Perspective: extremely rare moment when the tables turn

Perspective: extremely rare moment when the tables turn

She experiences a fraction of what the average guy usually goes through, except she is still an option. As she specified, "the thought of them hooking up all the time esp. now that he knows while I try to shoot my shot crushes me". Good. As they like to say, nobody owes you anything, you are not owed a relationship, love and all that. Or does it only apply to men?

Nevertheless she'll still end up hooking up with him regardless, we all know how this goes.

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u/BoyNextDoor83 — 13 hours ago

Perspective: even the norm1es are starting to notice

All the self-reporting is starting to reach a more and more broader audience. Of course the usual suspects in the comments are claiming that it doesn't matter and all that gaslighting crap they usually do, but fewer and fewer people are buying it. I doubt anything will change but at least more and more people are being exposed to the truth.

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u/BoyNextDoor83 — 16 hours ago

Perspective: men like this are the problem

A willing simp betabuxx openly admitting it. Here are some of his comments:

>This legit been my life since puberty I’ve never ever had any woman remotely be interested in me unless I go to these lengths. And as the girl in the pic will tell you, I’ve still never held her hand and we are no longer on speaking terms 

>I have never even held her hand she sees me as beneath her. She gave my cousin some coochie sadly though 

Remember: there are always worse fates

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u/BoyNextDoor83 — 3 days ago

Perspective: I wonder what she could possibly mean by that

Surely she doesn't mean that she usually puts out on the first date and now found a "nice guy" who didn't make any move or initiate any phsyical contact whatsoever on the date, right?

Betabuxx origin story

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u/BoyNextDoor83 — 5 days ago

Perspective: worst she can do is say no

In a way it's his fault for being on the apps in the first place. At the same time, interactions like this give you the largest doses of blackpill so it could be worth it, in the sense that he gets the hint and stops trying.

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u/BoyNextDoor83 — 8 days ago

Perspective: some normi3s are catching on

Guy says in comments that no woman has ever reciprocated his feelings and was hit with constant rejection.

Another one in comments says "Usually after around 40 rejections in a row i take a break for like 3-4 months and go again. Been trying to get a gf for 6 years now. No luck"

After how long do you think a normi3 just gives up? And how do you think the future will look like? Will more and more guys with experiences like this turn towards the blackpill, without fully acknowledging it?

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u/BoyNextDoor83 — 9 days ago

Perspective: Something even worse than buxxing

On a more serious note, if men are becoming this desperate and willing to spend this much money, maybe some even more for useless advice that you can find with a simple Google search, for shit like this that ends no result whatsoever, something is terribly wrong with society today. That is 10k flushed down the toilet.

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u/BoyNextDoor83 — 9 days ago

Perspective: a different way to humiliate yourself

Have you always wanted to start buxxing without even being in a relationship? Well here's your chance!

Start dropping money for speed dating events for the exclusive chance to meet subpar women (because let's be honest, what kind of women would actually attend such a thing) forced to talk to you for 5 minutes, pretend she is interested in what you're saying and at the end of the event, reject you.

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u/BoyNextDoor83 — 12 days ago

Perspective: men in women's fields

Yaaaas king go off, get your hoe phase on and never settle for the bare minimum.

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u/BoyNextDoor83 — 13 days ago
▲ 111 r/lnkyverse

Perspective: There are always worse fates

Since being lesbian is something you're born with, not something you become over time (or so they say), this woman has strung along her husband, wasted god knows how many years of his life, had children with him (maybe) and now poof: she's a lesbian. And the guy posts it on reddit like a funny haha joke while inside he's probably thinking of purchasing some rope.

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u/BoyNextDoor83 — 15 days ago
▲ 1.8k r/WomenAreNotIntoMen+1 crossposts

Young women are moving away from exclusive heterosexuality faster than young men. Over the last 15 years, the number of Gen Z women reporting LGBTQ+ identities has increased substantially, while the number for men has barely changed.

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u/BoyNextDoor83 — 17 days ago
▲ 100 r/lnkyverse

Perspective: her past doesn't matter

And remember, if you're uncomfortable with that you're just jealous, insecure, possessive and not a real man

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u/BoyNextDoor83 — 19 days ago

Perspective: I'm tired boss

Same old tired normie points in the main post as well as same generic useless advice in the comments and misconceptions about the BP.

Fuck it, I'll even leave the link in the comments if any of you is bored and wants to read and/or engage. It's pointless but hey, it might be fun for some.

