Is it alright to have a teacher who stalks & bully online?

This member stalked and bullied me. He is very active in this sub. I'm assuming he is a teacher?

Is it fine to have bullies as teachers?!

u/Background_Winter_65 — 3 days ago

My agency installed air hand dryers

They didn't ask for our input on the matter.

Then they are not filling the paper towels and they have a note on the dispenser that it will be loaded if and when the hand dryer machine is not working.

Every time the air dryer is used, the air flows in the bathroom and I feel it coming from under the bathroom elevated walls and door. Just moving germs and bacteria that was settled into my face while I use the toilet..a breeze of disgusting tiny weeny fecal matter.

Today, after I put the paper seat cover, of course the stall door was closed, someone outside used the air dryer and it flew into the inside of the toilet. I was half way into sitting but the toilet cover from the breeze flew into inside the toilet.

Moreover, Electric hand dryers pull in the surrounding bathroom air and blast it out at high speeds. Because of this, they can circulate those settled germs and fecal particles from the room and blow them onto your freshly washed hands.

This affects our health. They want work from the office. The building wants the big contracts from paid for from our taxes, the least they can do is not make the bathroom more of a germ breeding ground than it is already.

Even having to touch the bathroom door is an issue. Are we supposed to bring bathroom supplies from home now?

And they are doing this after COVID!

EDIT: FYI Bacteria and viruses settle on restroom floors and surfaces, largely from "toilet plumes" (aerosolized waste when toilets flush). Air dryers intake surrounding room air, sucking up microbes from the air, floors, and surfaces, and blasting it into the air, providing circulation for the tiny fecal matter and germs.

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u/Background_Winter_65 — 6 days ago

Can someone explain why we have only 3 weeks PTO?

It is pretty low compared to the private sector in my field, IT.

Why so low?!

It is not enough ....at all.

And we have a union...those in the private sector usually don't.

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u/Background_Winter_65 — 7 days ago
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Rent stabilized, lease renewal delivered late. Do I have the right to start the lease on the first day of the month after 90 days notice?

Hello there,

UPDATE: please check EDIT 2, It shows an example from DHCR. According to it, I'm entitled to October 1st renewal with October raise rate.


The landlord delivered the lease renewal document on 6/7/26 and I signed receipt of it, he dated it 6/4/26.

He wrote in it that the lease expires 8/31/26, meaning my new lease starts 9/1/26.

This happened after he locked the laundry room for the whole building. So I want to stick to the law and my rights.

Google AI mode stated that I can refuse to sign on the increase of 3% based on 2025 guidelines because with a 90 days notice, the date would be after the first of September, and the lease should start on 'the first rent payment day' which for me has been always the first of the month.

So I have the right to start my lease 10/1/26, which means 0% raise.

Is that correct? The landlord and the super refuse to communicate. I sent the landlord a certified letter letting him know I expect an updated lease with the raise rate once the city decides on it. Now the city has decided and I will probably have to file a complaint for the landlord refusing to send me a correct lease...

Advise please!

Thank you.

Edit: I just want to add , Google AI said: Statutory Start Dates: Under DHCR guidelines, rent-stabilized lease renewals must begin the day after the previous lease expires, which routinely forces the renewal to start on the first of the month

This makes sense to me because how can he start a new lease when my rent is not due till the first day of the next month? Any other day, I would still be covered by the rent I paid the month prior

EDIT 2: I just reviewed DHCR documents, they actually have an example similar to my situation. I get the October start date with October zero raise: From DHCR: https://hcr.ny.gov/system/files/documents/2023/04/fact-sheet-04-04-2023.pdf

Example #1

  1. Mr. Rivera’s lease expired on July 31, 2019. He did not receive a timely renewal lease offer and has continued to pay his rent of $1800.
  2. On May 15, 2020, the landlord makes him an offer of a renewal lease to commence retroactively on August 1, 2019, at a rent of $1827 for 1 year or $1845 for 2 years. The additional $27 represents a 1.50% increase for 1 year, and the additional $45 represents a 2.50% increase for 2 years.
  3. In this situation, the option for the commencement date of the lease is Mr. Rivera’s. He can request that the lease be dated to start on: a) August 1, 2019, the date it would have begun had a timely offer had been made or b) September 1, 2020, the first rent payment date occurring no less than 90 days after the offer is made.
  4. Whether Mr. Rivera chooses option (a) or (b), the applicable guideline increase will be the lower of the two possible rates. In this case, he will be liable for the lower rates in effect on September 1, 2020; 1.50% for 1 year or 2.50% for two years. Moreover, the increase in rent to either $1827 for 1 year, or $1845 for 2 years, will not go into effect until September 1, 2020.
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u/Background_Winter_65 — 11 days ago

Driver twice accelerated towards me at crossing and stopped to show hate

Hi there,

The same car driver, twice did a turn on the pedestrian light which is fine if I was not already in the middle of the crossing. It seemed he did it to intimidate me.

The first time, a month or two ago, it was on a two direction double lane road. He was rushing towards me as if he was going to hit me. I stood there and my first reaction was to gesture what are you doing!!! And point at the light and pedestrian crossing marking under my feet. He stopped just before hitting me and then moved his car next to me and drove.

The second time was last week, just a street before that one. This time he rushed next to me but he stopped to give me the finger! When I was pointing to the signal.

A guy was going to the train stairs and he shouted at him 'animal' I asked him: you saw that right?! And he confirmed.

Now after this happened twice I think this is intentional and I feel I need to report it. But I have gone to the police before and they don't care.

I also don't have the plate number or a good description of the car....I don't know much about cars but I believe it is the same black car with the same white guy in it.

I suspect it is racist because the first time I was wearing the koufiyeh, and last week I had the same koufiyeh tied on my bag in my back.

Any advice? I want him to be held accountable and I want to be safe.

Edit: this is in NYC, in a quiet neighborhood in Brooklyn

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u/Background_Winter_65 — 29 days ago