i do not understand the need to upload so many different documents? firstly they asked for hoarding certificate, anti ragging, now medical fitness?? what is that supposed to mean and how to proceed with it? if anyone can help me out here, thank you
any seniors or graduates, if they can help or someone who is giving the interview?
ik it has ma clinical psychology which i assume is the new rci ma clinical and not the postgraduate masters in psychology? I think they had applied psychological course but i cannot seem to find it can anyone help me figure this out please
how is the program, faculty, opportunities, people etc.? how would the living situation be like
We have a generally good relationship, but something happened recently that I can’t stop spiraling over. I asked him a pretty standard "relationship" question: "What are your favourite physical features about me?"
he just said, "Your hair and your nails."
Those are things I can change in an hour. It feels like he’s telling me that the "real me" isn't attractive, but the accessories I add to myself are. It makes me feel like I’m replaceable, or like he’s just looking at me as a collection of grooming habits rather than a person he’s attracted to.
Is this a "guy" thing where they just pick the most obvious things they see, or is it a sign that he’s just not that into me ? physically?
Me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for the past 1.5 years. we lived in the same city when we started dating and moved apart after a year. it has been long distance ever since.
he broke my trust by repeatedly hiding his phone away from me when we were together. The first time it happened he explained how it’s uncomfortable for him to show his phone to anyone. But during that time i wasn’t really trying to snoop through his phone or anything. we were just casually showing each other some pictures on our phones. I let it go the first time thinking its a reflex for him to do that.
after that it repeated almost 4-5 times again that whenever he showed me something on his phone and the moment i close the current app, he either snatched his phone away or closed it off. We have fought a lot over this. After that, I became snoopy constantly trying to reach his phone and opening messages, Instagram and wanting to see everything. I saw once or twice w him present with me. Ik i crossed a line here, but after 4-5 times I really just thought he was hiding something and I couldn’t help act like that. I took responsibility over it and apologised for that, but still he kept being so defensive about his phone. and the main thing too is his double standard: he would normally use my phone for things and i never complain nor do i think about it. Yet when i do the same he has a problem with it. This completely broke my trust, i felt as though he might be hiding something.
but what always countered my thoughts was that he was a wonderful person otherwise. He remembers things about me, listens to me, makes me feel important and always has had negative views about infidelity. His values and nature really never seemed as of someone who would be unfaithful
After the incidents, we became long distance, but the trust factor was broken and never restored. I used to ask him to understand me whenever I brought up the topic, but he seemed to not understand me much or how i felt. at one point i became so frustrated and used to become rude to him and say things i’d regret later.
he’s naturally hurt by my words and I’m hurt by his lack of actions for regaining my trust. After all that, I completely become vulnerable to him and explained exactly how i felt in the relationship and he understood after a long time and put down being defensive and playing victim at times too and is trying to make sure i feel like i can trust him. he’s making sure to always update me, send me pictures, call me and explain what happened at places and i really seemed to think it was going to be fine.
until yesterday, he’s in his final year of college and his friend group(all guys) has a female friend. they were all going to go at her place for a house party. He asked me if he could go and informed me about the details too. But suddenly i was so anxious, so unsure of his actions and what he would do when other girls are present. I told him this and he cancelled going to the party itself. I said i didn’t want to control his actions or anything, but just wanted to make sure he knew how i felt.
my mind rushed in that moment to think he would still go and lied to me about not going. he called me in the morning and my first thoughts were - oh he came back from the party and must be guilty so he’s calling. even on call he was being the sweetest person, reassuring me, making sure i felt loved. making me know how lucky he is to have me. but again, my first thought was maybe he’s guilty of doing something wrong to me and making up to me in his head.
I genuinely don’t know if this repeated thoughts are ever gonna stop for me or how do i handle myself and trust him even a bit more. we tried a lot of times to take breaks or think about ending things but we both keep wanting to be w each other. He infact has never left me but i have tried to leave him.
I’m not sure if i should be able to trust him or his actions were totally unforgivable? I would appreciate any sort advice as to how I can deal with this and what would be the right action.
My boyfriend and I keep having the same fight pattern and I’m starting to feel drained.
Usually it goes like this: he makes a mistake or does something hurtful, and when I point it out, his first reaction is to get defensive. After some back-and-forth, he eventually gives in and agrees. But by that point, I’m already so frustrated that I become harsh, too direct, and rude in how I respond.
Then the focus shifts.
He feels bad about my reaction, and I feel bad about what he did in the first place. So we both end up apologizing, but I feel like the original issue that hurt me gets minimized or brushed aside.
This has happened a few times recently, and I’m wondering if this is a kind of loop everyone goes through?
There are other things too: • Sometimes he plays the victim during arguments and brings up what i did in the past during the current situation • Gives me the silent treatment as he usually needs more space in the relationship and often • Makes me question whether I’m the one in the wrong and most importantly, the one thing i’m always thinking about is : • He’s broken my trust because he often acts like he’s hiding something on his phone
At this point I don’t know if this is just unhealthy communication that can be fixed, or if it’s a bigger red flag.
What should I do? Has anyone been in a relationship dynamic like this and managed to improve it?
Im not able to find the applications if they are open, yet if anyone knows the tentative dates when they will or has links for applications that are open. please help and send it thank you