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I am actually unwell😭

In early August I was hit with an allegation of breaching academic integrity.

This allegation was in relation to an open book proctored exam. The evidence that was compiled against me is simply from a moment where I got up for just over 5 minutes. I have a medical condition which involves an eye disease. In the break i used the bathroom and took a lap around my house for two minutes. However the uni is alleging I made contact with someone else. I personally have no diea how they came to this conclusion as my webcam and audio was on the whole time. And i can confirm there was not a single person around me when i sat the exam.

I wrote up a written response and reached out to DUSA, they did not recommend any changes to my letter. So i went ahead and sent it a week ago. I was advised the committee is busy but the waiting is incredibly exhausting for me. Especially considering this allegation is simply unture and is weighing so heavily on me.

As a result of this (i have also had other stuff going on in my life), I had a really awful flare up in my illness which is known as a “storm” (note: my illness is an autoimmune disease which is hormonal). This took a really awful toll on me physically and I fell incredibly unwell. I went to the doctors and was treated accordingly. I had to apply for multiple extensions on my assessments. And tbh i feel awful about everything I have submitted.

I apologise for the rant but I have two questions:

- Firstly, when on earth can I expect to hear back from the Academic integrity team. Also, what others who have experienced found the meeting. And anything info you may like to share.

- Secondly, I had an assignment due which I submitted late during the peak of my illness. I applied for special consideration however I was rejected as my medical certificate did not cover the due date and only the dates directly following. This is bc I was not able to see a doctor on the due dare as I wasn’t well mentally and physically tbh. However, i went the next day!

I ended up submitting 4 days late. I am considering just accepting the late penalty but I also dont want to as I was legitimately unwell. Is there anything I can do about this or should I just move on?

Anyway I apologise for the long post and am guessing this is full of typos. I appreciate any replies and hope everyone has a good day! 🫶

Also I would like to note that I am in the process of setting up a DRC plan.

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u/Bright_Blackberry_67 — 4 days ago
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Special consideration question

Hi, i have applied for special consideration for two of my assignments for a medical reason. I have medial certificates for all dates covered and also a doctor’s note explaining my condition which is a chronic health issue i am being treated for.

I was basically just requesting an additional extension of just the weekend. I received a regular one but due to my health was not able to submit by the new deadline. I applied on Thursday night and have still not heard anything.

I plan to have both assessments submitted by Saturday at the latest as I am worried It will be rejected. I am just curious on what others peoples experiences with special consideration are. Or if anyone has dealt w similar circumstances.

I am also worried I may be rejected tbh. Should I also reach out to my unit chair and explain the situation after I submit tomorrow? I am also worried as in the past the special consideration team has not been very responsive to me in relation to emails. And i had to email them my diagnosis sheet as I was unable to attach it to the application. So I am also worried they wont see that and reject me. I also lowkey wanna edit my comment now that I have my diagnosis statement and explain how the period of illness I experienced was unanticipated but I am not sure how to. As i have just been put on new medication as a result of my recent illness.

If anyone can offer any advice or share experiences i would appreciate it.

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u/Bright_Blackberry_67 — 7 days ago

Accusation of misconduct

Hi, so yesterday I received an email informing me that is suspected I breached academic integrity on an online exam. And i dont want to be dramatic but have been beyond stressed ever since.

The issue they have and the evidence binder is essentially images from a moment where I stood up during the exam. I have got an explanation for why and they lmk I can provide a written response.

However, I did also print a formula sheet (prepared) at the very beginning of the exam which is also something that was mentioned briefly in the evidence binder.

I did make a post about this yesterday but I now know the specific allegation I am being accused of is making contact w another person. I am truly beyond upset by this as I can confirm I did not at all consult anything or anyone that would aid me additionally during the exam.

The printing I was not under the impression would be a problem. I look back now and cannot stop thinking about how badly I wish I did not do it. However, i was under the impression that these exams were supervised and in turn it would be okay bc I retrieved the document on the device while sharing my screen from word. It was one sheet and I did it during the first 3 minutes. Essentially, I am struggling to understand how to argue the specific allegation I am being accused of which is making contact w another person. My audio and camera was on the entire time and I am struggling to even understand how this conclusion was came to. The evidence is literally just photos of my chair from when I stood up??

