u/Caramalstick

I didn't really go to school in April and may cause of health complications. I'm june I used to attend school on alternative days. Now my subject teachers are pressuring me to attend school saying that I have a lot of leaves and I'm average at studies so I have to attend (I'm an above average student).

Idk but I'm really scared of facing consequences cause the teachers can't even teach properly and it's just a waste of time. Also everyone hates me there so its the last place I want to be at.

My school is the worst place ever. Some teachers don't know how to teach , some teach wrong stuff , and the ones who know how to teach spend the whole period talking to the popular guys. Even the students are horrendous and all of them spread rumours about me.

In no world am i benefiting from going to school daily. In fact , it's really affecting my studies for both boards and clat. Idk what to do tbh I've already taken a lot of leaves cause of my bad health and now my teachers are haunting me to come to school.

Should I keep taking leaves or actually attend school? I really don't feel like going there. One of my classmates only comes just to give exams (it's not a dummy school)

Long story short, i procrastinated alot but now I wanna study cause my exams are in 10 days. Can I complete the first three chapters of partnership in 10 days...? If yes, how??

Hey everyone I'm 16yr old girl and mostly everyone in my class hates me. They talk trash about me and spread rumours about me (for e.g., a guy I used to be friends with spread rumours that I sexualise girls. Another one said he has chats of me sexting etc.)

I don't really think much of it but sometimes it just feels suffocating and I can't stand going to school at all. I have only one friend in the entire class. Otherwise no one talks to me. How do I deal with this :( I'm tired of this bs.

Pata hai aaj kya hua? So I used to like this one guy friend of mine jisko maine do hafte pehle confess kara tha. I didn't like him that much but I just wanted to get it off my chest and stop his mixed signals. Also he was getting to know this one girl so I wanted to clear this out before they get into a talking stage. And well I got rejected. After two weeks , he finally texted me today. Tbh mujhe usse bilkul baat karne ka man nahi hai not because of the rejection but because I feel uncomfortable and weird talking to him bohot pehle se. What should I do? if I ghost him will he think that I am just crying over the rejection?

I just suck at studying now. I was pretty good at it a few months ago. Idk what happened but I just can't. Ppl say sit down to study and you'll eventually start but that never works for me. All those pomodoro or wtv techniques don't work for me. I have no idea if it's a mental problem or just a huge break but it's just fucking me up real bad. It's the most important year of my life and I can't afford to waste it. I'm clueless about what to do. I just feel like a sore loser and a huge disappointment atp. Not studying is making me go insane. If someone has advice or has faced a similar situation but has overcome it , please help me out. I'm so tired of this.

I just suck at studying now. I was pretty good at it a few months ago. Idk what happened but I just can't. Ppl say sit down to study and you'll eventually start but that never works for me. All those pomodoro or wtv techniques don't work for me. I have no idea if it's a mental problem or just a huge burnout but it's just fucking me up real bad. It's the most important year of my life and I can't afford to waste it. I'm clueless about what to do. I just feel like a sore loser and a huge disappointment atp. Not studying is making me go insane.

So today at like 3:30am i confessed to my guy friend , who's really close to me (he was also my ex's friend tho idc). Thought he understood me well and that's what made me gain feelings for him. He said he doesn't feel the same way for me but respects my feelings and appreciates me being open abt them. Tbh feels like a weight has been lifted off my chest. Now I won't misunderstand his texts , the way he talks etc. tho everyone told me tht he liked me , I did feel a sense of rejection from miles away. Either way , I feel happy and lwk moved on.

Pata hai aaj kya hua? during dinner , I confronted my mom about calling me a wh*re (r****) when I was 11. The Convo went on like this-

Me : why'd you call me a wh*re when I was 11? Do you regret that?

Mom : why would I regret it? You were always frustrating me , never helped me.

Me : is calling your daughter a wh*re cause of some chores justified?

Mom : you never helped me with anything

Me : I'm asking you yes or no? Please say no for the sake of my peace

Mom : did you become one just by me saying it?

Me : no. I didn't. But do you know what kind of trauma that gave me? Did you think saying that I present my body to men at 11 yrs old?

Mom : I never said that

Me : but you did

Mom : (started ranting about how bad of a daughter I am)

I get triggered by the R word whenever I listen to it. My mom called me that like 5-6 times when I was 11-12. Hearing this , my brother caught up with this word and used to call me that whenever we used to argue. It traumatized me like hell because along w this word came physical abuse from my mom and my brother.

I just can't understand...why can't Indian parents ever say sorry? Say that they regret something they said? Admit to their mistake? Do they not understand our trauma? Do they not understand our feelings? The fact that we have dignity too? Do they not see our tears? Idk the answer tbh.

