u/BabyWeenieDowg

He’s had end stage renal failure for 4 years and has done jack shit to manage his diet. Man probably has very little time left.

Do you think he’s doing this documentary as a final fuck you to everyone?

Long story short there was a rumor made about me, and a bunch of people whose names I didn’t even know decided to unanimously hate me and lock me out of rooms and scream at me. They wouldn’t discuss what the issue was so I went to HR and requested a no contact order and a transfer.

Now they’re doubling down. I have to be here until everything is set for my transfer. But they are acting like sweet innocent victims over something completely false

Advice?

For people whose spouses have left, or they themselves have left, for greener pastures - was it indeed greener?

I want all the tea

I failed clinical and was told on the very last day without any chance to try and fix it. Every single question and interaction was used against me, and I would have panic attacks whenever I interacted with her.

So I’ve taken a leave of absence and see my clinical tutor twice a week (30+ years of experience) - and she cannot see anything wrong with my performance. At all. Every thing my preceptor said I didn’t understand I’ve repeatedly shown I do understand.

Looking back I don’t feel she taught me anything - just sat in the back and marked me up for everything. Then when I asked if I was still in good standing she’d always say “you can fail at any time”.

I’ve tried to appeal - and they simply said too much was marked down for me to be able to go to the next clinical. But now I’m questioning everything. Do I have issues or was I abused? I don’t know.

I was in a good academic standing. But now I have an F they won’t let me get rid of

Any other opinions are welcome. Just don’t be too mean since I’m still in a fragile mental state. I just don’t want to deflect accountability

I was mathematically passing very comfortably. There was no remediation or performance improvement plan given to me. In fact she hasn’t given me any feedback for like a month despite me asking.

Today she told me (on the very last day of clinical) that she decided not to pass me. She said I asked too many questions and was unprofessional. I asked for specifics. I didn’t get them. I’m waiting for her to finally publish my final evaluation.

Any tips? I had no idea and I am genuinely blindsighted.

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Edit: got the final grade and I went from an 86% on the midterm to a 69% on the final.

She often had a habit of coming over to my desk while I was doing notes for the CJM, and showing me some niche stuff on Epic. Or would come up and quiz me on stuff randomly. This had nothing to do with patient care - I assumed they were casual interactions in the break room. On the final she wrote that I needed constant reminders and guidance.

She downgraded me for not knowing a surgical procedure term, and also for saying kidney instead of liver once a couple months ago

She claimed I was overly dependent while doing meds and needed constant prompting. She legally had to be in the room with me

Wrote that I repeat myself too often orally

Downgraded me for being in the bathroom when a nurse asked where I was. She wanted to see if I wanted to do a new skill - I was not in a prior commitment.

Downgraded me when the CNA did the surgical vitals instead of me. I was informed about it but not told to do it.

I had two very complex patients I was giving medications to. One was discharging, the other was a polypharm patient who was unable to walk and had frequent provider visits in the morning. I was marked down for not getting my assessment done on time for the second patient (can't go in there with the doctors in there), and taking two hours in total to finish meds. The Hosptial was literally overflowing

Claimed I didn’t know basic lab values or guidelines. I have no idea what this is.

Said I asked for too much help to do a SQ injection.

Claims I should have read up on giving an antibiotic before clinical. I’ve never given an antibiotic in clinical or SIM. Didn’t know I’d give one that day.

Marked me down for using the AI feature to get patient history. Said I didn’t know how to use Epic (I do)

Small charting errors from beginning of the semester.

Claimed I needed constant reminders to use lexicomp. I used it every day??? And I didn’t even pass meds most days.

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Some were straight up lies, others were personal attacks. I was never told I was in danger or what I could have done differently. Syllabus said I needed to get a learning plan or remediation