u/BambiBon_

I know I shouldn't get my hopes up but I met this girl on discord. I didn't really think to much about knowing what she looked like at first. But after a few days of texting back and forth she just seemed so sweet and kind. I asked her if she would be ok exchanging pictures but she said she didn't feel comfortable giving a stranger a photo of herself. I understood her so I decided to drop it. But we've been talking for around 3 years and I haven't even gotten a voice message either. We both really like each other but she says she's now more afraid to send something because she's afraid I won't like the way she looks.

She said she struggles a lot irl and even back in school she never said a word to anyone because it was that bad. The only thing she feels comfortable sharing are photos of what she does throughout her day without showing her face. I just hope one day I can meet her because I just really like this girl and we bond over so many things.

I[24] met this girl [23] online through a game and its been about 3 years that we've been chatting back and forth through discord. At first we started chatting casually but after a few months of texting I started catching feelings for her even though I didn't even know what she looked like. We've never actually videochatted or done calls because she's told me she's just very insecure about herself. She says she used to get bullied quite alot in school and even has a hard time leaving her house. The only thing we've gotten so far is sending each other pics of our bodies but never the face.

I know this may seem like its either a guy or a guy trying to scam me but its been years and she's never asked for money. She's just very sweet and I wish she would at least do a voice call with me. If possible I would love if we could meet each other in real life but currently we live 10 hours away from each other.

I don't want to pressure her because she's a great friend but I just rlly like this girl and would love to meet her. I've also not done any photos of my face either just because it makes me a little uncomfortable that she would know what I look like and I don't.

I also forgot to mention that while she won't show her face she does send pics of her food because she loves to cook and likes to show me what new foods she makes, she'll basically send me pics of what she does throughout her days like walking her dog at the park, or just random things without showing her face. She even told me she felt bad she hasn't shown her face yet so she asked me what she could do instead to show she wasn't like a man. I couldn't rlly think of anything besides maybe like a small piece of paper with my discord name written on there. She said that was fine and its kinda cute but she always manages to have that slip of paper in her hand while sending pics of her thoughout her day.

I used to have a kindle a few years ago but I've heard there are alot more better options now I'm looking for recommendations.

My budget is $170. I would prefer a bigger screen since I don't really like smaller ereaders. I mostly read novels but I sometimes also read manga and webtoons so it would be nice if it could handle those too.

I mostly read indoors during the night but I do read outside during the day sometimes. battery life isn't a big deal to me but it would be nice. I would also love if it came in white.

Right now I'm currently deciding between Bigme B6 or a kobo but let me know if there are better ones fit for my needs.

I really have a hard time studying because I keep procasinating. I would love to have either a group if possible in a discord server to keep ourselves accountable.

But I would prefer if you had these things below but it's not too big of a concern

\-in the eastern time zone
\-in college
\-studying accounting

Please message me if you're interested in joining!

I really have a hard time studying because I keep procasinating. I would love to have either a group if possible in a discord server to keep ourselves accountable.

But I would prefer if you had these things below but it's not too big of a concern

-in the eastern time zone
-in college
-studying accounting

Please message me if you're interested in joining!

I made some bad decisions and I've got a capital one card which has a credit line of 3,500 and I've basically used all of it. It's around 3,477. I also took out a student loan for school for 3,500 but it still hasn't charged me interest until I get out of school. But I still want to pay it so I don't have to pay more.

My credit is 600 and my total debt is around 7,000. I'm currently living with my parents but I've been wanting to move out as soon as possible. I've got a job soon that'll most likely pay around 1,000 biweekly. The only expense I have is my car insurance which is $100 a month.

How much of my money should I start putting in to lessen my debt and the other into a savings account to move out as soon as possible

I'm 22 years old and a few years now I realized why I'm so timid and quiet. I struggle talking to people because all I can think is how I look. I can't stand looking people in the eyes because Im feeling judged. I can never just hold a conversation because I just want to leave immediately. I don't know I look at myself in the mirror some days I look ok not super model but average and some days I feel I look so ugly like a guy or something. It doesn't help that my mom says I look like my dad either.

Throughtout school I would get called on by guys but I don't know if they were just joking with me because I'm ugly or was I actually attractive. You can instantly tell I'm rather timd as well. Here are some scenarios that happened.

I was in school and walking the track around the field by myself and some guy yelled "hey girl! you're pretty cute come hang out with us!" I didn't even look in their direction and just kept walking. Another time was when I was seated in class and a group of guys were seated close by. well one of them tapped my shoulder to get my attention and pointed to one of the guys. He winked at me and I just turned my head back showing no emotion but I heard his friends start laughing afterwards. I almost started crying afterwards and felt down the rest of the day.

Sometimes when I go back to these things that happened to me in school I can't tell if I was somewhat ok looking or was I being made fun of. Now I'm so insecure about myself I wear jackets to cover myself and jeans when I go out in public. I hate that I feel this way. Could I be mistaken or were the guys really just making fun of me?