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I heard a lot of different answers and I became kind of confused so what is the right theory or answer and it is explanation?

I appreciate the help

Was studying digestive system but I have a problem with visualizing so I end up get lost at like the 4th organ and has to go to check where was it again?

مش عايزة اعمم بس دايما بسمع ان الثانوية العامة مليانة غش و ان اغلب العيال اللي بتروح كليات "القمة" بتسقط لانهم غشوا في ثانوية عامة طب ليه مش غشوا في الكلية برده ايه اللي منعهم؟

نفسي اشتغل فيه بس اهلي رافضين بسبب الحوار ده فهل فعلا الناس لسة شايفين التمريض بصورة وحشة و لا النظرة ليهم اتغيرت؟

هل فيه مدرسين بيبتدوا organic chemistry لغات اونلاين عشان مش لاقية؟

بكل بساطة انا عايش مع انسان ناقد جدا (بشكل سلبي اوي) اسلوبه سيء جدا في الحوار و اي حاجة تعملها بيقعد ينتقدها و يخليني ندمت اني عملتها فأنا اخدت قرار اني هعمل الحاجات اللي انا عايزها في غيابه عشان اقلل النقد و دلوقتي هو بينتقدني عشان هو معدش شايف اني بعمل حاجة عشان بعمل الحاجات في غيابه

لو حد عنده نصيحة ايه اللي المفروض اعمله يا ريت يقول

(ملاحظة: الشخص ده مقدرش بكل بساطة اسيبه و اعيش في مكان تاني لأسباب شخصية)

My curriculum puts organic chemistry as a last chapter . Many of my friends are saying that you should study first chapters (inorganic chemistry) with a teacher and organic chemistry with another teacher at the same time.

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Is it a good idea or will it create unnecessary confusion?

عارفة فوائد حفظ القرآن العامة زي انها بتجعلك شفاعة يوم القيامة و بترفعك درجات في الجنة و كل الحاجات الرائعة دي بس هل فيه فوائد دنيوية؟

كنت سالت حد من قرايبي قبل كدة قالي انه بيساعد على تقوية الذاكرة و شفت حد بيقول انه ممكن يساعد على نطق الكلمات بشكل صحيح

لو حد عنده فوائد تانية يا ريت يشاركها

(Note : all of us are females and around the age of 16 to 17)

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This is the first time I've truly cut ties with someone. Usually, when I want to distance myself from someone, I might reduce the amount of time we talk to, but I don't cut them off completely.

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It started when we wanted to go out together. We'd agreed on a place, and everything was perfect. Then, one of my friends, let's call her (A), said (the day before we were going out) that she didn't like the place and wanted to change it. I couldn't change the place because I'd already told my family, and they get upset when things change at the last minute. I got angry and insisted on my decision and the place I was going to. We ended up on spliting up into two groups. I went somewhere with another friend, let's call her (C), and of course, (A) went somewhere else with her best friend. We agreed to meet up afterward at a specific time to walk around a bit and then go home.

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After that, I was confirming the time we were supposed to meet (in the public group) when (A) told me she wasn't going at that time we agreed on first and that she'd arranged a different time privately with her best friend without telling me or (C). She said she did that because we split and left us with 2 choices: either we went to the time she'd set or we wouldn't meet.

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Of course, at the time, it didn't matter to me, and I decided to go to the first time we'd agreed on. However, I was a little late because (C) was stuck in the traffic jam and came late. This led to us into meeting (A) and her best friend by accident. I thought it wasn't important that i am mad at her rn and tried to talk to (A) normally, but I felt like she was looking down at me and didn't respond the first time. I felt like she couldn't stand me, so I apologized and left quietly.

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We wanted to go out again, and (A)'s best friend said that (A) wanted to go out too. We were in it together, and even though I didn't like the situation, I thought it was okay, maybe we could give each other another chance. And just because I had a problem with her didn't mean I should let my friends cut her off too.

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So we made another group, but then I noticed that (A) and her best friend weren't replying to my messages and were ignoring me. It bothered me at the time, to be honest. I was venting with (C) and told her about it, but I told her I wasn't upset with them personally, just with their behavior.

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Some time passed, and they were still ignoring me, but it didn't bother me anymore because I felt it was their choice.

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Then I opened the group and saw they were suggesting activities for when we went out, so I decided to participate too. I noticed that (A)'s bullied my suggestions and called them cringe, and honestly, that bothered me a bit.

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After a while, I decided to lighten the mood and joke around with (A) a bit because I had something on my mind. Maybe this could improve our relationship a bit. She got annoyed by my joke, and I think she found it a bit much. So instead of saying she didn't like my joke, she linked it to the fact that I was doing this because i was upset they were ignoring me in the group. At that moment, I wasn't upset (I had been before, but I felt it was pointless, so I stopped). I talked to her as if she was just making assumptions, and I told her, "If you see me that way, that's your problem, and you're the one who's wrong." That's when all things got complicated. She started saying, "No, I'm not saying that! You're the one saying that! You told that to (C) and my best friend!"

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That's when I realized that (C) had ratted on me(told them behind my back) and told them that I was upset because they were ignoring me in the group. She told them not just to (A), but also to (A)'s best friend, and I think (A)'s best friend told her too. So it appeared as if I told both of them

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At that time, I got an confused and tried to understand what was going on. I found (A) accusing me of lying and saying I was a liar.

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That's when I got really angry (because for me, the worst thing anyone could accuse me of is lying).

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So, quite simply, I told her I wasn't going to reply on her accusations and I told everyone I wasn't going out with them and I left the group.

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When I confronted (C), of course, she told me yes, that she told them, but that her intentions were good and she wanted to get me and (A) along again and all that nonsense that doesn't get anywhere (I haven't forgiven her because she didn't even ask me if she should tell them or not, or if I even wanted to get along with (A) again).

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Some time has passed, but I still remember it and think about it.

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The problem is that I feel like I was wrong about some things, like telling (C) instead of (A) and her best friend about the fact that I'm being ignored.

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And also the last conversation and the misunderstanding that happened at the end could have been explained better, but I didn't feel that (A) had any respect for me, which would have allowed for a proper discussion.

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This whole thing is also making me think about my future relationships. I feel like I can't trust anyone easily, especially since someone like (C) was a really close friend, and I used to tell her so much, and then she betrayed me. So what makes me trust my future friends? What makes me think they're even trustworthy? One of my relatives tried to advise me not to cut ties with (C) because she only made one mistake, but I don't know, I just can't stand her.

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Plus, I feel like this could affect my relationship with my future husband. I mean, it might make me decide to break up with him after a couple of arguments.

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I'm trying not to let this whole thing consume my thoughts, but I keep replaying the events. 🤠🤠

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**TL;DR;** : I cut ties with 3 of my friends and it made me have trust issues and will it affect my relationships in the future whether with future friends or my future husband?

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