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Artist who are notoriously bad at picking their singles with examples?

Besides the obvious that pop heads would normally name. Two artist who immediately come to mind for me is Xtina and Mariah Carey.

Xtina HATED Genie in a bottle and didn’t want to record it, but her A&R fought for the song and knew it was a hit. the song submitted her place as one of the top pop artist in the time and had a big legacy.

I also think some of the single choices in her peak Eras (Stripped, Back To Basic and Bionic) were odd.

How was infatuation not a single?! it would’ve been perfect for the summer, especially since the Latin cross over was big in the 90’s and 00’s. It’s also one her more catchier songs off stripped. And could’ve seen that being a big radio hit.

Mariah, I feel like her post Tommy era was hit and miss with picking singles too.

Mariah infamously hated Hero because she found it corny and she didn’t write it with herself in mind. But Tommy made her put it out and now it’s one of her signature hits and is a tribute song that impacted many lives.

Mariah also wanted to put out Say somethin as the lead for emancipation put her label told her to go back into the studio and work with JD for the chemistry and in hopes of getting a hit. That last minute sessions with JD generated it’s like that and we belong together. Two big records that sent Mariah comeback perfectly.

I also feel like Migrate was a missed single off E=MC2 and you don’t know what to do on the elusive chanteuse album.

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u/BrownSkinVixen_28 — 12 days ago

Having a hard time deciding a location for my birthday. Narrowed it down to Seattle vs Salt Lake City vs Yellow Stone

having a hard time narrow down between those too.

I like Seattle because of the PNW vibes and easy access to the nature, the needle drop, farmers market, capitol hill.

Salt Like City I've always wanted to visit because of the geography and the city looks progressive.

Yellow stone has been a bucket list destination but I'm unsure if there is much to do in Wyoming and how much of yellow stone can actually take a weeks vacation?

To describe my travel interest, I like to do excursions or activities, good dinning experiences or sight seeing.

can anyone steer me in the right direction?

Thanks.

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u/BrownSkinVixen_28 — 21 days ago

So how are people “color blind” and we live in a “color blind society” but yet have racial preferences?

like growing up for decades I have always heard from people of a certain hue that “we have live in a color blind society!”

“I don’t see color!”

”I don’t care if you are white, black, yellow, green, pink etc etc”

blah blah blah.

if people didn’t truly care about race and didn’t ”see it”

How do racial preferences exist? you don’t care about the color of your friend, boss, neighbor and can’t “see it” BUT you can suddenly see it when it comes to dating?

doesn’t make sense.

lets wake up the conversation.

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u/BrownSkinVixen_28 — 1 month ago

Was anyone else concerned that Shay was fighting despite having a ruptured ovarian cyst that left her unresponsive in the hospital for the days?

like girl why are you fighting on this show when you almost lost your life and still recovering…

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u/BrownSkinVixen_28 — 2 months ago

So when did this show evolve into a group of women from the streets going on TV to prove their the best fighters.

Lex and Tesehki having this heaviest hitter shade off for almost a year.

Daisy and Lauren arguing over a FAN MADE list of who the best fighter is on BGW.

like… when did this show evolve from being about real life baddies going on the road to tour and promote their brands to getting a group a women together and then trying to prove who is the best fighter out of them All?

it feels like a Roman colosseum

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u/BrownSkinVixen_28 — 2 months ago

Black Ladies, would it give you the ick if your non-black partner did not listen to any music by black artists?

had a white ex (heavy on the ex) and he rarely if ever listened to black artists. His claim was that he “didn’t like rnb and rap music” but there are plenty of black artist who make all types of genre. The only time I ever remember him listening to black artist is when SZA drops a new album, and that was always a one and done listen. it always felt like a side eye moment to me.

we broke up for other unrelated issues (including him having racist grandparents) but his lack of diversity in taste always gave me an ick. He really only listened to white artist who made pop, rock and alternative music.

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u/BrownSkinVixen_28 — 2 months ago

Has anyone remote or hybrid job switched to full time office super abruptly

So I have been with this company for over a year. when I first joined the company, the mindset was “we don’t care how often you WFH as long as the work gets done.” So it was up to the employee and their supervisor discretion on when you came in or WFH or not and if you were fully trained.

The job doesn’t have an official “start” and “end time” as long as you got your minimum 40 hours a week, got your tasks done and were productive , no one cared what time you came in and left. I know a lot of people who would work half the day and then go home and clock back in and work the other half. Or people would get all their tasks done for the day and as long as there no in person meetings or critical tasks, they would leave early and no one cared as long as the 40 hours were met

of course if you have a critical task or meeting. you might be expected to work over the weekend or stay later in office. but in general it was very flexible all around.

Our old manager and and the senior manager left so we recently got two new managers. Both of them hate our hybrid set up because they have never been in a hybrid environment and don’t understand why it’s necessary .

They didn’t understand “why people” needed to WFH “so much“ throughout the week and that meeting through teams or zoom doesn’t displace an in person meeting. Mind you 99% of our job is done on a computer.

anything in person we can easily coordinate with the appropriate people, but all of our work is online.

we tried to fight against it but the senior manger got rid of our hybrid schedule to now fully in office. You can only have WFH max once a month with prior approval now.

i was still under the impression we have had our standard flexible hours (come in when you want or leave when you want based off how critical your tasks are)

every other week i have a day where I’ll work in office for half the day, clock out, go back home and clock in and work remotely the rest of the day.

