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aio for getting the ick because a guy cheats at video games?

i (f21) have been talking to this guy (m21) for a couple days. today we're texting and he mentions playing apex. im excited bc that's my game, i love apex.

as u can see in the texts, he said he was gonna sit in the firing range and "fix his cheats." and im like there's no way he cheats on video games like what so im confused. i call him and he mansplains what a xim is and blah blah blah. im already not feeling it bc the entire phone call he's tryna justify cheating because it's fun. im not arguing with him on the phone im just like ok, cool but at the end of the day it's still cheating? that's weird to me but ok.

from what he explains ur tricking ur console into thinking you're still using a controller but you're actually on mouse and keyboard but able to have no recoil and better aim assist. he literally goes into the HISTORY of xims and how his isn't even that bad.

i don't like cheaters in any capacity so this weirds me out. i just think it's odd to go out of your way to cheat on a videogame. maybe im wrong for caring so much but it's literally just a video game. why cheat? so i get off the phone with him and text him like 15 minutes after the phone call with that message and i guess he really wants to argue. i should've just blocked him immediately after that message but i didn't. wish i did.

my way of thinking was probably extreme but if you can cheat on a game, what else can you cheat on? obviously he took offense to that. again, should've just blocked him instead of going back and forth. he obviously just wanted to argue and get under my skin bc i didn't wanna talk to him anymore.

then be brings up my ex and OUCHHH that hurt.

backstory to that: we were on the phone a couple days ago and we talked about our past relationships. i opened up to him about my ex discovering his sexuality and exploring with other people. he told me about his ex girlfriend being (tw) >!abusive towards him, using him for money and cheating on him.!< it turned into a venting session but i didn't mind.

maybe i was wrong for caring so much that he cheats at a video game, but also... why cheat? i should've just blocked him immediately after the phone call and been a loser that ghosts people.

edit 30mins after posting: yes this is real. yes ive been cheated on before (by a gamer nonetheless), no im not karma farming, yes im in therapy and on medication, yes i know the comparison was extreme which i mentioned in my post. y'all are funny as hell. yes i have his in game username, yes i will report him. he plays overwatch and apex with the xim as far as i know. cracking up reading these comments and no longer crying because what he said did really hurt me LOL.

u/BubbleMira — 9 days ago

looking for friends down to play apex tn! 21f

hello all! feeling like staying up and playing apex legends to keep my mind off things. im not the best player (i miss all my shots) but love the game so much! im on pc, main lifeline, and am ok with pubs or ranked (after the reset im pretty sure im back to bronze 💀) im in the est time zone and looking for cool people to connect with!!

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u/BubbleMira — 14 days ago

need more friends! 21f

went no contact with my incredibly manipulative and insecure ex today! wahoo me. insert picture of man jumping out of shackles. we still have financial things to work out but our communication is very low to non existent now. hurts losing the person you thought you'd always have, but what's not meant for you will keep dissapointing you until you get the hint. (HAVEEEE TO STRESS: not looking for a rebound (unless ur hispanic, have tattoos and hot))

21f, nj nyc area. working part time in manhattan. online school rn but in person in manhattan in the fall! new to doing things alone and wouldn't mind some company. i like blind boxes (especially my little smiskis 😫), photography and flea markets! have really social anxiety which doesn't help but im trying! i don't drink or smoke, not 420 friendly.

i play video games as well. mainly fortnite and apex legends as of late. marvel rivals is up there and solo games too. i used to stream a lot but it's lonely streaming to no one LOL.

super not interested in boring people who 1) don't match my silly vibe and 2) will message once then dissappear. let me text you all the time. let me bother you. let me call you and yap for hours. let's call and sit in silence while we do our own things.

guys or girls welcome 20-30!

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u/BubbleMira — 24 days ago
▲ 5 r/CUNY

how are people getting so much aid

i understand since i live out of the state im kinda screwed but is that really it? would tap help me THAT more?? i never really had any guidance with fin aid and stuff (my 15k private loan should tell u that) and people are getting enough to afford housing for entire semesters while i can't even get a little extra for transportation. am i doing something wrong (besides living out of state)? im an independent student with low income the fin aid lady told me im getting as much aid as i can but what the hell. is tap that insane. should i just move to the city and pay more rent for cheaper school or what. i know if i do that id have to wait a year to qualify.