I will be doing a review meeting eventually unfortunately I was told the wait would be long as they have alot of cases. I am posting this to ask about experiences and if anyone has ever seen something similar. I also hope i have stressed how serious i am when I say i did not consult anything. I also apologise for how all over the place this post probably is.

And I would like to say, I honestly feel for anyone that has or is dealing with this and is innocent. The stress is really unfathomable. I got the email at work and my heart practically sank. I also had an assignment due yesterday and unfortunately submitted it late and in turn am losing 5% (which is my responsibility ofc).

I would also like to note i didn’t even do that well on the exam and knew i wouldnt going in. I left multiple questions blank. I just cannot afford to be given a fail because i know this is not true.

Some things I would like to note is during the exam i was allowed to do all that I did. They are just suggesting that I made contact w someone else bc I was off camera for over 5 minutes. I hope those reading this believe me when i say i when i was up i also decided to adjust the heat. I have Graves’ disease and get extreme tremors in my hands when nervous so I needed to warm the room i was in up. I am assuming this is why they are considering my absence suspicious as i was off camera for over 5 minutes(then while i also grabbed the sheet from the printer.). I would also like to reiterate that all of this was in the first ten minutes of the exam and my cam and audio were on. I never once locked my screen!

Also I apologise for how all over the place this post probably is i am just rlly upset about all this.

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u/Bright_Blackberry_67 — 14 days ago

Accused of misconduct

Hi, so yesterday I received an email informing me that is suspected I breached academic integrity on an online proctored exam. And i dont want to be dramatic but have been beyond stressed ever since.

The issue they have and the evidence binder is essentially images from a moment where I stood up during the exam. I have got an explanation for it which and they did lmk I can provide a written response.

However, I did also print a formula sheet (prepared) at the very beginning of the exam which is also something that was mentioned briefly in the evidence binder.

The specific allegation I am being accused of is making contact w another person. I am truly beyond upset by this as I can confirm I did not at all consult anything or anyone that would aid me additionally during the exam.

The printing I was not under the impression would be a problem. I look back now and cannot stop thinking about how badly I wish I did not do it. However, i was under the impression that these exams were supervised and in turn it would be okay bc I retrieved the document on the device while sharing my screen from word. It was one sheet and I did it during the first 3 minutes. Essentially, I am struggling to understand how to argue the specific allegation I am being accused of which is making contact w another person. My audio and camera was on the entire time and I am struggling to even understand how this conclusion was came to. The evidence is literally just photos of my chair from when I stood up??

I will be doing a review meeting eventually unfortunately I was told the wait would be long as they have alot of cases at my uni. I am posting this to ask about others experiences and if anyone has ever dealt with something similar. I also hope i have stressed how serious i am when I say i did not consult anything. I also apologise for how all over the place this post probably is.

And I would like to say, I honestly feel for anyone that has or is dealing with this. The stress is really unfathomable. I got the email at work and my heart practically sank. I also had an assignment due yesterday and unfortunately submitted it late and in turn am losing 5% (which is my responsibility ofc).

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u/Bright_Blackberry_67 — 14 days ago
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Allegation of breaching academic integrity

Hi, so yesterday I received an email informing me that is suspected I breached academic integrity. And i dont want to be dramatic but have been beyond stressed ever since.

The issue they have and the evidence binder is essentially images from a moment where I stood up during the exam. I have got an explanation for it which I explained to DUSA and they did explained how I can provide a written response.

However, I did also print a formula sheet (prepared) at the very beginning of the exam which is also something that was mentioned briefly in the evidence binder.

I did make a post about this yesterday but I now know the specific allegation I am being accused of is making contact w another person. I am truly beyond upset by this as I can confirm I did not at all consult anything or anyone that would aid me additionally during the exam.

