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So here iam.. never thought this was possíble.

Together with my wife for 16y 2 kids later.. She recently Open up and Said She needed help as She was depressed and we might needed a bit of time apart.

She hás been playing a mobile game and completly obssesed but since I was Alive i have done the same i thought I would let her Enjoy the game a bit.. today I asked her If I Saw her discord If I would find anything and I Instantly Saw on her eyes..

She showed me some flurting dms like it was nothing and realy wasnt anything much.. I was pissed but She was saying that She needed me a while ago and I wanst there and it keep pilling up and up and now She needed this escape..

i was ready to move on when I ask her to see the pictures on the phone and again I knew.

The pictures, the videos, disgusting.. all the things we explored Over 16y of marriged out in the fucking Open in a spam of a mounth.. It was like She was doing lal the things i like but to this guy ( online) like idk.. sonyeah this is my story .

She still says shes depressed and tbh I know her and thats not something She would do in her right mind.. but still i cant shake up the images of my head

My wife is in a hole and I dont know what to do

Hello..

Me and my wife are high school sweethearts.. together for 16y and now married with 2 small kids ( we are on our thirtys now).

She has always drifted to a diferent world of her own as a mechanic to run from IRL ( either books or TV shows) as have I with video games.

Lately she found a mobile video game that She plays with a lot of People and completly shut off from the real world. I was feeling left behind and negleted as a husband as all there was no emotional connection with me. I talked with her and She cracked down and admited She wanst well and has decently started to seem medical help ( for now shes medicated and Will have her 1 consultation in 2 days).

She tells me all She wants is to be Alone. She doenst want to be a wife nor a Mother just Alone and the video game helps her just shut off the brain and go Somewhere else..

Yesterday I was working and the kids spend the day with the grandparents so She had the day for herself. Spend the day in bed playing and I realised She also started masturbating. Probably did it also in the past as did I, but now i felt cheated as I already didnt have the emotional connection and now i had Lost the physical connection as well.

Shes always saying She doenst know if She can leave this dark place shes in and I dont know what to do nor what to feel.

I love her with all my strength, mas i would do everything to have my baby back.

This that iam feeling is normal? How can I help her? Shall I give her what She says She wants and leave her be? Shall I keep pushing for her to come back to us?

Iam sorry about the long rant and I dont even know if this is the right sub just needed to get this out.

My wife is in a hole and I dont know what to do

Hello..

Me and my wife are high school sweethearts.. together for 16y and now married with 2 small kids ( we are on our thirtys now).

She has always drifted to a diferent world of her own as a mechanic to run from IRL ( either books or TV shows) as have I with video games.

Lately she found a mobile video game that She plays with a lot of People and completly shut off from the real world. I was feeling left behind and negleted as a husband as all there was no emotional connection with me. I talked with her and She cracked down and admited She wanst well and has decently started to seem medical help ( for now shes medicated and Will have her 1 consultation in 2 days).

She tells me all She wants is to be Alone. She doenst want to be a wife nor a Mother just Alone and the video game helps her just shut off the brain and go Somewhere else..

Yesterday I was working and the kids spend the day with the grandparents so She had the day for herself. Spend the day in bed playing and I realised She also started masturbating. Probably did it also in the past as did I, but now i felt cheated as I already didnt have the emotional connection and now i had Lost the physical connection as well.

Shes always saying She doenst know if She can leave this dark place shes in and I dont know what to do nor what to feel.

I love her with all my strength, mas i would do everything to have my baby back.

This that iam feeling is normal? How can I help her? Shall I give her what She says She wants and leave her be? Shall I keep pushing for her to come back to us?

Iam sorry about the long rant and I dont even know if this is the right sub just needed to get this out.

Hello..

Me and my wife are high school sweethearts.. together for 16y and now married with 2 small kids ( we are on our thirtys now).

She has always drifted to a diferent world of her own as a mechanic to run from IRL ( either books or TV shows) as have I with video games.

Lately she found a mobile video game that She plays with a lot of People and completly shut off from the real world. I was feeling left behind and negleted as a husband as all there was no emotional connection with me. I talked with her and She cracked down and admited She wanst well and has decently started to seem medical help ( for now shes medicated and Will have her 1 consultation in 2 days).

She tells me all She wants is to be Alone. She doenst want to be a wife nor a Mother just Alone and the video game helps her just shut off the brain and go Somewhere else..

Yesterday I was working and the kids spend the day with the grandparents so She had the day for herself. Spend the day in bed playing and I realised She also started masturbating. Probably did it also in the past as did I, but now i felt cheated as I already didnt have the emotional connection and now i had Lost the physical connection as well.

Shes always saying She doenst know if She can leave this dark place shes in and I dont know what to do nor what to feel.

I love her with all my strength, mas i would do everything to have my baby back.

This that iam feeling is normal? How can I help her? Shall I give her what She says She wants and leave her be? Shall I keep pushing for her to come back to us?

Iam sorry about the long rant and I dont even know if this is the right sub just needed to get this out.