u/BrainOne5224

Long story short: I have a problem with someone, and as much as it has angered me, I’ve chosen not to confront it and to let it go for the sake of Allah. The problem really doesn’t affect my day to day living much, but it just really angers me every time I come across it. I’ve decided to justify this persons actions, but the Shaytan has been tempting me to cause problems over it.

What can I do to let it go and leave it with Allah?

I don’t want to feel this way anymore, and I don’t want to be angry with this person.

P.s. this person has not done anything impermissible

My 9 month old got sick with a pretty brutal fever for about 2/3 days. During this time she refused to sleep alone, would only contact nap.

It’s been a day since she’s fully recovered and she is refusing to settle in her cot. I’ve been in a dark room for 14 hours a day for the last 4 days and I’m losing my mind. Have I destroyed all chances of her sleeping alone??

For context, my LO has always struggled with sleep and we have been cosleeping since birth. However we have been able to get her to take her naps in her cot, only after she’s fallen asleep in our arms. She startles in the transition, sees the cot, then falls asleep.

On that note, any sleep training techniques that aren’t pick up & put down, Ferber or any of its modified variety? I’ve tried them and the latter made her regress.

I’d like to hear from women who fell pregnant in less than 6 months post partum who ended up having a vbac. My hospital has a high rate of c sections, and I’m hoping for a vbac myself but I know I’ll be fought at every corner. I’m looking for some advice and tips so I can advocate for myself.

My main reason is that I plan to have more children, and I know that if I have a c section again, they’ll just keep pushing me to have c sections with the rest of my kids.