my bf 18 male just broke his fibula today during a martial arts fight. he was supposed to go to boot camp on september 1st but obviously this isn’t happening now. he’s very depressed that not only he isn’t able to go to boot camp anymore but isn’t able to move at all. after my bf heals is he still able to become a marine, or is he cooked? pic of his break byw^
HELP HELP HELP ME!!
Okay for some quick context because I need people to read this this asap. A couple weeks ago I fucked up and went through his phone when he was asleep. He has stated to me he didn’t like his phone being gone through without him knowning and I crossed that line. I take fully accountability I was wrong there. (Just want to make clear idgaf if he went through my phone or does.) Now there were no signs what so ever he was talking to another girl. I mean we were doing beautifully, i could not give you any reason on why i should’ve looked through his phone that night. (Aka socials.) On his insta I found out he had been messaging a girl. He had messaged her a flirty joke (I thought it was a guy at first lol) but as i scrolled up the chats consisted of “I love you.” “my sweet love.” “Your gorgeous” and “I’d do unspeakable things to you.” He’s known her for quite some time since they were young and he was apart of the friend group and there was one male (J), a female (K), and the girl he was messaging (A). All the same age 18. My heart sank as I read the messages and completely broke down. I took him home (he was drunk at the time) and didn’t discuss it until the next day. I was so nervous of him getting upset at me for looking through his phone with no good reason I lied. I had just stated I had found a girl typing to him and saw some chats between him and her that made me feel extremely uncomfortable. He blocked her immediately including his other friends (J) and (K). I found that strange he blocked them as well but just dismissed it. It’s been a couple weeks now but i can’t stop thinking about him texting her or other people for that matter. I don’t understand this at all, there were no signs, all his friends know him and i are dating, and he’s been cheated on in the past. I was never more in love with anyone in my life and within seconds it was shattered to pieces. All my trust within him is almost completely gone. We’ve been together for almost 2 years now.