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Social media open cheste chalu relationship postlu, Men vs Women postlu. Ekkado oka ammai affair pettukunte andaru ammailu alage unnaru antadu, blue drum ye dikku antadu. Inko ammai vachi men antha cheaters ani man hate spread chestundhi.

Inko post lo ekkado jarigindhi ani aa ammai/ abbai ala mosam chesaru ani masala add chesi post chestaru. Aa story lo characters gurinchi vintunte asal manushulu intha worst ga ela unnaru anipistundhi, vallu cheppevi nijanga jarugutayo ledho telidhu.

Ekkada chusina relationship advice postlu, dating gone wrong postlu.

ASALU EVARRRRAAA MEERANTHAAAAAA.......

I'm new to Bengaluru, living Koramangala. I don't know what to do over the weekend, Please suggest any interesting spots etc.

I 24M am thinking of travelling to different countries while working remotely. But I am not sure if I can do that without any problems.

Btw, I am working in an Indian MNC and working in corporate for the first time and it's not a tech job. My job doesn't require me to come to the office everyday as long as the manager is okay with it. And my manager wants me to come to the office once or twice a month.

So whenever there is a long weekend I am planning to visit a country and adjust working from there for a few days so that I can explore more. Also my work is just browsing different websites, attending teams calls and communicating on mails.

If you have any idea/ experience about this or any suggestions. Please share...

Nenu (24M) chinnapati nunchi chala introvert, ammailu tho interaction takkuva ..........etc....( ippudu konchem better ayya)

Recent ga konchem looks meedha focus petta and ma college (India lone Masters) lo ammailu nannu notice cheydam nenu notice chesa. Kontha mandhi ammailu ki nenu ante interest undhi or atleast attracted to me ani ardham ayyindhi. Oka 2 girls direct ga compliments ichcharu on my looks. inko iddaru chala hints icharu (Chala suspense tarvata ardham ayindhi avi hints ani). Inkoka 4-5 girls nenu ibbandhi pade antha ga chusevaru. Not hallucinating.

But valla lo naku interest unna ammailu kuda unnaru but ela approach avvali and ela respond avvali ardham avvatledhu.

For example oka north ammai chala hints ichindhi interested ani but nenu sarigga respond avvaledhu so aameki interest poyaka nenu date ki adiga, rejected. Wrong timing and rapo build avvakunda direct ga adagakudadhu ani ardham ayindhi.

Inko telugu ammai chala hints ichchindhi, chala compliments kuda ichindhi, and aame naku decent friend ye, but already unna rapo/ friendship ni romantic relationship ga ela convert cheyali ani ardham avvatledhu.

Please help me. Ela approach avvali, unna interest ni relationship ga ela convert cheyali ?

Do you feel that it is a good practice to share past before marriage to the fiance?

I feel that everyone must share their past honestly. It can help the partner better understand you as a person. If they are not comfortable with your past, then the marriage won't work well since you are two different people.

Also you don't want to marry a person based on lies or hidden truths.

What y'all think?

Constant staring at me for a long time when they know I am not observing them. And when I look at them they turn their head the other way immediately.

I've been noticing this in college but not sure if they are interested in me. What to do in such a situation?

As a woman what are some red flags you noticed in other women, that men often ignore/miss?

I (25M) am looking to get fit from obese. I joined a gym and I cannot afford personal training. The gym trainers are always busy with others and I have to follow him like a puppy for 5 mins just to know what to do next and I don't even think he gives personalised advice.

So, I thought I'd ignore the trainers and get a plan from chatgpt. I gave my current situation and my goal. It gave me a detailed routine and diet plan. I am just wondering if it's safe to follow.

Help me.

I (25M) never had a girlfriend or a girl-friend. I am an introvert, short (5'6"), fat, poor hairstyle, unattractive face, Poor choice of clothes. But recently (in my 2nd yr MBA) I gave it a thought and changed my hairstyle, got rid of glasses, wore clothes in which I look good and a little skincare.

After that people in general started noticing me more and few girls staring at me too long (I checked multiple times and I am positive on this). Few guys said that I have changed, a couple of girls directly complemented me on my looks. And I noticed consistent hints from a couple of girls (again I am positive) and I was interested in one of the girls who was giving most hints but I did not know how to respond. Eventually she lost interest and I can see it on her face.

Introverted me was only able to initiate some conversation with those girls, but the conversation dies very fast even when they were giving me clear hints. They are really cool girls. I don't know what to do. Help me convert those hints and exactly when do I make a move and what should I do?

I am an introvert. I have very few friends but I don't feel comfortable around most of them for various reasons. Sometimes I feel uncomfortable when I spend too many days at my home with parents as well. I feel like my parent's view of life and relations is very different than mine. I have very few friends from opposite gender in my life but we only talk when we meet only when our mutual friends plan it.

I think if I marry it will cause problems for me and also my partner and I want to avoid all that by just not getting married. Also, I don't like the idea of having kids because I feel like bringing a new person to this unfair world without their consent. I have to educate them, teach them what is good and what is bad when I am not sure about my life. Alse, If I ever have kids I should only provide them the best which in today's world is very expensive. And looking at the current political scenario and all the changes happening I don't think people will live happily as they did earlier.

I was never in any relationship with a girl, I confessed my feelings to a girl from school who is a single mother, but she never replied and ghosted me. It took me a couple of years to recover from that. During that time a girl was giving mixed signals so when I finally recovered fully from the previous one I asked her out on a date which she did not agree to. I believe wrong timing and she lost interest before I got interested or it was completely foolish of me to think she was interested.

Also looking at the relationships and marriages around me I don't think I will find a person for me. So I don't think I have the patience to find the right person. I think it will too tiring.

To satisfy my sexual needs I am paying for it (yes pr*stitution), I feel that it is simpler than getting into a relationship and doing it. I don't feel wrong about it.

I like to be myself, but I was never alone for long a period. So, I am wondering if I am missing anything. Just want your honest opinion

TL; DR : Introvert-not interested in marriage-single whole life but tried - paying for s*x - not guilty.