40 F & 42 M Tell Me Your Honest Opinion, Please
I have been in my current relationship for over a year now … from day 1 my partner keeps saying it’s okay to cheat as long as you don’t get caught. I thought he was joking, until we had a short breakup and within 4 days he was trying to rekindle things with his ex. They actually ended up having sex within a week. Mind you he told me I was his soulmate … his future wife.
I forgave him since “technically” we had a break BUT 4 days?? Really!!
So today during “the act” … I could tell he wasn’t into it. He stops during the act and tells me I can be intimate with someone else as long as he doesn’t find out.
I feel hurt and rejected. Thoughts please??