u/Black-White1986

To update further, as everyone in the community after almost 88k views suggested me to report it and I did, as it was the right thing.

Finally today I came to know from my friend that he and his wife were taken to the police station with other governing bodies.

He and his wife were house arrest for 2 days and CPS took the child from them for questioning.

Looks like nothing has happened, child is returned back to them and they are released from the custody.

Now he wants to throw another party to show that no one can touch him.... so ultimately he won. Even after knowing everything, no one could do anything.

I told you all, even if you report nothing will happen.

Hello I'm 40M, my neice is 16, she lives with my elder sister in Luxumberg. They don't have good relations, my neice blames my sister for getting a divorce.

My neice is close to my wife, during her visit she told my wife that she is not interested in studies and wanted to join film industry. My wife said ok and told her to give it a try.

She later told her she is interested in joining adult industry, my wife was stunned to hear that. She is browsing lot of restricted content online.

Neice spoke to her mom, and they had big fight about it, my wife explained her all the complexities and taboo around the society. That she will never be treated equally and will not get similar respect as other ladies around, everyone would like to take advantage of you. No one will ever take you seriously. Problems will worsen if and when you want to get married or to have children. She is thinking because of her looks and body she will get famous very soon.

Everyone around is yrying to explain her, But she is not ready to bent, and says I'm 16 and I can do what I wish. She is close to me, but not so much that I can discuss all the things in detail.

At my level I told her it's not a good decision you are taking for your life, I suggested her to go to college and finish her studies and get a reputed job or come and work for me. She is an average student, not very bright.

Later I discovered from wife that she sold her V-card to some Russian guy few months back for an extravagant trip to some beach in Carribean.

Currently she doesn't have a bf or in any relationship, this is what she told me .... she doesn't like to talk to her mom, even though she does everything for her, financially my sister is very well off....

Sister wants her daughter to stay here in US with us, so may be things can change.

As we have 5 daughter, we are concerned if she starts filling such rubbish to my kids as well. My sister really wants her to stay here, so she can understand what it's like to stay in a family, and to have male figure in life.

I don't know how to respond to it.

I need some advise if anyone has faced things like it.

Yesterday my family was invited to my friends place for some family function of their daughter. When we reached, i asked him what this was about. He said my daughter has turned women, and we celebrate this.

It was very weird for me, as I have not seen any customs like this. I felt weird to see his daughter wrapped in some traditional cloth from shoulders to toes and resting on some special looking couch.

All was fine, we had dinner and came back home. Later at night, i told my wife that they had very strange customs. These folks are from Liberia.

She said they went to their ancestral place and got the procedure done, I asked what procedure.

She told me it's female circumcision, as it's illegal here. they had to move as they all follow some family pattern.

I was so confused, I never knew that girls also get circumcision, males I know - in Muslim religion, it's mandatory and they celebrate it. This is also a Muslim family.

They way it was explained on Google it's really horrible.

I feel sorry for her.

I am thinking of anonymously reporting it to police, has anyone had any such experience before.

I feel very annoyed, they are all very educated and wealthy folks, actually good friends. How can they do something like that.

I want to know if anyone of you have known anyone who has gone through it.

Hello I am a father of my 11 yo daughter, she is going through some phase in her life.

Today morning my wife told me that my daughter shredded all her panties, after asking her she said its old fashioned and she wants good looking synthetic stuff... she didn't reach her mensus yet.

My wife told her it's best and comfortable to be in cotton rather than polyester, she started arguing saying " then y do you use it if its so uncomfortable".

We know she doesn't have any relationship outside of any kind, and is not into impressing anyone.

Need to know if anyone has faced any similar issues of such kind and how they handled it.

Hello I have a strange situation going on in my house, my elder 11 yr old daughter doesn't like to wear clothes at home. She roams around the house even goes out in garden and pool nacked, we have a big and secures house so safety is not an issue.

I tried to confront her many times even my wife tells her so many things about how to dress around, even when you are around the parents.

Daughter says " she doesn't like to wear them as she is at home and she doesn't feel ashamed in front of us, she is very comfortable with us and our servants around".

She is not small, she has a body of a teen girl, which I feel very uncomfortable to see, because of all this I replaced all the male servants with females.

To make it interesting we even bought her expensive and best of undergarments so may be she will be interested in wearing them ... but still no change. She only use them when we go out or when she goes to school.

When we try to tell her she gets offensive and argumentative with us that why are we forcing her to wear clothes at home when no strangers are around. This has been going on for the past 5-6 years, earlier we thought that she is a child and it's ok if she wants to run around nacked, sometimes we also find it's cute and loving when she used to come and hugs me, but later on it became a major problem.

She is very well behaved when we have any visitors, very decently clothed and humble.

