u/Background_Tap_952

I f 33 and bf 31 have been together a year, I've meet his family. And I've meet his kids once. Before I meet them every weekend I was invited but he also knew I couldnt go. After I meet them I havnt been invited once, and he usually uses my car since he is also staying with me. Today is the kids first day of school, he wants to see them off and get pictures. And i want him too, we work together 3rr shift.

So at first he made it seem like he didnt want any issues from the mom, I am not allowed to be there apparently. He has not told the mom about me he assumed she would hear it from the kids. So I asked if he could meet them at the school and do pictures, but they live to close to the school for that?? He wants me to drop him off for 15 or 20 minutes at the house but then he wants me to leave. I cant sit in the car and wait. Now its because the kids will be upset if they see me, but wouldnt they see me dropping him off and picking him up? Is it unreasonable for me to ask to sit in the car, instead of driving around for 15 minutes.

So if you seen the last thread, now it has changed to i can drop him off and leave for 15 minutes, sitting in the car and waiting for them to take 1st day school pictures is to much because ill upset the kids. Even tho they will see me drop him off and pick him up. Does this even make sense to anyone. He is trying to make me feel like im manipulative and making it all about me.

I 33f. b.f 30m

wants to hide me but use my stuff

So we have been together a year I've meet his kids once. He won't tell the mother about us, rather assumes the kids told her. He Wants to use my car every weekend to spend time with them. Does not offer for me to go. Now wants to drop me off at a gas station to go to their house to spend the morning with them on their 1st day of school. I am not ok with this. He says its about the kids , and acts like im acting crazy.... I agree it is about the kids but I dont want to continue this way. Tl dr

So we have been together a year I've meet his kids once. He won't tell the mother about us, rather assumes the kids told her. He Wants to use my car every weekend to spend time with them. Does not offer for me to go. Now wants to drop me off at a gas station to go to their house to spend the morning with them on their 1st day of school. I am not ok with this. He says its about the kids , and acts like im acting crazy.... I agree it is about the kids but I dont want to continue this way. That dr