u/Bubu_ne11

my dad is kinda pushing me to have a ceremony even though me and my husband kept it low-key and got married in a city hall with just two of us. And it seems like my dad doesnt expect my birth mom (not sure why he would think that) to be there but rather his girlfriend which doesnt seem really fair to me

Because if he thought through that my mother will definitely be there with her side of family then I think he wouldn't have tried to convince me to have a ceremony with his side of the family

Also to me having a "small" (about 100 people. To me its way too many tbh but to him its the smallest it could get) ceremony without my birth mom is also weird... and unnecessary to me

Not saying Im gonna do what he wants me to do but Im just not sure how to take this, since my parents only divorced like 10minths ago. It was not nice at all for long years

Advice Request: I need advice on how to handle my dad's pressure and whether it's fair to exclude his girlfriend.

tl;dr: My divorced dad is pushing for a 100-person wedding ceremony with his girlfriend present, but without my birth mom. I don't want his girlfriend there and want to know if it's fair, or if I should do two separate ceremonies.

I have been having this weird thing for few weeks now, I can't exactly tell when it started though.

I have crazy hungover feeling with a strong headache in the morning even though I haven't been drinking alcohol for over a month now. I did indeed have stronger hangovers whenever I drink and slept really bad over the past few years as I grew older (27,F) but I have never experienced anything like this.

I feel thirsty, super nauseated, tongue dry, waking up early mornings at like 4am for no reason and hard time fall back asleep with a big headache. And the headache tends to linger throughout the day.

I mean I used to drink a lot on my own standards and love beer and feeling buzz. But recently I haven't been able to enjoy any of that at all from how nauseated I am all the time.

Does anyone know or have the similar symptoms? I'm tired of talking with AI about it and it gives me the same answer that its just a low blood sugar from eating dinner too early but I never had that problem in my whole life (I always have dinner around 5-6pm and skip breakfast, start with lunch).

I feel like I have to add this that, from last month I started a new birth control and it did give me a heavy side effects like the usual (headache, swell, nausea, sickness, lose appetite and low libido). But I've stopped taking it for a couple days now

However I still felt that way before the birth control.

I don't have yet time to visit a doctor and just want to hear other people's experiences regarding similar "illness". Thank you

I have been having this weird thing for few weeks now, I can't exactly tell when it started though.

I have crazy hungover feeling with a strong headache in the morning even though I haven't been drinking alcohol for over a month now. I did indeed have stronger hangovers whenever I drink and slept really bad over the past few years as I grew older (27,F) but I have never experienced anything like this.

I feel thirsty, super nauseated, tongue dry, waking up early mornings at like 4am for no reason and hard time fall back asleep with a big headache. And the headache tends to linger throughout the day.

I mean I used to drink a lot on my own standards and love beer and feeling buzz. But recently I haven't been able to enjoy any of that at all from how nauseated I am all the time.

Does anyone know or have the similar symptoms? I'm tired of talking with AI about it and it gives me the same answer that its just a low blood sugar from eating dinner too early but I never had that problem in my whole life (I always have dinner around 5-6pm and skip breakfast, start with lunch).

I feel like I have to add this that, from last month I started a new birth control and it did give me a heavy side effects like the usual (headache, swell, nausea, sickness, lose appetite and low libido). But I've stopped taking it for a couple days now

However I still felt that way before the birth control.

I don't have yet time to visit a doctor and just want to hear other people's experiences regarding similar "illness". Thank you

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