We are following through for counselling sessions for almost 2 yrs now, but their is no improvement.

Some episodes also happened at home when my wife was very harsh and frustrated on her and shouted on her, even hit her ones on the back, she had a panic attack, we had to rush to hospital.

Since then we are also afraid to raise our voice above certain extent.

I am so afraid that she might fall Into porn industry and all that nonsense ... so far their are no signs of it.

Secondly, i have twin daughters as well, they are both 4, I am afraid if they will also fall into this style over the time if this things continues with my elder one.

I need to ask if anyone has any experience of any such kind and suggestions are welcome how to handle it, because we are out of ideas and looks like therapy is not working as well.

Hello I have a strange situation going on in my house, my elder 11 yr old daughter doesn't like to wear clothes at home. She roams around the house even goes out in garden and pool nacked, we have a big and secures house so safety is not an issue.

I tried to confront her many times even my wife tells her so many things about how to dress around, even when you are around the parents.

Daughter says " she doesn't like to wear them as she is at home and she doesn't feel ashamed in front of us, she is very comfortable with us and our servants around".

She is not small, she has a body of a teen girl, which I feel very uncomfortable to see, because of all this I replaced all the male servants with females.

To make it interesting we even bought her expensive and best of undergarments so may be she will be interested in wearing them ... but still no change. She only use them when we go out or when she goes to school.

When we try to tell her she gets offensive and argumentative with us that why are we forcing her to wear clothes at home when no strangers are around. This has been going on for the past 5-6 years, earlier we thought that she is a child and it's ok if she wants to run around nacked, sometimes we also find it's cute and loving when she used to come and hugs me, but later on it became a major problem.

She is very well behaved when we have any visitors, very decently clothed and humble.

We are following through for counselling sessions for almost 2 yrs now, but their is no improvement.

Some episodes also happened at home when my wife was very harsh and frustrated on her and shouted on her, even hit her ones on the back, she had a panic attack, we had to rush to hospital.

Since then we are also afraid to raise our voice above certain extent.

I am so afraid that she might fall Into porn industry and all that nonsense ... so far their are no signs of it.

Secondly, i have twin daughters as well, they are both 4, I am afraid if they will also fall into this style over the time if this things continues with my elder one.

I need to ask if anyone has any experience of any such kind and suggestions are welcome how to handle it, because we are out of ideas and looks like therapy is not working as well.

I am not asking for medical advice.

Hello I have a strange situation going on in my house, my elder 11 yr old daughter doesn't like to wear clothes at home. She roams around the house even goes out in garden and pool nacked, we have a big and secures house so safety is not an issue.

I tried to confront her many times even my wife tells her so many things about how to dress around, even when you are around the parents.

Daughter says " she doesn't like to wear them as she is at home and she doesn't feel ashamed in front of us, she is very comfortable with us and our servants around".

She is not small, she has a body of a teen girl, which I feel very uncomfortable to see, because of all this I replaced all the male servants with females.

To make it interesting we even bought her expensive and best of undergarments so may be she will be interested in wearing them ... but still no change. She only use them when we go out or when she goes to school.

When we try to tell her she gets offensive and argumentative with us that why are we forcing her to wear clothes at home when no strangers are around. This has been going on for the past 5-6 years, earlier we thought that she is a child and it's ok if she wants to run around nacked, sometimes we also find it's cute and loving when she used to come and hugs me, but later on it became a major problem.

She is very well behaved when we have any visitors, very decently clothed and humble.

We are following through for counselling sessions for almost 2 yrs now, but their is no improvement.

Some episodes also happened at home when my wife was very harsh and frustrated on her and shouted on her, even hit her ones on the back, she had a panic attack, we had to rush to hospital.

Since then we are also afraid to raise our voice above certain extent.

I am so afraid that she might fall Into porn industry and all that nonsense ... so far their are no signs of it.

Secondly, i have twin daughters as well, they are both 4, I am afraid if they will also fall into this style over the time if this things continues with my elder one.

I am not asking for any medical advice, but I need to ask if anyone has any experience of any such kind and suggestions are welcome how to handle it, because we are out of ideas and looks like therapy is not working as well.

Need suggestions.

Hello I'm M(40), married for 12 yrs. I was observing that my wife is not much interested in getting physical also she didn't like to touch my penis unless I guide her hand to it, even then in few seconds she moves her hands away. Earlier I though she like to cuddle. But it's been sometime she told me that she doesn't like to touch my penis. Sometimes she does ... one in a month maybe I get lucky with handjob. I always keep it neat and clean, so that's not an issue.

I want to know is their others as well going through this ??

Also why do ladies don't like to touch penis, how about if I refuse to play with her pussy !!!