The printing I was not under the impression would be a problem. I look back now and cannot stop thinking about how badly I wish I did not do it. However, i was under the impression that these exams were supervised and in turn it would be okay bc I retrieved the document on the device while sharing my screen from word. It was one sheet and I did it during the first 3 minutes. Essentially, I am struggling to understand how to argue the specific allegation I am being accused of which is making contact w another person. My audio and camera was on the entire time and I am struggling to even understand how this conclusion was came to. The evidence is literally just photos of my chair from when I stood up??

I will be doing a review meeting eventually unfortunately I was told the wait would be long as they have alot of cases. I am posting this to ask about others experiences and if anyone has ever dealt with something similar. I also hope i have stressed how serious i am when I say i did not consult anything. I also apologise for how all over the place this post probably is.

And I would like to say, I honestly feel for anyone that has or is dealing with this and is innocent. The stress is really unfathomable. I got the email at work and my heart practically sank. I also had an assignment due yesterday and unfortunately submitted it late and in turn am losing 5% (which is my responsibility ofc).

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u/Bright_Blackberry_67 — 14 days ago
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Academic misconduct allegation

First of all I would like to apologise if this post is all over the place because I am truly so stressed because this has never happened to me and I never imagined it would.

I have been accused of academic misconduct for an end of unit exam. The exam was open book i want to note too. But anyways, I truly did not do anything or act in any incorrect manner. I know in my heart and I cannot stress this enough and I want whoever reads this to understand that I did not do what the email I received is accusing me of.

The email is basically accusing me of communicating with another student or outside party. I sat the exam at an my house while my parents were at work. There was no one else there. I am considering going to neighbours and asking for surrounding CCTV. I don’t know how else to prove it. The main evidence that they have against me is that I stood up throughout the exam. While I was doing the exam, I really don’t even recall standing up for over 5 mins if im being honest.

I can’t focus on anything and I’m literally at work right now. I feel sick in my stomach because I’m so stressed and I don’t know how to prove that I didn’t do this. I booked an appt w dusa but im still really not okay. I dont want to sound dramatic but i cant even eat. I would like to hear from others who this has ever happened to me. And i apologise for the messy post but i dont want to be too detailed. I also have other assignments due tomorrow and today but am really struggling to focus. 😐

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u/Bright_Blackberry_67 — 15 days ago

This show is annoying to watch

I am a first time watcher. I just recently finished Gossip Girl and loved it, someone recommended I start this show. But oh my god its pure rage bait😭.

Firstly, all the relationships are legit disasters. Initially I did feel the spark between mike and susan. But dear lord the amount of unnecessary drama and plots to keep them apart. Baffling and I literally hate them now😭. Also I cannot even get STARTED on lynette and tom…

Secondly, the amount of deaths. I have already spoiled so much for myself and I cant get past Mike and Edie being killed off. I obviously do not have all the context but i dont see myself feeling good about the ending of this show. I would like to say that I dont love Edie specifically but I hate the idea of killing off a funny character from the first season. Also susan and Mike being divorced in s5 after just getting married.

I just dont even know if its worth finishing this show bc I always get really hung up on shows w unsatisfying endings lol😭

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u/Bright_Blackberry_67 — 27 days ago

This makes me SO sad😭

The other day I made a post about how season 1 just had an amazing grasp on the romance aspect of this show. And how all the couples had a connection until the writers decided to pass everyone around.

BUT I cannot empathise how heartbroken I get over Serena and Dan.
In season 1 they were everything to me. This couple was amazingly crafted they actually were making eachother better. Like when serena came around after the whole pool party scandal in s1 and was able to understand dans perspective. Or how they solved the miscommunication on their first date.
And OFC the cotillion episode!

By season 5 he literally hated her. Ik hate is a strong word but the way he was fawning over blair who bullied, ridiculed, and looked down on both dan and his entire family in inside but wrote Serena as the selfish entitled one when she was nothing but respectful to the and did not care they were not upper class.

I didnt disagree w how he portrayed serena but the juxtaposition between blair and her in the book was insane. Especially when we consider blair had just banished Jenny when he was writing this! And i cant even begin on season 6 the article he published was insane. I can never understand how we got to this point and (as much as i loved them at one point) them being endgame.

