21f est trying to rebuild my life and make friends🥚
21f nj/nyc. just relocated from georgia! going through an insane breakup rn. currently living with my ex bc we got an apartment together and thought we could make it work but now we're just stuck in an 18 month lease. being a lover girl and moving cross country with only my savings and no job lined up back fired SOOOO BADDDD.
because of the relationship and recent move ive been incredibly isolated. new town, no friends, no support system blah blah. i want to try to get out, make friends and have a life again??
studying sociology rn. on track to get my associates in the fall so at least that's going right. not working rn (because everyone is hiring but no one is hiring apparently). i have a lot of free time that im not used to having. would love new friends in my area or just friends in general!
i can be really clingy sometimes. also super sensitive. i look too deep into things and overthink a lot and have this weird need for constant reassurance. working on getting back in therapy bc i know none of this is healthy but it's good to be transparent!
i like thrifting, flea markets, farmers markets and shopping secondhand. been trying to find more hobbies but nothing has been clicking for me. no motivation or whatever. i like looking at the stars but ofc light pollution ruins that for me lol.
im being incredibly vulnerable and probably super duper pathetic rn but going through a breakup and having literally no one is worse than looking like a chud on reddit.
20-35 please!