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u/BoyNextDoor83 — 20 days ago

Perspective: woman does the online dating experiment...the results will shock you

There's a comment saying "A lot of women have no idea what it's like to use dating apps as a man. They assume that if a man isn't getting matches he just needs to take better photos or change their bio." I call bullshit at this one. It's been well over a decade...everybody knows. Some just don't want to admit it.

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u/BoyNextDoor83 — 20 days ago

Perspective: A self proclaimed ugly woman's experience on Bumble

Notice her penultimate paragraph. In her view, at least as far as dating apps are concerned, an ugly woman's experience is the equivalent of that of an average guy. Where does that leave ugly guys? Invisible, as if they don't exist. They shouldn't even be on dating apps if it's pointless for average guys.

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u/BoyNextDoor83 — 21 days ago

Perspective: Let's rewrite history once again to fit the narrative

It's all in your head, inkwell! That data is from 2009 OkCupid. It doesn't apply to today...because today it's even worse.

Just go ahead and be a good little productive member of society and do as you're told. Don't question anything. Don't think that what you see around you is true, because it's not. You're just catastrophizing, go ahead and work on yourself . And remember, you are not entitled to sex, relationships or love. It's all your fault. But at the same time nothing's wrong.

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u/BoyNextDoor83 — 21 days ago
▲ 156 r/lnkyverse

Perspective: more an more boys start discovering the blackpill while young.

And it doesn't even have to be from tiktok, where it's just "ragebaiting". In high school/college one can witness it first hand while surrounded by his peers. And he isn't even talking about only himself, but his friends as well.

Being disenfranchised at a young age, discovering the truth and knowing there is next to zero chance for you to do anything about it in order to change it. Is this a good or a bad thing? I think the positives far outweigh the negatives.

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u/BoyNextDoor83 — 22 days ago

Perspective: just drugmaxx and alcoholmax

This shitty podcast is the gift that keeps on giving. Basically every guest they have says pretty much the same thing

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u/BoyNextDoor83 — 22 days ago
▲ 11 r/lnkyverse+1 crossposts

My Standards (Looking for a serious, long-term relationship)

I’m a 30F woman and I’m looking for a high-quality, serious, marriage-oriented heterosexual relationship. I know exactly what I want and I’m not interested in lowering my standards just to “see how it goes.”

I also consider myself someone who meets these expectations as well.

What I’m looking for:

  1. A stable, well-paying and consistent job/career
  2. At least a bachelor’s degree and good English level
  3. Has lived alone or currently lives independently
  4. Loves animals (especially cats) and has experience caring for pets
  5. Comes from a relatively modern, educated and cultured family
    • Has healthy boundaries with family
    • Not overly dependent on family
    • Does NOT involve family in the relationship
  6. Has a driver’s license and is able to drive
  7. Enjoys traveling, exploring new places, and has hobbies
  8. Physically active, healthy lifestyle (fit, but not extreme gym obsession)
  9. Around 180+ cm height
  10. Has basic life skills (can cook, clean, take care of daily life)
  11. Socially balanced: not extremely isolated, not overly social
  • A few solid, trustworthy friends is enough
  • No “female best friend/kanka” type overly close friendships
  1. Comfortable with public relationship visibility (e.g. posting together on social media), but not rushing family introductions early on
  2. Cultured, intelligent, self-developing mindset
  3. Has real relationship experience (not completely inexperienced, but also not overly chaotic / serial dating history)
  4. Emotionally mature and responsible
  5. No addictions (no smoking, alcohol dependency, gambling, etc.)
  6. Has lived or spent time abroad / international experience is a plus
  7. Not child-obsessed in early stage
  • I do NOT want early pressure about having children right after meeting
  • Children are a future topic, not an immediate expectation

Relationship expectations:

  • During dating, the man should mostly pay
  • After marriage, expenses should be shared fairly

If someone genuinely matches these values and lifestyle expectations, I’m open to meeting and getting to know them seriously.

***** EXTRA*****

  • Good mental health, with no serious unmanaged mental health issues
  • No current psychiatric medication dependency and no history of substance abuse or drug addiction
  • No anger management issues
  • Calm, emotionally stable, and mature
  • Enjoys reading books and learning new things
  • Well-groomed and takes care of his appearance
  • Maintains good hygiene
  • Not excessively hairy
  • Not bald (personal preference)
  • Has never been married
  • Has no children
  • Is looking for a serious, long-term relationship leading to marriage
  • Does not want to rush into having children immediately after meeting
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u/BoyNextDoor83 — 1 month ago