on each, most of them were either just into talking for time pass, or had expectations of marriage.

A lot of the bio's of women on these dating apps mentions Car's and drives, I mean most guys who are in their early 20s won't be having cars , Unless papa ka paisaa hai i guess right? And now it seems impossible to find matches, I am not a hot looking guy anyways I know.

How do women want to be approached here, If at all and fellow Men , how have you been able to find your partner.

Allmost all my friends from school have moved out btw, so I fukin don't have anyone here right now.

Thenks

Need some career guidance from experienced folks here.

I have graduated with a B.Tech in CSE this year only from a tier 2ish pvt college and recently joined a mid-sized startup through an intern-to-FTE conversion. My current package is ₹10 LPA (₹9L fixed + ₹1L variable). The role is fully remote, and since I live with my parents, my expenses are quite low, so I'm able to save and invest a significant portion of my salary.

I'm trying to think long-term about my career and would appreciate advice on a few things:

- As a fresher, how long should I stay in my first company before considering a switch?

- What are good indicators that it's time to switch, and what are signs that it's better to stay and continue learning?

- Is it worth continuously preparing for interviews and DSA/System Design on the side, even when I'm not actively job hunting?

- With the rapid growth of AI, should someone starting out as a software engineer actively try to move toward AI-focused roles?

- If yes, what paths seem the most promising for someone with a traditional software engineering background?

- AI/ML Engineer?

- Applied AI Engineer?

- AI-native Software Engineer?

- Infrastructure/MLOps?

- Something else?

- How do you balance becoming a strong software engineer versus specializing early in AI?

Would love to hear from people who were in a similar position a few years ago and what they would do differently if they were starting today.

So i used to play Valorant like 3.5-4 years ago , it was my first PC fps shooter reached silver after 200-400 hours.

Recently started again in Feburary, struggled initially, reached Silver2-3 by the previous act, and now somehow I have ranked up slowly to Platinum 1, yes in just 1 month.

My win percentage is 66% (100 Wins) and yes I solo queue, ig my MMR is bad, i get weaker opponents usually.

I Main sage 90% of the times and overall KD is like just 1.05 , I do try not to run behind exit frags and all . I do top frag but it's just becoming less and less common nowadays.

My mechanics are very weak, I just have super inconsistent aim, end up spraying I just play angles and around my players. Recently won a bit in plat and faced a proper good lobby and went 5/18. I don't even feel like playing anymore 😭.

People think I am boosted or something and start trolling and abusing me. Is there a way I can calm my aim down? I mean it's very shaky most of the times, I don't have confidence and I start spraying, other times I can hit one taps when I am trying but I just don't have good straffing ig.

My Sensi is 0.5 with 1150 DPI.

Anyone been in a similar situation?

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