Yung sakin, everytime I have money maglalagay ako agad sa alkansya before proceeding to spend the rest. Save first then spend the remaining instead of saving what was only left in my wallet. Kayo?
May tendency talaga siyang maging edgy for no reason but tinetake lang lightly ng family. Example, yung choice of words niya is "Tatanga tanga ka kasi." or "bobo naman neto kausap." or "engot naman netong taong to."
Eh one time naka vidcall ako with some fam members tapos nag mute ako saglit since may inask si mom ko na katabi ko lang. Then this happened in the vidcall:
Tita ko: May kausap ba siya? Bat siya naka mute?
Cousin: Malay ko dyan. Sumali sali naka mute naman.
Tita: Baka may kausap saglit.
Cousin: Bat kasi di magsabi? Bobo talaga.
Eh I can hear it the whole time so nag unmute ako and tinapatan ko attitude niya. Sabi ko, "May kausap ako, bat di ka maghintay?"
That's all it took. She left the call. Ignored my random chats for the next few days, I thought busy lang siya. She would talk to others in the gc but ignore me. Alam mo talagang may paramdam, kasi may pagka madaldal yun. After a week, nag vidcall ulit sa gc. The moment I joined, she was in the middle of talking then she stopped then left. She became passive aggressive. Na-annoy ako because in my mind, she's always edgy kahit walang ginagawa sakanya pero the moment na binalik mo, galit-galitan.
I chatted her and said, "kung may problema ka sabihin mo sakin ng diretso." She did not reply, so I also called her out in our family gc itself. Sabi ko, "Nagchat ako sayo. If may ginawa ako sabihin mo di yung di ka namamansin at umaalis ka sa call pag sumasali ako." She never replied to my pm, and in the gc hinaha react niya lang yung isang chat ko.
After a few days I decided na her personality may be toxic and I don't want to be around someone like that so I also removed her in all of my socials. Mahilig din kasi siya mangbash ng mga mutuals niya online by sending screenshots to me and giving hate comments. One time nung naasar siya sa isang tita namin, she made a gc including our cousins and some of our close titas/titos just to bash her. Idk if I'm OA or getting older pero para sakin mas prefer ko na if may misunderstanding man eh iaddress na ng maayos kaysa yung beating around the bush pa and puro paramdam. I just feel like dealing with people like that is a waste of energy.
Pano po sabihin in kapampangan yung:
-wala akong gana (gawin itong isang bagay)
-tinatamad ako (tumayo, kumain, gumalaw etc.)
Do you ignore, cut off, or call them out?
"Pag masaya ka, masaya ako."
Kayo ba?
Words that stayed.
Some people are dragging Mateo down saying na siya raw kasi is strict with Sarah. I'm not sure about that kasi di ko sila masyadong nasusubaybayan together. If you can enlighten me more then that would help. Pero siguro para sakin, if willing si Sarah mismo na mag tone down then magiging acceptable siya, as long as she chose it on her own accord. But if puro control from Mateo lang then that's when it's off?
Plus, I think Erwan's level of maturity and outlook is so nice and assuring, it's something we look up to and wish to have the same mindset. Pero I think in reality, di siya agad na-aattain. Maturity starts from within after all, bago mo mabigay sa partner mo. Sobrang commendable kasi it says a lot about him as an individual, plus how him and Anne assures each other behind closed doors, for them to continue staying strong together in their world of constant fame and limelight.
Ano po meaning ng balamu or like ano context kung kelan/pano siya ginagamit?
Sabi naman niya samin mas prefer daw niyang ma-realtalk from time to time para di raw niya nakakalimutan. We are also trying to be supportive din minsan given that our friend's situation is not easy. Pero nashookt lang talaga ako when sinabi niya samin na nag ask daw yung kausap niya ng ganung tanong. Ayan tuloy nanginig kamay ko HAHAHAHA
Pano po sabihin in kapampangan yung:
Wag kayong magulo
Wala tayo sa bahay
Umayos kayo ng galaw
Pano po sabihin in kapampangan yung "nagkita kita kami kanina at kumain dito sa bahay"
Basically she got entangled with other people's unhealed pasts. These led to her pain na she definitely DID NOT DESERVE. Inaway siya ng ex, nagcheat sakanya ang bf niya. Pero kung iisipin, wala naman siyang naging kasalanan doon sa dalawa. Luckily for her, she is secure enough and that contributed a lot to keeping herself sane.
I think Patty's character represents people who experienced unfair pain and treatment from their partners just because those partners were not responsible enough to heal first before letting someone else in their lives. Also, Patty teaches us to learn to be secure with ourselves because sometimes, sadly, yung pinagkatiwalaan at minahal mo pa ng buong buo ang mananakit sayo. She also represents people who learned to forgive despite the pain. Kasi minsan ang galing galing lang din nating magsabi na di na natin patatawarin ang isang tao at wala na silang chance. Pero ang totoo, isang sorry lang nila kaya pala nating magpaka mama mary at magpatawad.
Thoughts ko? Unfair. Unfair siya kasi nung huli siya pa nagka choice between the two women. I get it, may sariling struggles din siya. Pero kung iisipin, his lack of growth made Ginny feel insecure of their previous relationship. Tapos, nagawa niyang magcheat kay Patty. Dinala niya pagka indecisive niya hanggang sa pag tanda? Please, sobra akong naawa kay Patty, kahit pa nga bang sabihin niyang her love for him is greater than his mistakes.
What are your thoughts from her reason of giving up on Marco, up until sa part na gusto niyang makipagbalikan? Para sakin understandable naman yung reason niya of the break up kaso nung nagbbeg na siya sa huli parang ang itsura tuloy binawi niya lang yung principles niya. Arghh.
I ordered nung April 20. Pero mga bandang april 27 I tried cancelling it kasi ang tagal na hindi parin nasship. I get it, pre-order product siya so I waited muna ng 1 week pero no movement parin. Kaso, along the process of cancelling the order na withdraw ko yung process due to phone lag. Now I can't repeat it again. The cancellation button disappeared.
I chatted the seller if okay lang na matulungan akong icancel yung order ko but hindi raw nila kayang gawin yun, assistant lang daw sila etc. Pero they promised na last week of April masship na raw. Then fast forward to yesterday, nagchat ako asking nasaan na yung product. There's a delay daw sa warehouse and they promised na by this saturday madedeliver na yung item. It's been 2 weeks di parin nasship. I'm just wondering, normal ba talaga to?
The shop has thousands of followers naman and transactions with customer ratings, so di naman siya mukhang sketchy. Kaya nagtaka talaga ako now, how come it's this slow?
I paid using spay later hindi cod, so I'm just a bit worried kasi what if di dumating yung product pero papasok yung payment since bawal nang mag cancel?
Help me out please, thank you!