My supervisor had a meeting with me last week saying “I’m not allowed to do that anymore” and that our core business hours are 7 to 3:30 and “what if someone wanted info about a critical tasks you had?”

I’m thinking to myself….all of our work is done through a computer and everyone uses teams and zoom for meetings and communication. If they have a question for me they could reach out and I will answer it. Or in the rare circumstances something needs to be done face to face, that time is scheduled appropriately with notice. I’m literally just going home and clocking back in and still working.

I think the new managers are really cracking down on supervision who is now cracking down on us in terms of our in office time and basically making this a core 5 day a week “butts in seats” and “making you more accessible“ job now.

And before anyone brings this up. This was not a performance issue. I have been one of the top 4 performers in the whole department and have gotten glowing reviews and feedback before last week.

i didnt fight it or argue, I just said “okay” and changed up my habits.

Has anyone else been through a sharp transition like this?

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u/BrownSkinVixen_28 — 2 months ago

Hot take but rings don’t matter much in a fight, it’s more so if the person wearing the rings is a good fighter or not that matters.

all this discourse about rings. yall don’t remember when Rima on BGC 9 had rings on every finger to fight Erika and ended up getting her ass beat and didn’t even pinch Erika?

the skills of the person wearing the ring matters more than the rings it’s self.

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u/BrownSkinVixen_28 — 2 months ago

Baby Tyson BBL

Baby Tyson is overall a cute girl and with a nice shape. but she is way too petite for that big ass BBL. it’s not as tragic as ones we know like Slim2badd or Sua, but sis at times looks like one of those queen ants every time she wears a bathing suit. She should’ve gotten a BBL that better fit her frame and size.

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u/BrownSkinVixen_28 — 3 months ago

Do you feel like Lex is dragging the mace thing or is she vindicated?

On one hand I can understand how Lex feels. She was pretty much telling the truth from the beginning but was pretty much called a liar and a sore loser for a year by the internet and people making fun of her eye and her eye was red for a long time.

We all know how prideful big Lex is and she has a big ego About being undefeated heavy hitter. So I think Fania casually admitted to it after lying about it for a year triggered her to want to fight her.

but on the other hand I feel like she is dragging it lowkey. She already fought Fania at the premiere for Africa, Africa reunion and baddie USA chapter 1. Like why are we still fighting at this point when you been already got your lick back.

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u/BrownSkinVixen_28 — 3 months ago

ET doesn’t run fades, like she used to 😕

Don’t get it twisted and act like yall forgot. ET used to be THE heavy hitter on NTTV and was known for running through people.

remember when she knocked out kash tooth? but for awhile now her fighting skills aren’t that great.

what is going on? Is she not in prime anymore? or have more advanced fighters just been casted.

she doesn’t run fades, like she used to.

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u/BrownSkinVixen_28 — 3 months ago

Did they only film BGW for a week because why does it seem like Marie minks lost her voice for 40 days and 40 nights??

everytime they show transitions from her scenes to her confessionals, it throws me off everytime because I thought her voice was naturally raspy at first, but in the confessionals, it quite soft and high.

we are on episode 7 at this point.

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u/BrownSkinVixen_28 — 4 months ago

Unpopular opinion, Ciroc isn’t a heavy hitter.

Ciroc got a little squabble but sis just bun rushes people and uses her weight (she is a big girllll) and that is going to overpower most girls who aren’t her size. She also hammer fists.

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u/BrownSkinVixen_28 — 4 months ago

Has Rollie gone live or posted on social media since the Lex fight?

Usually Rollie stays on the internet and going back and forth with shade but I have not heard a peep from her since she fought kex

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u/BrownSkinVixen_28 — 5 months ago

When did DTB and Natalie squash the beef and become besties?

last time we saw them on our screens DTB wanted her lick back but never got it and kept calling Natalie a pussy. very shortly after we see them booed up and low-key becoming a duo for baddies promotions and having a song together. what is the tea?

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u/BrownSkinVixen_28 — 5 months ago

So with Joseline Cabaret ending, is baddies the only thing keeping that network alive? Makes sense why we got a chapter 2 teaser.

Scotty show, Rollie show and Bad vs. Wild did not take off like they thought. I do think BGW and Bad Boys has a small following but they are not as mainstream or as popular as Baddies. so is Baddies basically the only show keeping the network afloat?

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u/BrownSkinVixen_28 — 5 months ago

I'm not a pearl clutcher and we all know these girls are probably not good people and these girls have talked about kids before.

but what Dolly said about Killa daughter was very disgusting and… highly specific

There's a difference between saying “fuck your kid” and “ I know someone who can put 🍆 on your daughter right now!” like what…. What possessed her to say that… was it the pills (allegedly) its disgusting. And she should’ve gotten way more backlash for it.

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u/BrownSkinVixen_28 — 6 months ago

I feel like Tavii definitely ran through Killa and Rican. but her and fania was giving tie. both of them were getting their licks in and both of them left with damage.

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u/BrownSkinVixen_28 — 6 months ago