Today during dinner , I confronted my mom about calling me a wh**e (r****) when I was 11. The Convo went on like this-

Me : why'd you call me a wh**e when I was 11? Do you regret that?

Mom : why would I regret it? You were always frustrating me , never helped me.

Me : is calling your daughter a wh**e cause of some chores justified?

Mom : you never helped me with anything

Me : I'm asking you yes or no? Please say no for the sake of my peace

Mom : did you become one just by me saying it?

Me : no. I didn't. But do you know what kind of trauma that gave me? Did you think saying that I present my body to men at 11 yrs old?

Mom : I never said that

Me : but you did

Mom : (started ranting about how bad of a daughter I am)

I get triggered by the R word whenever I listen to it. My mom called me that like 5-6 times when I was 11-12. Hearing this , my brother caught up with this word and used to call me that whenever we used to argue. It traumatized me like hell because along w this word came physical abuse from my mom and my brother.

I just can't understand...why can't Indian parents ever say sorry? Say that they regret something they said? Admit to their mistake? Do they not understand our trauma? Do they not understand our feelings? The fact that we have dignity too? Do they not see our tears? Idk the answer tbh.

Today during dinner , I confronted my mom about calling me a whore (r****) when I was 11. The Convo went on like this-

Me : why'd you call me a whore when I was 11? Do you regret that?

Mom : why would I regret it? You were always frustrating me , never helped me.

Me : is calling your daughter a whore cause of some chores justified?

Mom : you never helped me with anything

Me : I'm asking you yes or no? Please say no for the sake of my peace

Mom : did you become one just by me saying it?

Me : no. I didn't. But do you know what kind of trauma that gave me? Did you think saying that I present my body to men at 11 yrs old?

Mom : I never said that

Me : but you did

Mom : (started ranting about how bad of a daughter I am)

I get triggered by the R word whenever I listen to it. My mom called me that like 5-6 times when I was 11-12. Hearing this , my brother caught up with this word and used to call me that whenever we used to argue. It traumatized me like hell because along w this word came physical abuse from my mom and my brother.

I just can't understand...why can't Indian parents ever say sorry? Say that they regret something they said? Admit to their mistake? Do they not understand our trauma? Do they not understand our feelings? The fact that we have dignity too? Do they not see our tears? Idk the answer tbh.

For the past 7-8 months I've had a bad eyesight. In December I told my mom dad about my bad eyesight and how it's affecting my studies , they ignored wtv I said. From December to may , I've told them 1000s of time Abt my eyesight and begged them to get me a pair of glasses but still no response. When I asked them to give me money for the glasses and that I'll go by myself ,they said they don't have any. Yesterday on my brother's birthday they spent around 6000 in total. Today I asked them to get me an eye checkup atleast and they again refused and then we got into an argument and now m just crying like an idiot. They want me to study but how am I supposed to study when I can't even see?

Is providing their child with basic necessities a challenge too? Idk. It just frustrated me alot knowing that we're pretty well off and they're still acting like ts.

Hey guys I am currently in my final year of schooling and to be honest I am so done with studying now. Last year I got above average grades (84%, it's considered a lot since my school's exams are pretty rigid) and actually enjoyed studying. Now I can't study at all, be it my favourite subject. I feel guilty and regretful for not studying but I can't help it. It feels like something is tying me up and I just can't make myself to get up and study. What do I do? I am really frustrated of this now and if I don't lock in, I'll ruin the most important year of my school life and won't get a good university

Hey guys I'm a 16f and my brother is a year older than me that is 17. Our parents prefer him more than me and both of us are quite aware of that , in fact, kind of used to that. Anyways after my 11th birthday, my parents never celebrated my birthday. They even used to forget Abt it. I used to go to sum local shop and buy a 10rs wala lotte choco pie and that was my birthday cake. I celebrated it all alone with tears in my eyes. Last year I asked my mom for mere 300rs (i already had 1000 of my own) so that I can go out w my friends. She rejected my request and even after I begged her , she said no and said I'm not allowed to go out. I spent my entire day crying but nobody seemed to care.

Tomorrow is my brother's 18th birthday and today I was hearing about how they are gonna go out with him , order an unnecessarily huge cake , buy him 5-6 books (which cost around 5000 in total) and give him money to hangout with his friends. Then when I got a lil upset after hearing that , they started bashing me with comparisons of how better my brother is than me and how "blessed" they are to have him.

I don't understand their expectations from me cause I clearly do much more than my brother but still my efforts are invisible to them. Maybe it's the fact that I'm a girl , idk. They've never paid attention to me. They always remind me of how they wanted to abort me (on my birthday) as some sort of hilarious joke.