Heartbroken to be doing this, haven’t found any good homes otherwise… I think I need to rehome my 4yo female parrotlet. Located in Toronto but I’m willing to drive to get her to the best home. Looking for another home with parrotlets after her mate died 💔
I don’t even have the energy to create a burner account. I (35f) think my partner (36m) is done with our relationship and I’ve barely been able to breathe or eat. If we make it to November we’ll have been together for 10 years.
I’ve been through the ringer since we got together - health problems, undiagnosed autism burnout, my mother and cousin’s sudden deaths, lockdown, death of pets, not being able to find a job… needless to say I’ve been dependant and I’m humiliated over it. I literally would not be here if it wasn’t for his support and care during that time.
He got a new job that is intense in labour and time and figured that’s why it felt like we were drifting apart. He moved closer to his work in February, and I just moved in at the beginning of the month. I was putting in a lot of work on myself in that time. We missed each other, excited to be living together again.
I’m still in the process of unpacking, preparing our home, looking for jobs and starting a new chapter when I thought he was getting even more distant from me. He’s never been one to openly talk about his feelings or what he needs and I know in my grief I didn’t do much to support him.
He’s telling me he doesn’t know if he can get the same feelings back. That he doesn’t know what he wants. I don’t think we can go “back” and can only work towards something new. I want to try therapy, I want to work on us since it’s been ignored for too long. There’s no arguing, no resentment, just a gap that I think can be closed.
We’re going to talk this weekend. I’m going to be a mess until then.
Tl:dr: we’ve drifted apart and I want to work on it, I don’t think he does
Looking for a recommended couple/relationship therapist that’s able to do virtual appointments. Been browsing first session and getting overwhelmed
I don’t even have the energy to create a burner account. I (35f) think my partner (36m) is done with our relationship and I’ve barely been able to breathe or eat. If we make it to November we’ll have been together for 10 years.
I’ve been through the ringer since we got together - health problems, undiagnosed autism burnout, my mother and cousin’s sudden deaths, lockdown, death of pets, not being able to find a job… needless to say I’ve been dependant and I’m humiliated over it. I literally would not be here if it wasn’t for his support and care during that time.
He got a new job that is intense in labour and time and figured that’s why it felt like we were drifting apart. He moved closer to his work in February, and I just moved in at the beginning of the month. I was putting in a lot of work on myself in that time. We missed each other, excited to be living together again.
I’m still in the process of unpacking, preparing our home, looking for jobs and starting a new chapter when I thought he was getting even more distant from me. He’s never been one to openly talk about his feelings or what he needs and I know in my grief I didn’t do much to support him.
He’s telling me he doesn’t know if he can get the same feelings back. That he doesn’t know what he wants. I don’t think we can go “back” and can only work towards something new. I want to try therapy, I want to work on us since it’s been ignored for too long. There’s no arguing, no resentment, just a gap that I think can be closed.
We’re going to talk this weekend. I’m going to be a mess until then.
Tl:dr: we’ve drifted apart and I want to work on it, I don’t think he does