How important was kindness as a virtue in Rome?
One thing that’s fascinating about the study of Rome and its people is how Romans saw themselves; their place in the world and the cosmos, as well as their duties and obligations to each other.
I am aware of some of the governing principles and virtues of republican Rome (virtuus, pietas, constantia, gravitas, etc), and how Romans focused heavily on the idealization of ancestors and tradition as a guidepost to the present. Additionally, Romans also were much more focused on the “here and now” and achieving the largest amount of glory and notoriety in this life, rather than focused on any notion of a peaceful and pleasant afterlife (e.g. Memento Mori).
That being said, given some of these governing principles, was there a deemphasis/apathetic view on the virtues of kindness and compassion in Rome, or were acts of kindness and charity present, but just not written about extensively in the historical record?
I ask this because I often find myself daydreaming about the life of a typical Roman citizen who tries their best to live life to the best of their ability.
How did they think? What did they care about? What were their hopes and dreams?
These questions all frequently plague my mind.