Looking for ADU/Casita/room for rent

So I found a room to rent and everything seemed fine, but she decided to lock my access to the shared spaces (kicthen/living room) which would essentially trap me if there was a fire in the garage (my only exit). I had to get out of that situation, so I am staying with my sister until I find a place.

It was so unexpected and I’m so grateful for my sister and her husband for taking me in, but I need to find something soon to get out of their hair. (Ironic because my brother-in-law is bald).

Budget is 800-950 a month. Anyone know a place or someone looking for a roommate? I’m 36f single and very low maintenance.

Thanks in advance.

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u/CassidyKane3 — 1 day ago

Singles events?

Are there any good singles events in the area? New to town and looking to meet people. 36 f never married, no children. Seems like a silly disclaimer to have to make but I would like to meet someone single.

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u/CassidyKane3 — 9 days ago

ISO roommate

Looking for a roommate. Found an apartment, 2 bedroom 2 bath for 2100 a month, it’d be split in half plus utilities split in half. Need to move in before August 3. Please let me know if you or anyone you know is looking for an apartment/roommate!

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u/CassidyKane3 — 29 days ago

Thinking about starting a stream channel

But I don’t even know how to get started.

For some background, I’m a noob. I’m so new to every game I’m currently playing and I suck at everything. I just get owned. I thought it would be cool to start a channel that’s for people who want to get into gaming but don’t know where to start. Like “come fail and learn with me!”

Also, I don’t fit in with other “gamer girls”. I don’t wear loads of makeup, I don’t show my boobs and I honestly don’t care what people think of me. I don’t have a “gamer set up”, I have a cheap laptop I bought from Best Buy and will be streaming from my tiny apartment. (I don’t even have a computer desk lol). Thought it could be kinda funny to play up on this and just try to be the exact opposite of the traditional “gamer girl”.

Good idea? Stupid idea? Just kinda looking for advice. Thanks in advance!

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u/CassidyKane3 — 2 months ago

New to the game

Heard it’s a good one so I downloaded it to try. Any tips or suggestions? I’m kind of just clicking on things as they glow but I’m not really sure what all the little nuances are.

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u/CassidyKane3 — 2 months ago

Batting cages?

Are there any indoor batting cages in the area? Or outdoor. I know Mulligans has some but just wondering if that’s the only spot in town?

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u/CassidyKane3 — 2 months ago
▲ 5 r/Bible

Question about sins forgiven

So in Genesis, it says Eve received the punishment of painful childbirth for eating the apple. But when Jesus died on the cross, he was forgiving us for all our sins. Why are we still dealing with painful childbirth when our sins were forgiven?
Just something I was thinking about today.

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u/CassidyKane3 — 3 months ago

Roommates?

Hi y’all. I’m going to moving down there in the next couple months and will need to find a couple roommates. I don’t have any restrictions or weird rules—I do have a big fluffy labradoodle so a dog lover would be ideal. Please let me know if you or anyone you know is looking for a place to live!

Y’all are the best. Can’t wait to be your neighbor!

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u/CassidyKane3 — 3 months ago
▲ 65 r/infj

So mentally drained

At what point do we stop trying to be something to people that we’re not? I feel like every relationship in my life has been me giving 100% of myself to people who don’t want it and I’m exhausted.

How do we learn to keep those bits of ourselves reserved for people who do want it? Do people actually want it? I’m beginning to think no one does.

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u/CassidyKane3 — 3 months ago

36f Southern CA

Hi out there. Thought I’d give this a shot.

I am currently working from home for a credit union but on my way to becoming a High School English teacher. As you can see from my photo, I’m an artist at heart. All forms of art—painting, photography, tattoos, etc. and reading/writing of course.
My walk with faith has been a recent one. I was in a really dark place and found God one day walking my dog. Since then, I have been devoted to getting closer to Him. My dating past is not something I’m particularly proud of; I was in an emotionally abusive, toxic relationship for 13 years and still have some scars I’m working through from him, but I feel like I’m in a good place personally to start putting myself out there again.
I am looking for a man who puts God first. A strong willed caretaker (emotionally, physically, spiritually). My cousin Matt was my best friend and I lost him 7 years ago in a motorcycle accident, but he always used to say he was praying I’d meet a man that was opposite of my ex, someone strong and kind, who is capable of reciprocating the kind of deep, soulful love that I have for people.
Ideally, he would be between 35-40 and lives within driving distance. I don’t want something long distance as I believe spending time together is important in building a strong foundation for a relationship. Idk if he’s out there and I certainly don’t know if he’s on this subreddit, but I pray for him every day because if God made him for me, he’s probably going through his own trials.
Thanks for listening.

u/CassidyKane3 — 3 months ago

Mother’s Day was difficult…

Let me start this by saying wanting kids is only a recent revelation. When I was younger, I was happy being childless. But now, after turning 36, I realized something is missing and it’s being a mom. I went to church with my mom and listened to our pastor talk about how children are a gift from God and I couldn’t shake this overwhelming feeling that I was missing out on that gift.

I suppose I am just looking for some validation, that I’m not alone in this frustration of “dating” in today’s world when everything is so superficial. Are there men out there still who want families and stay at home mothers to raise their children in God-centered households or do I give up on that ideal? Between the horrors of online dating and working a full-time job that leaves me zero free time to go meet people authentically, I’m feeling the ticking of the clock stronger than ever.

Am I alone out here? Is this thing on? Hello out there??

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u/CassidyKane3 — 3 months ago