u/Balonex1131

I got diabetes t.1 when i was 2, 12 years later of bad sugars because i dont care for myself, i only care for others and thats my mistake I'm realising. My dad isnt caring for himself either, its looking kinda bad for him and hes only 42. I wanna grow up with a dad to see My kids, but i also wanna be a father to my kids and dont die at 45 because of diabetes. Any tips on bettering myself please?

My dad is a heavy drinker and smoker (E-Cigarettes ) And now his heart isnt beating like its supposed to. I dont know how to tell him to finally act up and care for himself, but i need to soon. He just turned 42 and i did 14 a few months ago, i said that he doesnt care about himself to my mom, later i went to his room and he was angry at me why did i say it when he takes his pills for high pressure, i told him i didnt mean it like this, but i dont have the balls to tell it to him straight and i dont know why.

I gotta start off by saying i read worse scenarios then mine, but listen.

My dad sits around and does nothing, just drinks beer, while my mom does all the things in the house, he is yelling at us after every small bitchless mistake, you didnt take out the trash? Youre a cunt. You didnt do your close your wardrobe? Youre a failure. I hope yall get the point, im not scared to fight him if it comes to it one day, i want them to get a divorce, but i also dont want them to get one if yall understand. Also Its been going on for multiple years, i drag my father atleast twice a week to bed because hes so drunk hes gonna kill himself on the way to bed.. also im 14 and my sleep time is fucking 8Pm (set by parents), they also check my phone. I hope i said all i wanted, and can i please get any advice how to maybe, "stop?" This nonsense, thanks.