u/Calm_Astronomer8501

I’m (24F) going through my first breakup. I found out that the guy (28M) I’ve been dating for the past year is married. When I was confessing my feelings for him, he told me. I’m obviously devastated. I’m in love with him, but I never told him because it seemed pointless after he told me that. It’s been two months since the breakup; some days are better than others, but for the most part, it feels like I'm dying. I know things will get better; it’s just been really difficult. He was my best friend and first love. I’ve been doing everything I can to try to distract myself. If anyone has any advice to get me through this, that would be nice.

The guy (22M) I’m dating caught me (24F) masturbating to his photos. He is a medical student, and he has a chaotic schedule. After work, I went to his apartment and waited for him to return. I was in the mood, so I pulled up a photo he sent me of himself and started doing it on his couch. He usually doesn’t return home until after he studies, but he came home early and saw me. I don’t know if he thought I was watching porn or what. He’s been so quiet with me recently, I think he might be upset. I’m too embarrassed to bring it up. I really like him, and I’m scared I messed things up. I’m not really sure how to have a conversation about this with him. It’s not like the photo was an explicit photo of him. We don’t send nudes to each other. It was just a selfie.

I (24F)recently started being intimate with my crush (22M). The sex is amazing. The only problem is that whenever I get close, I ask to change positions or to stop for a second because I’m worried about how I look and sound when I finish. Sometimes, when I’m masturbating alone I squirt and I’m worried about accidentally letting it out during sex. I just feel like I look weird and my body gets tense. I want to enjoy myself completely, but I’m worried I might turn him off. I really like him, and I just wish I could stop overthinking; I'm just not sure how.