GEA not showing up?

I got my course registration fees last week, but my account doesn’t show any record of my gea. I have my offer letter in April, which says the award would be applied automatically to my account, but so far nothing. Is this normal?

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u/CBPlumbob — 8 days ago
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Aro or just had a bad experience?

i’ve made a few questioning posts before, but have recently come to some new realizations, so here we go again…

anyways, i have been questioning my possible aro identity for a while now. basically i feel like i experience romantic attraction ish, but have been told by previous partners (a longish term girlfriend with a very anxious attachment style, and my best friend of six years turned fwb/qpr) that my experience of romantic love is not as deep as their own.

i have a sort of “eh” feeling toward romance and romantic partnership. i have crushes/meshes but do not need them (sometimes actively don’t want them) to be reciprocated. i enjoy romantic activities (i am also definitely not ace), but i see them as being basically the same as platonic relationships, and can engage in them without desiring the commitment of a romantic relationship.

i don’t really see myself getting married, and i am fine with that. i enjoy dating around, but don’t desire more, and i get kinda squeamish at the idea of being depended on romantically (this may be a result of my bad experience with my ex). i also do not experience any sexual jealousy, honestly i am happy to set my partners up.

i think my experience of romantic attraction is atypical enough to be considered grey romantic or aroflux, but i may just have a fear of commitment/serious relationships because of my past experience

any advice is appreciated
thanks
:)

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u/CBPlumbob — 9 days ago

Scholarship amount is more than needed?

hi
so i have a very desirable problem, i know. lobster too juicy. i submitted a gea application in the fall and received a $48 000 scholarship in april. however, in this time, i also applied for a TON of external scholarships, and received about $9000 from those, most of it paid directly to the university. my tuition and fees are estimated at just under $12 000. i’m not living on campus; i don’t want a meal plan. i have emailed the awards@dal.ca email on the awards faq page three times over the last few months, but have not received a response on how to proceed. if anyone else has been in this situation, is there any way i can receive a refund of some sort so i don’t lose my extra money? thanks

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u/CBPlumbob — 1 month ago

Can I experience romantic attraction but not be in love with someone? And does that make me aro?

what the title says basically. i think i experience romantic attraction or at least alterous, and to me it can feel pretty intense (for like one or two people in my life, generally romantic feelings are pretty fleeting for me). but my friends and partner’s seem to think i don’t get it, or don’t feel romantic attraction on as “deep” a level as is “normal”. i don’t think i have ever been in love, and i am starting to think i just can’t. also bi if that helps.

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u/CBPlumbob — 2 months ago