A direct quote from the article: “Serena is nothing” and then he goes on to bash her and talk about her daddy issues. Dan after s1 is literally a disaster to me and I hate him. But this couple will always hold a special place in my heart.

u/Bright_Blackberry_67 — 1 month ago

Season 1 was the shows peak when it came to the relationships!!

Imo s1 is the best overall. I really lovedd the romance of this season. Like every couple was actually interesting and had depth that was fun to analyse! The lily and rufus phone call will always be engraved in my mind. Like the way lily gave serena that nod of approval😭.

Also Chuck and Blairs at victrola BEYOND ICONIC!!!

It’s genuinely baffling how awful the writers fumbled the dating aspect of this show. Everyone ended up dating each other and it was actually bothering me by so bad.

u/Bright_Blackberry_67 — 1 month ago

Can we talk about this scene

I need to begin by saying this scene is the first time I lowkey cried watching this show😭.

It was so bittersweet. Heartbreaking but at the same time felt like a good thing as they where finally growing up. I think it was a huge moment of growth for Chuck specifically. Because for the past 3 episodes he was trying not to care for louis at all and looked at him and blair as a fling until he heard about the engagement. I also recall jack saying that at this point in the show chuck was at the edge of a cliff because he was realising that Blair did actually want louis and he was loosing her.

But the shift in chucks mindset the moment he hears blair describe how louis made her feel and how it finally made him think about her happiness rather than his. And then the moment chuck sees louis waiting around it was like his conscious couldnt allow him to let Blair end the engagement for him.

I really appreciate this moment because to me its when chuck has major character development. Its means alot more to me than all that happened between s3 and 4.

I think its really sad that not much weight is put on this scene. Personally i am a chair fan but the moment s5 and blairs engagement kicks off its like this scene never happened. She goes back to hating him and scheming to expose him, to then loving and wanting to run away w him, then hating him again, then choosing him. W alot of mess in between. Im soo glad we got their endgame but i wish they were written differently from s2 ending i think they deserved better writing.

Although watching this scene they knowing end up married 2 years later is really sweet bc i will say they both are heartbroken here.

u/Bright_Blackberry_67 — 2 months ago

Blair in s4 to s6

Blairs character development was when she ended it w chuck to focus on becoming the woman she wanted to be. NOT when in between her marriage and divorce (its all blury to me) she began planning her coming out as a couple w dan. The writers did her so wrong in s5. A blair centred season and all they did was make her a love interest💔. The writers were insane for making her suffer so much and putting no weight on it.

Imo blairs best era was s4! I loved to see her at columbia and working at W. I feel like the writers ruined everything in season 5.

Firstly, i will address dair the shameful friendship era I LOVED. It was so funny when they were trying to keep them hanging out a secret. Dan falling in love w her i struggle w considering blairs past w jenny (blair had literally just banished her from the city) coupled w her always being the one to treat him like he wasnt “one of them”. Which btw is why i will never understand the juxtaposition between the way he wrote serena and blair in inside. But anways i personally believe they should have always stayed friends. However, i do understand the appeal of them dating but the writers completely tanked any chance they had by introducing louis.

So onto louis and blair. Initially, i loved this relationship bc blair was so happy when it began. He was even willing to give up his title for her. And they gave us one of the most heartbreaking chuck and blair moments! The s4 finale when they chuck tells her she deserves her fairytale. To me the show could have ended there!

But ofc the writers refuse to allow any real development and basically immediately remove the weight behind this scene in s5e7 when blair begins scheming to prove chuck is trying to ruin her engagement. I dont wanna spend to much time breaking it all down but in s5 despite her relationship w louis blair could nott let chuck go. She was continuously dragging him back into it. Not saying he is a saint but at this point in the show he was okay w her engagement she was the one who had a problem w it. But i will say imo louis was kinda awful he was ready to leave blair when he thought she slept w dan although she was pregnant. He wouldnt even have a convo w her.

