u/Believe_in_magic-

Dear L

I see who you are now. And I understand that so much of it was just an act, an illusion, a lie. The most painful part is not that the love ended — the most painful part is that I believed in someone who hurt me so deeply.

You once told me that I was the first person who ever did such wonderful things for you, the first person who truly cared about you the way I did. I gave you my love, my loyalty, my heart, and parts of myself that I never gave to anyone else. Yet you treated me like I was nothing. Like I had no value to you at all.

Instead of appreciating the love I gave you, you blamed me for everything and hid behind excuses that could never justify the pain you caused. You made me feel like I was the problem, while all I ever tried to do was love you genuinely and stand by your side.

You made me walk away with your silence, your abuse, your disrespect, and your complete lack of accountability. I stayed longer than I should have because I believed in you, in us, and in the person you made me think you were. But in the end, I realized I could not keep destroying myself trying to save someone who kept hurting me and refusing to take responsibility for it.

Still, from the bottom of my heart, I hope that one day you learn how to truly love. That you will be able to love someone not only with words, but with actions. That you will understand how a husband should respect his wife, protect her, be vulnerable, humble, willing to compromise, and make a woman feel safe beside him.

I hope that you will never have to experience the kind of pain I experienced because of you. I hope you never wake up wondering whether you are living in a nightmare, whether life is testing you, or whether you let a demon into your life. You hurt me to the deepest core of my soul, and even now it is difficult to explain the pain I felt.

But even after everything, I do not wish that pain on you. I would not wish it on anyone — not even the person who shattered me into a thousand pieces.

I hope that one day you truly understand what you did. And I hope that by then, you become someone who will never hurt another person that way again.

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u/Believe_in_magic- — 2 days ago

Dear L

I see who you are now. And I understand that so much of it was just an act, an illusion, a lie. The most painful part is not that the love ended — the most painful part is that I believed in someone who hurt me so deeply.

You once told me that I was the first person who ever did such wonderful things for you, the first person who truly cared about you the way I did. I gave you my love, my loyalty, my heart, and parts of myself that I never gave to anyone else. Yet you treated me like I was nothing. Like I had no value to you at all.

Instead of appreciating the love I gave you, you blamed me for everything and hid behind excuses that could never justify the pain you caused. You made me feel like I was the problem, while all I ever tried to do was love you genuinely and stand by your side.

You made me walk away with your silence, your abuse, your disrespect, and your complete lack of accountability. I stayed longer than I should have because I believed in you, in us, and in the person you made me think you were. But in the end, I realized I could not keep destroying myself trying to save someone who kept hurting me and refusing to take responsibility for it.

Still, from the bottom of my heart, I hope that one day you learn how to truly love. That you will be able to love someone not only with words, but with actions. That you will understand how a husband should respect his wife, protect her, be vulnerable, humble, willing to compromise, and make a woman feel safe beside him.

I hope that you will never have to experience the kind of pain I experienced because of you. I hope you never wake up wondering whether you are living in a nightmare, whether life is testing you, or whether you let a demon into your life. You hurt me to the deepest core of my soul, and even now it is difficult to explain the pain I felt.

But even after everything, I do not wish that pain on you. I would not wish it on anyone — not even the person who shattered me into a thousand pieces.

I hope that one day you truly understand what you did. And I hope that by then, you become someone who will never hurt another person that way again.

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u/Believe_in_magic- — 2 days ago
▲ 9 r/Emotions+3 crossposts

Dear L

I see who you are now. And I understand that so much of it was just an act, an illusion, a lie. The most painful part is not that the love ended — the most painful part is that I believed in someone who hurt me so deeply.

You once told me that I was the first person who ever did such wonderful things for you, the first person who truly cared about you the way I did. I gave you my love, my loyalty, my heart, and parts of myself that I never gave to anyone else. Yet you treated me like I was nothing. Like I had no value to you at all.

Instead of appreciating the love I gave you, you blamed me for everything and hid behind excuses that could never justify the pain you caused. You made me feel like I was the problem, while all I ever tried to do was love you genuinely and stand by your side.

You made me walk away with your silence, your abuse, your disrespect, and your complete lack of accountability. I stayed longer than I should have because I believed in you, in us, and in the person you made me think you were. But in the end, I realized I could not keep destroying myself trying to save someone who kept hurting me and refusing to take responsibility for it.

Still, from the bottom of my heart, I hope that one day you learn how to truly love. That you will be able to love someone not only with words, but with actions. That you will understand how a husband should respect his wife, protect her, be vulnerable, humble, willing to compromise, and make a woman feel safe beside him.

I hope that you will never have to experience the kind of pain I experienced because of you. I hope you never wake up wondering whether you are living in a nightmare, whether life is testing you, or whether you let a demon into your life. You hurt me to the deepest core of my soul, and even now it is difficult to explain the pain I felt.

But even after everything, I do not wish that pain on you. I would not wish it on anyone — not even the person who shattered me into a thousand pieces.

I hope that one day you truly understand what you did. And I hope that by then, you become someone who will never hurt another person that way again.

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u/Believe_in_magic- — 2 days ago
▲ 3 r/NarcissisticSpouses+1 crossposts

Dear L

I see who you are now. And I understand that so much of it was just an act, an illusion, a lie. The most painful part is not that the love ended — the most painful part is that I believed in someone who hurt me so deeply.

You once told me that I was the first person who ever did such wonderful things for you, the first person who truly cared about you the way I did. I gave you my love, my loyalty, my heart, and parts of myself that I never gave to anyone else. Yet you treated me like I was nothing. Like I had no value to you at all.

Instead of appreciating the love I gave you, you blamed me for everything and hid behind excuses that could never justify the pain you caused. You made me feel like I was the problem, while all I ever tried to do was love you genuinely and stand by your side.

You made me walk away with your silence, your abuse, your disrespect, and your complete lack of accountability. I stayed longer than I should have because I believed in you, in us, and in the person you made me think you were. But in the end, I realized I could not keep destroying myself trying to save someone who kept hurting me and refusing to take responsibility for it.

Still, from the bottom of my heart, I hope that one day you learn how to truly love. That you will be able to love someone not only with words, but with actions. That you will understand how a husband should respect his wife, protect her, be vulnerable, humble, willing to compromise, and make a woman feel safe beside him.

I hope that you will never have to experience the kind of pain I experienced because of you. I hope you never wake up wondering whether you are living in a nightmare, whether life is testing you, or whether you let a demon into your life. You hurt me to the deepest core of my soul, and even now it is difficult to explain the pain I felt.

But even after everything, I do not wish that pain on you. I would not wish it on anyone — not even the person who shattered me into a thousand pieces.

I hope that one day you truly understand what you did. And I hope that by then, you become someone who will never hurt another person that way again.

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u/Believe_in_magic- — 2 days ago