u/BoysenberrySuperb802

He keeps showing up for me

I’ve gotten good at not over analyzing every interaction, but he’s showing up for me when he doesn’t have to…

The semester ended and I needed help with something in my dorm. I was alone so I called all my friends who were still on campus. None picked up cause they were asleep

I didn’t want to call him because I was nervous, but I did and he didn’t pick up. It was honestly a bit of a relief, but he called back not even 10 seconds later. He always texts and picks up calls super fast. I’m not used to it, especially since it’s coming from a guy

He agreed to come help me in my dorm, even though he was busy packing up his room and getting ready to drive home

I think the fact that he agreed to come help me when he had no obligation to really stood out. He could’ve said no, or that he was busy, but he told me that he’d be over in a few

There had been more scenarios like this, and I feel like they have to count towards something…it’s hard for me to disregard them

edit:

I don't want to share every moment I've had with him, but I did unintentionally soft confess ("You get cooler every time we talk and I wanna spend more time with you. My mind does go blank a lot though cause I get a bit nervous"), and he became so much warmer after that. I didn't mean to do it over text, and it took him a day to respond, but he suggested doing something with me one on one. Prior to that it was mainly group activities. The dorm help happened after the confession

I felt like it was important to include cause a soft confession is kinda important lol

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u/BoysenberrySuperb802 — 2 days ago

Went on a group trip with him and after it was over I told him I wanted to talk to him more before the semester ends

He asked me what I wanted to talk about…and I responded with

“Hmmm I lwk just wanna get to know you more. You get cooler every time I talk to you 😭my mind goes blank a lot”

It took him about a day to respond, but he apologized for the late text and suggested painting with me this weekend. I fumbled but somehow luck was on my side?

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u/BoysenberrySuperb802 — 20 days ago

Texted him after a group hike and said that I wanted to talk to him more before the semester ended. I also said that he gets cooler the more I talk to him, and my mind often goes blank

I don’t really know why I told him that, but he said he would be down to paint with me before the semester is over…

The response was unexpected and I’m kinda surprised???? I’m not mad at all—I’m totally excited, but just a little shocked

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u/BoysenberrySuperb802 — 22 days ago