Should I get back with my ex?
Me (21M) and my ex(20F) dated for almost little over two years with no real issues at all we live 1.5 hours apart and I would go to her house almost every weekend the whole time we where together and stay for the weekend. Back in June of 2025 she got a job at a local hospital (it’s an IT job) and she started wanting to see me less and would text and call almost never. We went till October with this going on and eventually I couldn’t take it anymore it hurt so bad to be in a relationship but never seeing her or even getting to talk. If I brought it up she would just tell me she was “to busy” or “so tired” which to a point I understand but I was always told people make time for what is important. Long story short I ended up leaving the relationship. I took some time for myself and around December I tried dating again but found that any girls I talked to I had zero interest in or found them almost repulsive and kept coming back to the thought of her. In April I sent her a text telling her how I felt and we have been texting 5-10 times a day since basically just polite conversation with a trickle of personal stuff. I’m worried though that I have just gotten lonely and romanticized her in my head and now I’m chasing something I shouldn’t be. I really do care for her in a way I have never cared for anyone before and I’m just not sure if it’s wise to try it again or if I should just be friends or cut her out.
🙏 Please help a guy out 🙏