Hi I'm 27F single actually looking for something serious and no games please. I love swimming, am open minded and am loyal to the person I choose. I live in Mansfield Texas, please feel free to ask me anything I'm an open book online but in person I am extremely shy
I (27NB) was diagnosed with HIV a little over 8 or 9 years ago and have been completely undetectable since I found out and while I am terrified to tell potential partners I always do so not to make them run away but a just in case something were to happen to me like I can't get my medications or something. But every time I do regardless of how much we like each other or even if we've said the big "L" word they always pull away and eventually leave. Is it so hard to ask for something that we still deserve despite what I have? Does anyone else know my pain? Or am I alone in this as I am in everything else? I just want to be loved and not pitied, I don't want to be treated like I have the plague or I'm untouchable, I personally don't feel human anymore because of this. And despite hundreds of people like me why do I feel so alone?
Hi I'm Dawhn, I'm 27 (F) I live in Mansfield Texas, and am looking for someone who's going to be patient, loving, loyal and just going to love me despite my flaws. There are two different sides of me when meeting someone, through text I can be bold and incredibly open minded altho in person I am very shy and quiet at least till I'm more comfortable
I (27F) feel a loss when it comes to relationships, I know everything goes both ways but I really do try my hardest to do what I can when in a relationship
You see while yes red flag number one I have no job, but that's also due greatly to the fact I'm medically disabled and am working for my much needed disability, red flag number two I can not drive as I never learned and am honestly scared to learn, red flag number three I an technically homeless and if it wasn't for my sister's ex-in-laws taking my mother and myself in this would probably be a totally different conversation on a totally different subreddit.
Now here's where I keep having trouble, I get attached too quickly and too easily and often feel like things are going completely fine between me and the person I'm talking to despite my insecurities like my weight or how I look because honestly I'm definitely not the best looking and often refer to myself as a walking blob fish.
Anyways things will look or feel right and we'll set up a time and date to meet and next thing I know the day right before we're supposed to meet they block me entirely or drop a bomb that should have been mentioned before like they themselves don't have a car. Or despite my asking to wait they get super sexual and nasty about meeting up.
What am I doing wrong? Am I the problem here? Why can't I find someone who is willing to take things slow but also at some point want a genuine relationship with me? I'm seriously starting to lose hope at 27 so if anyone can please possibly help or something I'd appreciate it.
I'm actually curious how old people think I am even if it's random people on the Internet.
So a little background I believe everyone deserves someone even if you think you don't ya actually do, anywho me and my family lost my dad back in 2024 due to heart failure and I know everyone grives differently at different speeds. So when my mom (52F) came home telling me she got hit on I wasn't too surprised since she's a 52 year old woman that looks 37.
Anywho I was and still am happy for her except for one thing, he's 32, 20 years her junior and 6 years my senior. He's only 6 years older than I am and I don't know how to feel about it. I'm jealous because while both my mom and (I know she's not exactly part of this) my younger sister are both beautiful women, I can't help but feel a little inadequate.
As I said before everyone deserves someone even if you don't think you do and I'm happy mom has someone even if he is 6 years older than me. But the jealousy is killing me and I'm not the jealous type or at least I don't think I am. So am I the Ahole for being jealous of my mom?
Side note: She keeps saying age is just a number and while that is true to an extent I don't think being with someone close in age to one of your children is completely okay not to mention that she would have been 20 or so while he was in diapers something about it just makes me feel I don't know off I guess. Plus I have a rule when dating you have to be 10 years within my age so like right now it's 27- 37 and he's well within that range which makes me a bit more uncomfortable.