Then after the accident everything falls apart. The pact, the wedding, the divorce. Blair is isolated from everyone at this point. And instead of giving her a plot of trying to get her life back she is in another relationship. To me this is the worst thing about the whole show. The writers put no weight on the hell they put blair through w a miscarriage. She deserved a wayy better plot than all of s5b! To me she was all ooc the whole time. We never even see her check in on serena once after loosing cece. To me the loss of blair and Serenas friendship during this time was a big issue.

Anyways, to me s6 was funny. I can agree the writing was awful (bringing bart back). But it was nice to see the show get funny moments back s6e1 everyone coming together to find serena. I loved blair and georgina in that ep!! And i thought it was nice tha they didnt immediately have chuck and blair.

But overall my biggest point of contention w this show will always be putting Blair through a miscarriage and divorce but putting no weight on it.

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u/Bright_Blackberry_67 — 2 months ago
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Bachelor of commerce first year question

Hi everyone, is it mandatory to choose the 8 core units in my first year as a commerce student?

For t1 i did 4 out of the 8 and found it all good. But Long story short for t2 i have two heavy mathematical units that I am enrolled in.

But Im also having to work really long hours at the moment so i want to put them off and take them later into my degree. Not because I am incapable of doing them but because to do well in them ill have to have alot less on my plate in relation to my working hours (which r out of my control atm and i need this job). Last semester I did the economics and accounting units and did well but i spent alot of time studying for them the accounting one specifically.

But yeah if yes, can I just go into student connect and change this? Or will i have to reach out to student central? I had done so in January looking for help when i was enrolling which is where I was told to choose the core ones first.

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u/Bright_Blackberry_67 — 2 months ago

The writers splitting them up after this and inserting dan is insane (Big rant incoming) 😭

After the episode I personally just skip all the way to the finale. Bc at this point chuck and blairs endgame should have been solidified. They shouldnt have been split up again.

It’s so heartbreaking when they come into the hospital and reach for eachothers hands before chuck goes unconscious💔. I understand the idea of the pact although I find it stupid but blair did it because she could not stand the thought of actually loosing chuck. In the car she tells him she loves him and that she will never leave. They literally are ready to run off after blair leaves the prince and raise the baby. But instead what we get is:

-Blair saying she is not in love w chuck anymore and that her heart currently belongs to Dan.
-Blair saying she is not used to chuck doing anything selfless
-Blair refusing to hear chuck out when he confides in her about his mother and accuses him of trying to get back in her life.
-And overall basically wanting nothing to do w him for most of the rest of the season.

Personally I blame aside the obviously bad writing dan humphrey for alot of this. Imo his crush on blair made no sense from the start considering the jenny stuff and how drastically different they always were and their own past. I much preferred them when they were frenemies and embarrassed about it bc of the humor.

But anyways he acted incredibly selfishly throughout season 5:

-Literally is ready to help blair leave louis when she thinks he does not care about her. Meanwhile louis was actually killing the story dan wrote about her.
-Accused chuck of ruining Blairs bachelorette party.
-Purposely kept chuck and blair apart after the accident (and literally admitted this)
-And imo worst of all the way he humiliated her at the wedding and actively blamed chuck and even let serena take the fall. Also side note but serena was very selfless for this.
-But also him not telling serena or Eleanor about blair running away from the wedding and instead taking this as a chance to be the saviour. And also not letting them into how unwell Blair was after the accident.

Honestly, i truly wholeheartedly liked dair in season 4. Especially after the scene of dan talking to eric saying she smells good and them watching movies on valentines day. But once the writers introduced louis again their chance was gone and it was all about a chuck and louis love triangle. Which was too good and very entertaining from when blair tells chuck shes pregnant to his apology and letting go of the ring up until their car accident😭.

Then come to the dair relationship in season 5b and they were in some odd bubble. Ppl say blairs character was developing but this was not blair😭.

Like they were so isolated from every other character aside from dorota (who i love ofc). They popped in for one ep needing advice after their first time bc it was awful. Aside from that salon episode which is firstly unwatchable but also funny bc all the familiar faces were crashing the party bc they had not been invited. 😭 And they were what made it interesting. But anyways after these episodes imo its only when blair steps out of that bubble and goes to scheming w the njbc when the show starts to feel more normal again. And obviously 2 eps later dan and blair r over after he follows her around and she cant say i love you.

