how to learn kabyle when your parents dont teach you?

hello im kabyle but i was born and raised in algiers and my parents didnt teach me kabyle also we dont go to bled ever so im not surrounded by it, i want to learn it myself.

have u been in a similar situation where you had to learn it by yourself? and how did you do so?

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u/Background_Weight926 — 4 days ago

how to learn kabyle

hello im kabyle but i was born and raised in algiers and my parents didnt teach me kabyle also we dont go to bled ever so im not surrounded by it, i want to learn it myself.

have u been in a similar situation where you had to learn it by yourself? and how did you do so?

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u/Background_Weight926 — 4 days ago

working at a library (book store)

hi, 19F i wanna find a job at libraries around me, there some options im considering, im also a college student, so i dont know how i approach this situation at all.

questions:
how can i apply? by asking through there social media if there are any jobs available? or by showing irl?
how should i present myself? and express that i can't work all the days of the week, and their are only specific days i can work in?
what salary is the minimum that i shouldn't go under (per day)? and how to negotiate price?

thanks in advance.

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u/Background_Weight926 — 18 days ago

WTW for hating something/someone because of loving it/them so much to the point that it hurts you

this to when you love something intensively to the point where it tortures you emotionally, o you hate it

like lets say there is this show that you love a lot to the point where it consumes you, so when you describe it to someone you say that you hate it bc you love it so much it overwhelms u to the point where it causes u misery that it ended, that you cant rewatch it bc you know all the events

or someone you love so much and their love consumes you

this is not at all about those things being toxic or conventionally harmful, but a description of the strength of this overwhelming admiration that consumes you to the point that you hate that it does

sorry for yapping, i dont know how to exactly describe this feeling but i will really appreciate it you have a word for it even if in a language other than english

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u/Background_Weight926 — 1 month ago

hi, i come from a house where my parents are uneducated and a house full of problems between its members, parents need to get a divore, siblings are toxic always fighting and so unconsiderate, basically i didnt have the healthiest upbringing and emotional abuse (rarely physical or maybe offensive light phisical abuse as an adult) (litterly physically abused for making mistakes as a child)

and all this shows up when im liking someone, if that person comes from a comfortable, educated family with a healthy upbringing it makes me feel slightly inferior, i fear to be judged cuz of my family and upbringing, i fear to not be accepted and i start sabotaging myself thinking the other person is better than me

and it makes me sad cuz why it feels illegal to me to be the girlfriend of a healthy man just bc of something i cant and couldnt control, something i didnt chose, this makes me take distance from that person and avoid building any connections with them.

i know this is so not well organized but i just needed to get out of my chest

if anyone can identify the problem here and give some helpful advice maybe some experiences ill appreciate that so much

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u/Background_Weight926 — 6 months ago

hi, i come from a house where my parents are uneducated and a house full of problems between its members, parents need to get a divore, siblings are toxic always fighting and so unconsiderate, basically i didnt have the healthiest upbringing and emotional abuse (rarely physical or maybe offensive light phisical abuse as an adult) (litterly physically abused for making mistakes as a child)

and all this shows up when im liking someone, if that person comes from a comfortable, educated family with a healthy upbringing it makes me feel slightly inferior, i fear to be judged cuz of my family and upbringing, i fear to not be accepted and i start sabotaging myself thinking the other person is better than me

and it makes me sad cuz why it feels illegal to me to be the girlfriend of a healthy man just bc of something i cant and couldnt control, something i didnt chose, this makes me take distance from that person and avoid building any connections with them.

i know this is so not well organized but i just needed to get out of my chest

if anyone can identify the problem here and give some helpful advice maybe some experiences illl appreciate that so much

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u/Background_Weight926 — 6 months ago