Does anyone know of a discord server for gigantamax raids? I've been playing Shield for a week now and my wild area hasn't gotten any gigantamax raids. I tried a reset method yesterday for hours and didn't get a gigantamax raid.
Hello reddit. New account here for privacy reasons. Me (31m) and her (30f) have been friends for a long time. We met in middle school and became friends slowly ober the years. On the senior year of high-school i realized i wanted to spend most of my time with her or thinking about her. We joined the same missionary group for the next 5-6 years and attended the same college but in different majors. So we ran into each other from time to time and hang out with the missionary group every 2 weeks or so amd went on week long missions to the country side of our country. When covid happened we didn't see each other or text that much and when we returned to normal life we stop seeing each other as much cause we both got jobs and had different friends groups. On 2022 we attended our 10 year graduation celebration that was taking place in a hotel. The organizers told us that the cheapest group pack was for share room so everyone would have a roommate. Me and her were the only ones of the opposite gender paired together but she didn't stay in the room with me. I don't hold this against her cause it was weird from the beginning that we were the only guy and girl paired together. I'm guessing she stayed with one of her friends that weekend on the hotel but that was the time that i thought it was the universe telling me to confess so just like in college i thought maybe I'm not ready, maybe I'm not her type, maybe i don't have enough to offer yet. And many more excuses in my mind to keep these secret.
On 2025 we both attended a mutual friend's destination wedding and she looked stunning but i had enough self awareness to know that someone else's wedding is no place to confess to your crush and make the rest of the trip akward for her. Another year passed and this year she texted me out of the blue for some help with a medical situation and i helped the best i could, not because of my feelings but the situation is a familiar one to me and i wanted to help someone that needs help. After a 2 week trip i took abroad i relaize that life is slipping away and I'm just existing but not living. When i got back me and her and another friend got lunch together. She asked for both of our lovelifes and mention that her ex talks nicely about her. And then said the same thing i was thinkin:life is to short.
I'm having lunch with her in a week and the 2 other friends that were coming just bail. Is it worth it to risk a 15 year friendship for a crush? Should i confess? If she rejects me, would she stopped being friends with me? I don't wanna make things akward and build distance between us but i don't know if im just making excuses again and the thought of she being amazing and me not being good enough will never go away completely.
Thank you if you read this long post. I guess i needed to vent. Btw sorry for misspellings or grammatical errors. English is not my native language.