Is it normal to find bottoming painful?

Is it because I’m skinny? Is being thin bad for being a bottom? Idk it’s uncomfortable sometimes and feels great other times.

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u/BBfenderbender — 8 days ago

Does this make me a creep?

Back in like middle school I had this friend, fake name will be Dan. We were both in this friend group that would act super gay as a joke. But Dan you take it to a whole other level. He would grab my ass and make sexual remarks all the damn time. At first I was uncomfortable but started to like it. I didn’t consider myself gay at the time and convinced myself I just thought it was funny. Eventually he started kissing me a lot. I remember feeling super fuzzy. Around this time he had a girlfriend too. He changed schools and I stopped speaking to him but now that I know I’m gay that makes this whole thing really awkward. I’m ashamed I liked it and didn’t tell me. Am I a creep, this isn’t fan fiction I promise.

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u/BBfenderbender — 18 days ago

Is being submissive bad?

What does being submissive even look like in the context of a relationship/sex. The only times I’ve heard people called submissive it’s been in a way negative. Am I aloud to by kinda submissive. Submissive word counter: 4

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u/BBfenderbender — 20 days ago

How do you know if you’re a top or bottom?

Do you choose? Is it based on like how big you are because I’m like 100 pound and 5’10. Do you just pick what you like best?

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u/BBfenderbender — 22 days ago

Mine is I was called the f slur or maggot with an f from some kid in school at the top of his lungs. This was because I was really short and couldn’t get the volleyball in gym class over the net. Everyone went quiet and awkwardly looked around. The teacher was somewhere else idk what the hell she was doing. I went home and cried on my bed.

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u/BBfenderbender — 2 months ago