u/CandycandyDianna

I feel like my fiancé doesn't care about ttc

For the past year, I’ve been telling my fiancé that I want us to try for a baby, and whenever I bring up the topic, he doesn’t really engage with it, almost as if he doesn’t care. Because I have OCD, I tend to bring it up quite often, and I feel like I’m exhausting him, even though I’m not doing it on purpose.

Recently, I asked him to do some blood tests so we can see whether he might need to take any supplements, something I will also do so that we’re both prepared for September, which is when we agreed we would start trying for a baby. I feel like he’s tired of talking about it. He’s the type of person who doesn’t really plan things ahead, but this is something that needs to be discussed and organized.

I feel like September is far away, but at the same time, when you want to have a child, three months is actually very close. Yet for him, it doesn’t seem like a topic worth discussing because it’s in the future.

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u/CandycandyDianna — 1 day ago

Thoughts and worries

I’m really happy and excited that I’m going to become a mom. Just thinking about being pregnant and bringing a new little life into our world fills me with joy. It’s something I’ve always wanted, and I feel lucky that this moment is finally coming.

At the same time, though, I have a worry that I can’t ignore. I don’t feel ready for the idea that I might not be my fiancé’s first priority anymore. For so many years, he has always put me first — above everything and everyone. I’ve always felt special, protected, and important in his life. Now I’m afraid that when the baby comes, all his attention and energy will naturally go to our child, and I’ll end up in second place.

It’s not that I don’t want him to love the baby, of course I do. I just feel scared because everything is changing, and I don’t know what things will look like. I’m afraid of losing the closeness we have, the way he always takes care of me, the way I’ve always been his “number one.”

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u/CandycandyDianna — 6 days ago

Thoughts and worries

I’m really happy and excited that I’m going to become a mom. Just thinking about being pregnant and bringing a new little life into our world fills me with joy. It’s something I’ve always wanted, and I feel lucky that this moment is finally coming.

At the same time, though, I have a worry that I can’t ignore. I don’t feel ready for the idea that I might not be my fiancé’s first priority anymore. For so many years, he has always put me first — above everything and everyone. I’ve always felt special, protected, and important in his life. Now I’m afraid that when the baby comes, all his attention and energy will naturally go to our child, and I’ll end up in second place.

It’s not that I don’t want him to love the baby, of course I do. I just feel scared because everything is changing, and I don’t know what things will look like. I’m afraid of losing the closeness we have, the way he always takes care of me, the way I’ve always been his “number one.”

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u/CandycandyDianna — 6 days ago

Making plans

Hello everyone, me and my partner are planning to start trying for a baby around September/October, and I wanted to ask for some advice. Should I start taking prenatals now, and are there any medical tests or checkups I should do beforehand? Any doctors I should visit? Any guidance or personal experiences would be really helpful! Thank you!

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u/CandycandyDianna — 6 days ago

Pregnancy

Hey so, lately I've been feeling genuinely ready to take the next step in my life and start trving for a baby. I've thought about it a lot, and I've even planned for it to happen sometime this winter because it feels like the right moment for me financiallv and mentally. I'm excited happy, and honestly a bit nervous in a good wav. l'd reallv love to hear from other women who might be feeling the same or who have similar plans. I'm reallv curious if there are other women out there who feel the same way. Are any of vou also planning or hoping to conceive this winter? Or mavbe vou've already been through this stage and have thoughts to share? I'd love to hear from people with similar plans, experiences, or feelings.

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u/CandycandyDianna — 8 days ago

Pregnancy thoughts around ocd

Hey everyone, I've been recovering from ocd the past 9 months, I take my meds and go to therapy. I would like to know if there's anyone out there like me.I've been having obsessive thoughts around pregnancy meaning if I'm pregnant now, when will I be, if I have enough time,if I will be able to enjoy motherhood and support my baby due to ocd,how will I be able to have a pregnancy with all that heavy medication etc. Please feel free to comment I think I'm losing it over here.

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u/CandycandyDianna — 10 days ago

Hey guys so I had sex with a broken condom. I wasn't ovulating, I wasn't sure what to do so it took me 3 days to decide whether or not to take the morning after pill. I eventually took it. My question is did it work? This particular one said until 120hours but I thunk it loses its efectiveness when hours pass. Thanks in advance!

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u/CandycandyDianna — 15 days ago

Hello everyone, quick question

I had sex with broken condom and I was indecisive about getting the morning after pill. I eventually took it 3 days later. It says it's effective even after 5 days. Has anyone been through this situation? Like am I covered or...? Thanks!

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u/CandycandyDianna — 16 days ago