u/BoyAstroAstro

I feel like I’m genuinely going insane. My partner will say things and have no proof just convoluted answers as to why then say “why would I lie?” Or start crying also being confused. There’s been so many times and situations where i’ve been told “i’m not saying you’re a bad person but its your actions” and my actions are a direct result of her choices. Like her cat had a vet emergency and is on meds now and I said I would help but everytime she’s given him his meds at night its literally after i’ve gone to sleep and we sleep separately so its like you’re the one feeding your cat late at night and blaming me because you’re doing it alone knowing I’m not up late. Or constantly hearing “you’re choosing other people over me” when its me not caring about someones opinion or wanting to hangout with people. She doesn’t think she’s manipulative but generally people who say “i never lie” are the biggest liar. I guess my question is for people who date women how do you deal with them being emotionally manipulative and gaslighting you by saying you’re the one doing everything wrong?