PLEASE be nice to me. ive had to navigate this entire thing myself and im sure ive made a million mistakes i genuinely want to understand and learn more on how to make this process cheaper

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u/BubbleMira — 1 month ago

want to make friends in or around nyc. 21f, nj

want to make friends in or around nyc. im 21f, i live in new jersey. starting a part time job soon, and i go to school in manhattan. doing online school rn but going back in person in august. no one told me how hard it would be trying to make friends in a new city. its insane that nyc is so huge, yet so many people are still alone? i hate this overwhelming feeling of loneliness i get sometimes. it feels like everyone already has their friend group, and then there's me, just existing. why is it so hard to make friends? i have been unemployed for a bit and going through some major life changes, which have knocked me down repeatedly, but im trying to not let myself fall into a hole.

i do have very bad social anxiety, which obviously doesn't help, but i want to get outside and do things, just not alone. i enjoy thrifting, going to flea markets, farmers markets, and that sort of thing. i can't wait to start working again so i can have money to do all that more LOL. i volunteer in my community, which gets me out the house at least once a week so im not bedrotting indefinitely. i'd love love love to get out more with the right people! i don't drink or smoke, so im not 420 friendly and don't go to bars or that sort of thing. nothing againsnt people who do ofc! just not my thing! i did promise myself id go see hamilton at brooklyn bridge park next week regardless if i find someone to go with or not.

trying to get back into reading, chai tea drinker, attempting to be more active, but it's hot as all get out lately, teaching myself how to do my own hair, rebuilding my lego sets, watching movies, and playing apex legends is what ive been up to lately.

wish this kinda transplant luck in my frined making journey, and if you too are looking for friends, hit me up! guys or girls welcome, just don't be creepy or super duper old.

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u/BubbleMira — 2 months ago

to the person i lost over a year ago

this is gonna be so cringe and so sappy but. i met tyler on this subreddit in december of 2024 and we talked for about 2-3 weeks going into the new year of 2025. he was in the army and scheduled to go to poland for 9 months. his favorite animals were frogs and he really liked trains. and he had a cute little dog named iggy. he had a super cool monster truck collection. he's got a tattoo of the eye of ra. we hit it off really well, staying up to talk on the phone for hours, watching movies together and playing video games. we only knew each other for like less than a month but holy shit did i really like this guy. then he went to poland and poof. fell off the face of the earth. discord account deleted and can not for the life of me find his reddit account. he promised if anything happened we'd reconnect. ok well something happened SO WHERE ARE YOU. i worry something bad happened to him while he was deployed but i have no way of knowing anything. this is gonna be like tossing a message bottle into the sea hoping it'll float to the receipt but tyler if you just so happen to stumble across this, it's been a year and a half and i still think about you everyday.

i know it's silly and this happens to a lot of people but there's like a very small chance someone will read this and go wait that's me she's talking about me!! and even if it never happens at least i tried. give a lover girl a break, alright?

edit: no tyler so far. i doubt he'll come across this post. ive held out hope for sooo long. but it's likely that he is alive. and even though i can't hear his sweet laugh again knowing he's alive is enough. thanks for all your well wishes!

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u/BubbleMira — 3 months ago

pc, est, looking for a chill third for apex tonight

hiii. my friend and i are looking for a third to play apex (regular or ranked) with.

i’m f21, silver 1, lifeline main. he’s m26, bronze 3 i think, and his main changes depending on how he feels lol. we are both on pc and est timezone. gonna be playing for bit.  

we’re both just okay at the game. nothing crazy. just want someone chill to play with bc solo/duo queue is painful and we’re tired.

ranked or pubs is fine. discord preferred bc apex game chat sucks.

pls don’t be toxic or weird. we’re just here for good vibes and the occasional decent game.

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u/BubbleMira — 3 months ago

21f est trying to rebuild my life and make friends🥚

21f nj/nyc. just relocated from georgia! going through an insane breakup rn. currently living with my ex bc we got an apartment together and thought we could make it work but now we're just stuck in an 18 month lease. being a lover girl and moving cross country with only my savings and no job lined up back fired SOOOO BADDDD.

because of the relationship and recent move ive been incredibly isolated. new town, no friends, no support system blah blah. i want to try to get out, make friends and have a life again??

studying sociology rn. on track to get my associates in the fall so at least that's going right. not working rn (because everyone is hiring but no one is hiring apparently). i have a lot of free time that im not used to having. would love new friends in my area or just friends in general!

i can be really clingy sometimes. also super sensitive. i look too deep into things and overthink a lot and have this weird need for constant reassurance. working on getting back in therapy bc i know none of this is healthy but it's good to be transparent!

i like thrifting, flea markets, farmers markets and shopping secondhand. been trying to find more hobbies but nothing has been clicking for me. no motivation or whatever. i like looking at the stars but ofc light pollution ruins that for me lol.

im being incredibly vulnerable and probably super duper pathetic rn but going through a breakup and having literally no one is worse than looking like a chud on reddit.

20-35 please!

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u/BubbleMira — 3 months ago

hello friends. recently moved to a new city, currently unemployed, doing school online, and have little to no human interaction. i mainly play apex as of late but i’m open to other games too. (notoriously bad at every game i play though...) i like minecraft but i kinda struggle staying interested in it for long periods of time. i’m a little picky with games in general, but i’ve recently gotten back into apex again.

i used to be genuinely good at apex when it was popular. im saying tournaments, ranked, streaming and everything. now im unfathomably bad it's embarrassing but it's fun.

so. if anyone’s looking for friends or someone to play apex with, i’m down!

voice chat welcomed, can't promise i won't be a bit shy though :)

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u/BubbleMira — 3 months ago