u/Cautious-Bedroom-573

How long did you wait before trying to get pregnant again after your third c-section? I'm absolutely terrified of c-section scar rupture during a future pregnancy. But my last pregnancy our son was very sadly stillborn and although nothing will ever replace our beautiful boy, I feel like it would be healing to be able to bring another (hopefully healthy) child into the world.

The only worry is I'm 35, struggled more with each pregnancy, if we wait a couple of years before trying again I'd be around 38 before baby was born and whilst I know people have children older than that, it feels quite a lot for me to have a newborn at that age

I've also been a bit put off by one of the midwives saying sometimes there's no signs of c-section scar rupture and it can take the life of both mum and baby quite quickly if it's not noticed. I'm scared to put myself through that

Sorry for the ramble x

Does anyone have a diastolic number that runs on the lower side? I'm under cardiology for a couple of things, I've had scans and have no structural heart issues. Sometimes I feel weak and lightheaded and sometimes I feel okay. I did a few BP readings yesterday as I was feeling off, they were as follows:

- 98/61

- 98/51

- 97/52

- 95/54

- 96/57

- 103/58

- 98/62

Done one check this morning and that was 93/59

I should add that I'm 24 weeks pregnant, although this is an ongoing issue. No one has ever been concerned. My 'normal' diastolic reading sits between 60 & 70, it's very rare for it to be above 70. My normal systolic is usually between 100 & 115. It really worries me as to why my diastolic is often low. When I search online it seems to suggest underlying issues, but I know I don't have any...

I feel like everything I actually want to eat is a listeria risk and I'm fussy anyway, so I'm really struggling with food at the moment. I'm not eating very healthily which isn't good. Needing some inspiration for quick and easy snacks and meals.

I don't like anything dairy except red leicester cheese. I don't like eating fruit I'll only have it in smoothies. Don't like nuts, seeds, avocado... I've searched online for pregnancy snacks and meals and it's all stuff I won't eat 🙈

I've just been for a private reassurance scan to see baby. I had the dating scan at hospital two weeks ago and measured 13 weeks, so I should be 15 weeks today. However today I was told I'm measuring more like 14 weeks which has worried me a bit as baby has always had good growth up to now. Has anyone experienced similar?

They checked baby all over and everything looked absolutely fine and was developing normally, heart and heartbeat looked good and baby was very active but that measurement has really worried me now 😫