u/Background-Ad-8904

I really want to move to another state. I was born and raised in NYC and used to spend my summers in Wilmington, NC. I would get home sick for NC when I would get back to NYC and would countdown the months until it would be summer break again. So I was dead set on relocating to NC until I went on a trip to Atlanta, GA. I fell completely in love with Atlanta and now that's w my heart is but now I'm conflicted. I'm a single mother of 3 and I know Atlanta isn't great for dating but I think I could be okay with that or is that not being realistic? How's the school system, would I be able to find a job, and what would be the pros and cons of moving to Atlanta?

I've been in a relationship for 8 years and out of those 8 years I've spent 6 begging for intimacy and affection. When we didn't live together I'd see him every other weekend and there was never any issues with affection and intimacy. The minute we moved in together it became nonexistent. He looks like he's cringing when I touch him, or only lets me lay on him for a few minutes before he's asking me to move back to my side. We recently went a year and a half without sex, had sex once then went months agin without it. I've had multiple conversations about this and I always get lame excuses like he's tired, his body is aching from work, or if I want it I should initiate it but how if you look like you don't even want me to touch you. I've went through his things and found bottle of Trojan lubricants, extenze, and nipple stimulants. I haven't said anything because I know I shouldn't go through his things but I'm at my wits end. I'm starting to feel like shit about myself. Is it me?! Like I've never had this problem in any of my past relationships. Could it be he's just not attracted to me?

I'm a 40 year old mom so of 3 and just ended a 8 year relationship. I'm in no rush to start dating but where do people go to meet ppl? Or should I not even bother to entertain the idea of dating again?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years and loved together for 6. Ashamed to admit but I've been cheated on multiple times. He's claimed to have stopped but I highly doubt it and believe he's just gotten better at it. Why am I still with him you might wonder? Idk but my therapist and I are working on this. Anyway he has my location but refuses to share his. His work schedule isn't set it changes weekly so I always have to ask him when is he off and it's annoying because I forget and have to ask again and he gets annoyed. Well I've asked for a copy of his schedule and he ignores me or says that's unnecessary. Am I asking for too much?