Overall, aside from this i think this whole season was a disservice to Blairs character the most. I missed her s4 self after she ended it w chuck mutually to become powerful like she wanted and he supported her. She was only a love interest. Its wild how the she went from the whole louis arc to in one ep planning her and dans coming out as a couple as her biggest priority. It was all just insane. And overall came at the cost of the friendships of dan and chuck (s5a), serena and blair, and dan and blair. Also the relationships (chair, and derena ofc)!!

u/Bright_Blackberry_67 — 2 months ago

If it was up to chuck chair would not have been endgame

I will never understand people who ship blair w anyone other than him. Blair ended up exactly where she wanted to be😭.

He let her go multiple times ofc firstly in s2 when he told her to choose nate and secondly after the events of s3 when he was with eva.

But obviously and imo the most significant and one of my fave scenes in the whole show the s4 finale! As much as I loved their connection chucks face when he hears blair say louis makes her feel light and also ofc when he sees louis spent all night waiting said everything. It felt like he finally realised the extent of his love for her and it was unequivocal.

And I have to say the way the writers tossed the weight behind this scene is wild! Imo they truly could have ended chair there. However by s5e7 Blair is obsessed w chuck again. And it was literally frustrating bc at this point chuck was actually beginning to better himself at this time. Then cut to her crashing his therapy and all of a sudden being heartbroken when she realises he returned the ring he bought. It made no sense bc what was supposed to happen they both agreed to be over. And not to mention poor louis all his trust issues were so fair!

Then ofc 5x10 when blair asks him if he is able to still love her w her child. Initially he does say she should stick w her fiancé but changes his mind when he realises that wouldn’t make her happy. Personally, i skip to the finale after this plot bc why the writers inserted dair will neverr make sense to me!! Along w the pact to god nothing made sense.

But anyways for some reason after blairs wedding collapses and she looses her mind after chuck nearly dies she decides she loves dan? And again chuck comes to terms w this even after dan confesses to purposely keeping the two apart w the video and keeping her running away a secret. He even paid the dowry and planned to keep this to himself. And ik ppl find it controversial but imo chuck paying the dowry was something he did lightly and simply bc he realised blair was in a situation where she couldnt. He did it when he found of she was only married bc it would bankrupt her family. And at that point the risk was very real bc blair was already running around nyc w Dan Humphrey..

But anyways at the end of s5 after the diary leak and her getting waldorf designs she finds she is contempt and ready to go back to chuck and tell him shes ready to be w him. But the entire season was a disaster between blair, dan, louis, and chuck.

Moral of the story the show should have ended at the s4 finale!

u/Bright_Blackberry_67 — 2 months ago

S5e1 was so fun for an awful season😭

I found s5e1 so refreshing and fun. I loved the friendship and moments between Serena, Nate, and Chuck. Them all supporting each other was really nice to see like chuck encouraging serena and nate to put themselves out into a new world and them checking in on him and how he was considering blair was engaged.

I wish we saw more from them throughout the season. Its sad how downward s5 went. The writers really lost the plot w the whole royal wedding thing and all the mess w Blair’s love life.

Also Serena imo shouldve moved to LA at the end of the show because she truly thrived and was at her best out there!! Her ending up w Dan after that article is something I will never get over…

Also I would like to add people always say blair thrived without chuck but yk I could say the same about him😭. He was truly improving and becoming better in s5a since he ended things w blair for good and told her to choose Louis. Things went downhill for both of them when Blair asked for him back and they tried to runaway while she was pregnant. Like the ridiculous pact to god and the writers deciding to throw dair in after that entire love triangle between louis blair and chuck?? Tbh and unpopular opinion i know but I find s6 easier to watch then s5😭.

u/Bright_Blackberry_67 — 2 months ago

Whoever wrote Barts resurrection deserves the Emmy for awful writing of a drama series

His initial death was genuinely done very well and created great dramas and storylines for all the characters. But taking that away just for him to fall of that building w the marvel music playing?? I clicked off and took a lap bc wth😭😭😭.

