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Why is Ahmedabad's social scene so dry compared to other cities?

I've noticed that cities like Bengaluru, Pune, Mumbai, and Delhi have active communities where people regularly meet, make new friends, attend events, and socialize. Meanwhile, Ahmedabad often feels much quieter in comparison.

I'm genuinely curious to know what others think. If you're from Ahmedabad, what's been your experience? And if you've lived in other cities too, how does Ahmedabad compare?

Let's discuss.

College vacations are on, and I'm hoping to make a few new friends in Ahmedabad.

If you're someone who enjoys good conversations, sharing memes, trying new cafés, or just wants a new friend to talk to, my DMs are open. No pressure just looking for genuine persons and good vibes. 😊

I don't have a specific idea yet what I have is the drive to build something real and the discipline to see it through. Rather than sit around waiting for the "perfect idea," I'd rather find a few sharp people, throw ideas around, pick the best one together, and actually execute.

Hear me out if a guy's whole world is his room, his phone, and online communities, he never really builds the skills to meet people IRL. And then the girlfriend/relationship thing just... never happens. Seen this with a few people I know. Is it the apps, or is it something deeper? Or am I totally wrong?

Hey Amdavadis! 👋

Genuinely curious are house parties a thing here or nah?

I keep hearing mixed things. Some people say the scene is growing, others say it's still pretty hush-hush because of society rules, nosy neighbours, and the usual stuff.

So let's settle this drop your honest answer below!

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Down 13% on my 2-stock portfolio — ITC and HDFC Bank. Roast me or advise me, I can take it.

Current holdings:

- ITC— 617 shares | Current value: ₹1,70,322 | Invested: ₹1,99,241 | Loss: ~₹29k

- HDFC Bank — 38 shares | Current value: ₹28,368 | Invested: ₹29,602 | Loss: ~₹1.2k

Portfolio summary:

- Total invested: ₹2,28,844

- Current value: ₹1,98,692

- Total loss: -₹30,151 (-13.18%)

- Today alone: -₹4,507 (-2.22%)

Market is bleeding (Nifty -1.15%, Sensex -1.27%) so some of today's pain is macro, but the overall 13% drawdown is on me.

ITC has been a long hold and I still believe in the FMCG + cigarette moat, but the stock just hasn't moved. HDFC Bank I bought expecting a recovery that's taken forever.

Should I average down, hold, or just cut losses? Is anyone else overweight ITC? What's your thesis?