u/Beginning-Cry-2059

I am a FTM 38+5 weeks pregnant.i am 5'1 and very petite.even UK size 6 fit me before pregnancy.so i am basically XXS size originally.i am extremely scared of two following things:

1. being a first time mom ,if i would go into labor naturally or not.the place where i live ,you can only be induced after 41+3.but i am scared that the more i go further the more baby will become big resulting in a difficult delivery.

2. i am extremely scared of shoulder dystocia.i don't want to have a vacuum or forceps assisted delivery as i have heard lots of negative things about both.

So my questions are : what are the chances of complications like shoulder dystocia and if such a situation arises should i then request for C section instead of having a forceps assisted delivery?

I so desperately want to go into natural labor as soon as possible as i am in tooooooooo much pain,whats the thing that helped you? I am eating dates , raspberry leaf tea, pineapple and doing few exercises on exercise ball.

I am a first time mom so i have no idea about these things, excuse me if any of it sounds dumb.

So the question is simple, are there any remote jobs available in the Islamic finance industry.i am a stay at home mom and want a job opportunity that i could avail from home without compromising my personal life.

As the title says , i am 37+3 weeks now and have consistent contractions for a few hours and then they stop and disappear and the same pattern repeats.however , my doctor and midwife didn't guide me at all regarding delivery options.my last appointment with my doctor was finished abruptly after my ctg and I didn't even get to see her.we registered for birth online and have never heard back from the hospital.we called and my husband was told that this is most probably because my pregnancy isn't high risk.i am very petite structured woman with 5'1 height.i am scared what if something goes wrong.i have no idea what decision am i supposed to mae if a situation occurs.i am sure about demanding epidural but i am scared about vaccum and forceps assisted delivery.please guide if such a situation occurs , should i go with it or demand c section instead?

I am having contractions every ten minutes which last for at least a minute and they are moderately painful.good enough to wake me up from the sleep.they last for few hours then stop for a while and restart again.and i have had bowel movement four times since morning.is it early labor?i am a FTM and 37+2 weeks at the moment and have no idea what to expect.

I am 36+3 weeks at the moment and have been having pressure and soreness in the vaginal muscles for the last two weeks at least but now that pressure and soreness/pain has become extreme and literally without any exaggeration i can't move an inch without feeling pain down there.i cooked yesterday and stood maximum for like 25 mins.i don't know if that made things worse.some times i do get period like backache but it randomly comes and goes and happens only few times a day.is it early labor.should i contact the hospital.what should i do?i am so exhausted physically and mentally and scared of delivering this baby early as he might end up on NICU if delivered at this stage.i am in sooo much pain.

I am 36+3 weeks at the moment and have been having pressure and soreness in the vaginal muscles for the last two weeks at least but now that pressure and soreness/pain has become extreme and literally without any exaggeration i can't move an inch without feeling pain down there.i cooked yesterday and stood maximum for like 25 mins.i don't know if that made things worse.some times i do get period like backache but it randomly comes and goes and happens only few times a day.is it early labor.should i contact the hospital.what should i do?i am so exhausted physically and mentally and scared of delivering this baby early as he might end up on NICU if delivered at this stage.i am in sooo much pain.

I am 36+3 weeks at the moment and have been having pressure and soreness in the vaginal muscles for the last two weeks at least but now that pressure and soreness/pain has become extreme and literally without any exaggeration i can't move an inch without feeling pain down there.i cooked yesterday and stood maximum for like 25 mins.i don't know if that made things worse.some times i do get period like backache but it randomly comes and goes and happens only few times a day.is it early labor.should i contact the hospital.what should i do?i am so exhausted physically and mentally and scared of delivering this baby early as he might end up on NICU if delivered at this stage.i am in sooo much pain.

I am 36+3 weeks at the moment and have been having pressure and soreness in the vaginal muscles for the last two weeks at least but now that pressure and soreness/pain has become extreme and literally without any exaggeration i can't move an inch without feeling pain down there.i cooked yesterday and stood maximum for like 25 mins.i don't know if that made things worse.some times i do get period like backache but it randomly comes and goes and happens only few times a day.is it early labor.should i contact the hospital.what should i do?i am so exhausted physically and mentally and scared of delivering this baby early as he might end up on NICU if delivered at this stage.i am in sooo much pain.