To bring him back as some insane murderer cartoon villain was a choice. But even worse was the way he hated and wanted to destroy chuck. In the first two seasons they had a complex and interesting relationship. He literally left chuck and note giving him bass industries saying he believes in him and spoke about their relationship and how he imagined chuck was feeling and so on! Even worse chuck spent all that time missing his dad and was chronically lonely and depressed after for the entire show. I refuse to believe the writers planned him (bart) to come back.

I wish the writers to put the pen down or gave it to someone new because the Bass family could have had alot more potential!! They could have made the Bass family alot more interesting w all the material. Like elizabeth and all her secrets, jack and barts relationship, and Elizabeths involvement w both of them. Instead we just kept hearing about bass industries😭.

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u/Bright_Blackberry_67 — 2 months ago

Dans book being a love letter to blair and an attack on serena will never make sense to me

Especially considering when he wrote it blair had just banished his sister from the city😭?? Moreso blair was the one who constantly attacked him for not being “one of them”. And he brings up both of these things in his sequel of the book??😭

I would have understood if Blair was not included or given the same treatment as Serena but the juxtaposition between the way he wrote about the two of them is wild.

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u/Bright_Blackberry_67 — 3 months ago

Initially Dan and Serena were the central couple of the show but by the end its all about Chuck and Blair

Dan and Serena really were the centre of the show in season 1. The season begins with the two of them and the season finale is their breakup. And throughout the season we see them have their first date, dance at cotillion, and more.

I think its funny how then the shows finale is basically entirely about chuck and blair instead. We see them get married and reference their past in a sentimental way.

Meanwhile dan had just published a hate piece on serena to finally gain her respect. Which barely made sense bc from the start she was the only one who didnt care about him being from brooklyn😭. And even worse he is gg. The fans of the show from s1 got done so dirty. Its so sad to see how all the og derena fans see is a flash forward of them getting married 5 years later😭??

Also I would like to add derena could not compete w what chairs connection became. Blair was engaged and still tethered to chuck. It is proven that they would choose each other over anyone else. Meanwhile dan and serena truly repeatedly chose others. Like when serena chose Ben donovan. And was stuck between dan and nate.

And as much as i love rufus and lily i think their relationship inevitably changed serena and dans dynamic. Which we really see in s3a where derena are truly friendly and have no feelings between eachother. So its weird that the writers gave us rufus and lily the entire show just to ruin them towards the end for a derena endgame??

u/Bright_Blackberry_67 — 3 months ago

My heart actually hurts what happened to them😭

They were my otp in season 1!! I dont know where it all went south but somewhere in the show dan begins hating serena. And it is at the same time serena begins truly thinking about how good they were together and decides to confess her love at the wedding.

By the end the writers did so much wrong. Like they made lily and rufus married for most of the show just to break them up at the end for derena. Meanwhile they had also ruined derenas entire dynamic throughout the show.

Also i would like to add i really dislike the entire idea of dan and blair dating in season5. Its so weird when u think about the fact he falls in love w her after she banished his sister from the city (after bullying her for years). And even more is she had no respect for him for most of the show. It also really contributed to the ruining of derena by the writers. I cant imagine to think about if chuck had fallen in love the same way w serena (if they didnt have the sibling dynamic ofc). Overall I just preferred dair as friends. In season 4b they were everything!! And i could say i saw the chance from some sort of romance but their chance had been lost the moment the writers introduced Louis. Blair dating him (dan) after the failed wedding was just a way for the writers to save chair for the finale. It was honestly a disservice to the fans that had been waiting ages to see them together considering they barely lasr 6eps. Although this is not surprising bc we watch blair completely ruin her relationship w louis because she cannot let go of chuck. Whats even dumber is dan saw this all happen first hand. So i cant understand his thought process when he dated her.

Anyways this turned into a rant but tbh this all just came into my mind after watching them dance at cotillion.

u/Bright_Blackberry_67 — 3 months ago